Not being a rapist doesn’t deserve a prize 🌟✨

MixWide · 2020-08-22T13:34:03+00:00

Not all men rape, but all men benefit from how the threat of rape keeps women quiet and compliant.

Not all men rape, but all men enjoy the privilege of living in a world where women are less free to travel, to explore, and to compete, because of the threat of rape.

Not all men rape, but all men benefit from how the bar is set so goddamn low for men that not raping women somehow is brag-worthy.

Not all men rape, but all men benefit from the actions of those who do.

KetoKittenAround · 2020-08-22T01:55:45+00:00

Facts

sadcello · 2020-08-22T03:57:00+00:00

Exactly. Men say they will never rape a girl or have never raped a girl but ask them if they've had sex with drunk girls and they'll happily and proudly tell you they did. They're rapists.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-08-22T03:08:55+00:00

My not so feminist guilty pleasure is a show called “Lucifer”.

There’s a scene where she’s super drunk throwing herself at him and even gets naked (off screen,) at one point, he still can’t do it even though he wants her cause it doesn’t feel right. I mean she even crawls into bed with him. Still doesn’t do it.

...cause that shit would be rape. She wasn’t acting like her normal self. Was insecure, self wallowing, and wanted validation after her ex dumped her via text. Normally she finds this dude repulsive. I’m glad they depicted it that way.

Men will find any excuse to rape a woman.

dragon_wolf4 · 2020-08-22T08:16:56+00:00

They are just shitty terrible people along with being rapey. Anyone who sees someone in an absolutely vulnerable situation, which includes a butt ass naked drunk woman, and decide to take advantage of that, is someone completely devoid of even an ounce of decency/morality. People like that should not be allowed to roam free in the world. If laws related to women's safety were actually rightfully enforced, then they would all be behind bars for being the criminals that they are.

cupittycakes · 2020-08-22T09:26:57+00:00

Damn. This post was hard for me

Y'all ladies and the dreadful experiences/talk of rape...

Like especially the drunk/wasted kind

Bringing up memories of my past rapes that I usually keep stuffed away

I'm an idiot but also f*** those dudes 😞

Too personal and painful to actually share, but feeling connected to you ladies bc we be going through some things

group hug

vmuzondi · 2020-08-22T06:07:18+00:00

Also normal men do rape. Let’s not lie and think this is the exception. Many men are taught from birth women are property worldwide. Rape is misogynistic men’s way of justifying punishing women who don’t want them or who don’t follow the “rules.” It would be pretty hard for men as a class to change so drastically without completely eradicating the patriarchy.

rivkadidit · 2020-08-22T14:31:36+00:00

But MOST MEN endorse rape culture. MOST are okay with pornography, some even prostitution, nowadays. So, I think if a majority endorse the culture of rape, they support rape, too.

fastidiousadipose · 2020-08-22T03:39:17+00:00

Straight up

vagabond-playing · 2020-08-22T15:42:14+00:00

Trash will always out itself, eventually

dollymyfolly · 2020-08-22T16:11:23+00:00

Exactly! (I love imagining that Arya Stark is saying this btw )

Title	Not being a rapist doesn’t deserve a prize 🌟✨
Author	eng2fly
Upvotes	2499
Comments	36
Date	August 22, 2020 1:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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