Is honesty and respect really that much more difficult than manipulation and lying? SMH

janetheautomaton · 2021-01-09T05:21:33+00:00

A man will weep into your shoulder as he Tinders behind your back.

Samvanderkamp123 · 2021-01-09T05:20:28+00:00

My experience has taught me that my ex used anger to get his own way. It was fake anger, used to bully me. He used it to shut me down, to literally silence me, and then to do whatever he wanted.

This “rage” men show isn’t on display at work or around guys bigger and stronger than they are. Interestingly, they never kick their own vehicle.

souredskittles · 2021-01-09T05:19:59+00:00

I didn’t believe it until I experienced it. Swore up and down he didn’t cheat 🙄 cried all day smh don’t believe everything they say

Pasdepromesses · 2021-01-09T07:39:11+00:00

She dated my ex fiancé 🙄

These men do you wrong, have a meltdown about it and ask to be comforted like they are the victim.

oscine23 · 2021-01-09T07:36:29+00:00

One of my very first boyfriends cried during our breakup and I was so moved. I told my mom about it, and she quickly disabused me of the notion that a man's tears are in any way a reflection of his love. She was right. She's always right. I love my mom.

Shoddy_Glam · 2021-01-09T11:54:16+00:00

This! This shit blows my fucking mind. Then they’ll have you so gaslit that you don’t even realize any of this till years later when you’re still reliving trying to figure out what you did wrong!

National_Worth_8305 · 2021-01-09T11:54:12+00:00

I had all the proof and screenshots that he was cheating on me, showed it to him and he still continued to lie to my face making me question my reality, flip the entire situation on me and make it all my fault for even accusing him of cheating. I hate how he decided to drag me along with lies and manipulation. So glad I broke up with him before I completely lost myself in that relationship.

Ornery_Inspection · 2021-01-09T12:48:48+00:00

Those same men will label us women as emotional and claim we are not fit to lead. -_-

Sexypinkfluffball · 2021-01-09T14:50:07+00:00

Lmao my ex, literally even pulled the “Im going to have a panic attack if you don’t move back in with me” all whilst waving his expired meds in my face, after punching walls and calling me all sorts of names then wondered why I didn’t come back. Men, smh.

warinmymind94 · 2021-01-09T09:55:14+00:00

yup he did all of the above when I found out he was cheating, because I found her HUGE 3x panties in the bed. and he admitted that he had his "friend over to the apartment for dinner and Netflix" which caused him to be late to come pick me up for our date.

so there was the chick with the 3xl panties and there was another woman on top of that. I was still dating him for THREE MONTHS while he was social media official with her.

when I confronted him about cheating with the 3xl "female friend" he threw a FIT and got violent. he sobbed and cried, he gaslit me and said I was making stuff up and imagining things, that I needed therapy and was paranoid and jealous. bro, you always hung out with her one on one, her mom invites you to dinner for just the two of you, you admitted you had over to the apartment for dinner, the one time I met you she was flirting with you, and you cant deny the huge underwear I found in the bed and the strand of hair (a different length and completely different color than mine) that was Undoubtedly hers.

trust your gut. I waited to "proof" even though I knew the whole time but I was doubting myself. your gut knows.

Lagaceta2020 · 2021-01-09T11:48:47+00:00

This exactly happened to me 😨😨😨😨😨

med10crity · 2021-01-09T07:03:16+00:00

You 👏 need 👏 therapy 👏 not 👏 a 👏 girlfriend 👏

Truer words have never been spoken!!

potlacedwithcray · 2021-01-09T06:32:08+00:00

This is what I thought with my ex. Now he's with someone else like it was nothing.

rubyrae14 · 2021-01-09T08:47:50+00:00

Been there!

2021-01-10T01:42:22+00:00

Yet this is the logical non emotional gender 💀

Title	Is honesty and respect really that much more difficult than manipulation and lying? SMH
Author	mermaid1120
Upvotes	1932
Comments	54
Date	January 9, 2021 5:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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