Men Don’t Get Compliments because you rarely do anything impressive. Maybe start going to work with clothes that fit.

hoIds_up_spork · 2020-02-07T10:13:10+00:00

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butterflymeadowzz · 2020-02-07T09:42:48+00:00

I'm really tired of their lying and fucking whining, tbh.

Let's get real here. Do women receive genuine compliments more than men do? I don't believe it. When men compliment women, it's generally a woman they are creeping on and/or trying to sleep with. Do they compliment (or even notice) women they don't want to sleep with? Do they dish out the compliments to their unattractive female coworkers, mothers and sisters? To the woman they've been in a relationship with for five years and take for granted? Fuck no. Why do they believe they're entitled to random compliments from us? Women don't compliment men because we mind our own fucking business. They should take note.

TullyPride · 2020-02-07T07:47:00+00:00

there was a thread posted by a 17 years old boy who tried to kiss his 25 year old female interviewer(a serious university acceptance interview) because he thought she was being flirty with him! just because she laughed at his jokes and smiled at him!

so no, please dont compliment or even look at a mans direction because he might get the wrong idea. all the mixed signals men are talking about is actually the interference of their porn sick fantasies with reality that makes them ignore the obvious body language signs.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-07T10:26:02+00:00

I work with four GROSSLY overweight (some balding/all bearded) men and no attractive, fit men. Luckily I remember that "not all men" are nasty fucks when the UPS/FEDEX guys come in looking like a snack. The only thing I even see fit to compliment a man on is how he smells. I may say "I noticed you got your haircut", but men haircuts almost always look more weird than good. They have the barber trim them as short as possible to prolong needing another haircut soon. You know the look.

You can't really compliment a man without him thinking you're hitting on him. You can't even be nice without them thinking that🙄

circescircus · 2020-02-07T14:33:23+00:00

We do compliment men in our lives. I compliment my fiancee all the time.

Maybe I don't compliment random dudes on the street, because they're going to think I want to fuck them.

TullyPride · 2020-02-07T16:04:33+00:00

Additionally, absolutely nothing is stopping men from being nice to other men. Nothing but their own homophobia and fragile egos. Why is it women's duty to make strange men or acquaintances feel better?

I love how anti feminist men always gripe about this but then when women point out how emotionally hollow so many male friendships are, how men never support each other in ways that matter, suddenly they're all "hahaha male friendships aren't like women's, we don't need an hour of touchy feely nonsense to enjoy each other's company, we can just sit around playing video games for an hour and never say a word".

Two hours later: "Society won't let men have emotions or compliment each other without shaming us!!!"

Scotsburd · 2020-02-07T17:46:21+00:00

I work in a professional environment where formal dress is de rigueur. The amount of disgusting single men with unironed grubby shirts that used to be white, frayed collars and cuffs, shirts that barely button up the front (giving a generous view of hairy man-gut), shiny, unwashed worn trousers is noticeable. Buy a new shirt Kevin, spend that £10. It's not that difficult. You earn more than enough.

2020-02-07T15:09:18+00:00

Men get exactly the same amount of compliments as women who put no effort into their appearance and just throw on dirty clothes and don't style their hair: 0.

Oh wait, those women dont even exist to men. They only see the stylish woman who does her hair and makeup everyday and spends money on nice clothes getting lots of compliments and they feel they deserve as many compliments as her despite wearing the same dirty t-shirt everyday.

At the end of the day men are just jealous of women friendships and how kind and supportive we are of one another. We LIVE to make our girl friends feel happy and have a good self esteem. Men wish they had that but instead of making men friendships better they think women need to be the ones doing the emotional labour of also feeding a random man's ego.

The entitlement.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-02-07T16:40:51+00:00

We don't give men compliments for the same reason men don't give compliments to each other.

NotScarJo · 2020-02-07T21:12:18+00:00

I wasn't even that picky when I started dating. I kept an open mind. I just expected you to be decent human beings, with your shit together. You know, a job, a place and a car that's not a fucking biohazardous dump, regular showering, being nice and not negging, that kind of stuff. Yet none of you could meet those basic standards.

AntiCircles · 2020-02-07T14:52:46+00:00

Amazing

sweatydeath · 2020-02-07T21:27:25+00:00

Jesus christ you made me laugh so loud at work

sweatydeath · 2020-02-07T08:57:53+00:00

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Title	Men Don’t Get Compliments because you rarely do anything impressive. Maybe start going to work with clothes that fit.
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	275
Comments	65
Date	February 7, 2020 7:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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