Again, my mother has been pestering me to give OLD another chance. I’ve actually stopped using these apps for almost half a year (6 months in January). I made a promise to myself to not go on those apps for as long as possible. It’s honestly quite annoying since every opening conversation with her is about OLD.

I no longer find the idea of OLD to be appealing. I don’t feel like a person on that app. I feel like it’s a catalogue for LVMs to prey on girls.

EDIT: She tried pestering me again after dinner. Same conversation. Same song and dance lol

I read her OLD statistics. She was still in denial since my relative had great luck with these apps. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I even took it as far telling her that I can go back on these apps and when I get raped, I’ll blame her, because she’s been bugging me about this. I even told her that while other mothers want their children to be safe and stay away from dating, she’s the one pushing her daughter and putting her daughter into dangerous positions. She got so defensive and lied about ever telling to use these apps. She ran away to her room. Lol She hates confrontation and will choose to ignore people when she’s wrong or caught in her own lies.

Thankfully, my dad heard the whole thing about the statistics, her asking about my love life, and her trying to get me to use those apps. He talked to her and said that she won’t be bothering me about this again. Let’s hope that it’s for real this time.