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[–]muricaxoxoFDS Newbie199 points200 points201 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm in this photo and I don't like it 😂
[–]IOUAndSometimesWhyFDS Newbie148 points149 points150 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
*Cher voice* If I could turn back time... 🎶
[–]EmpressOfDanknessFDS Newbie79 points80 points81 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This meme is too damn loud
[–]Blacklea20FDS Newbie193 points194 points195 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Actually it’s the guys I’ve slept with that should be embarrassed about their qualities.
[–]ethnicallyabiguousFDS Newbie[S] 53 points54 points55 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL. You’re right.
[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They shouldn't have bothered getting undressed and just stuck with the Netflix part.
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just cackled out loud and scared the bejeezus out of my cat. Truth!
[–]MaschinenherzFDS Newbie80 points81 points82 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Really true... but all these bad memories, bad decisions... it made me grow. I survived it, I survived the heartbreak, I got smarter, I gathered experiences... I won't fall for bastards like these again. NarcMen, Psychopaths, dumbasses who only want to get their dicks wet... no chance anymore. I know all of these types now, it made me strong enough to resist and send them to hell. I grew on it. They didn't won over me. I have won over them.
[–]tinykittymamaFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Feels like I could have written this, word for exact word.
No one prepared me for men like this, and I was so young and naive that I fell for the pretty faces, empty compliments, and sad stories. But now I know better, and I will make sure that the girls and women in my life will be prepared in all the ways that I wasn't.
We won.
[–]MaschinenherzFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely! ♥ I am happy you're stronger now too, dear. Please feel hugged! Knowing the red flags is so important, and in these dire times, even life-saving.
It's so sad no one prepared us. I mean, of course we got told by our parents "don't get into strangers cars" and all, which is absolutely correct and vital even during dating- don't get too quickly into a guys car, but that's just an example. But no one tells us "don't let them hit you, don't let them yell at you, don't let them call you names" (I mean, my mother of course told me hitting is not okay but still, I haven't heard it from other girls they got told that by their parents).
In sex education classes we're told to be "careful", not letting others do things with us we don't like, but still, we don't get educated about the pressure we must endure to be "sexually attractive" and how wrong it is, and we're not warned about the pressure we must endure when our partner wants sex and we don't.
We're never getting educated by anyone about the mental abuse, the manipulation we have to face in our lives when a man just wants to get us in bed. I wish I didn't gave in to an older guys begging (which, as I still didn't want sex with him that night, not resulted in cuddling but in a absolute neglect, which shocked me so much that I then agreed. Not being loved feels horrible, and with narcisstic parents like mine, you grave the love of just anyone, no matter how bad or even evil they are!) I wish I didn't give in into other guys manipulation and begging. But it won't happen again, I am stronger than them now. I know more than them now. I know to look for peoples hearts, not outside appearances, not social status, and I don't do things for them anymore just to be loved.
People still think it's necessary to have sex to "grow up" early, but having the mindset of an actual adult, having empathy and praciticing self-love and self-care? Na, no one talks about this. Why?
As much as I wish my sex life would have been more positive, as much it taught me now to what I want to teach others: be strong, don't let anyone manipulate you into anything, no matter what. Only follow your own gut feelings, and talk about problems. If they can't talk to you about something and or even get upset, then ditch them. Don't be afraid to talk with your parents or friends. Get help by people who have empathacy and knowledge.
I hope my niece will have enough trust in me to talk about anything that bothers her. My sister reads stories to her even though she is only 4 months old right now, and I am planning to buy her an expensive, beautifully illustrated book with educational stories where they learn something about morale, such as... "never trust someone again who once lied to you!", you know, these beautiful old stories where people are animals who tell important things about life. I hope she learns from an early age to not let people abuse and manipulate. I hope she's paying much attention to these stories because I would probably do very, very bad things to any man who does her wrong...
[–]candigumFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We definitely won ♥️ We learn from our past experiences and definitely will not fall for those tricks anymore
[–]HaveNoIdeaWhatToPickFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Beautifully written <3
[–]MaschinenherzFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
♥
[–]flimm_FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you, I’ve saved this comment to reread whenever I feel bad about my past relationships 💗
[–]MaschinenherzFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
aww, so sweet! ♥I hope you will never have a bad relationship with a bad person ever again!
[–]DaytonaMoscowThrowaway Account60 points61 points62 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't even consider giving attention to someone who is lower quality than you. I can't believe so many girls are okay with being treated like trash.
[–]GoldeneAnanasFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mind, there are still scrotes with baffling actor skills out there. That's why I've added some level of financial investment to my requirements.
[–]onemoredaydreamFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm embarrassed about times I was careless in the past and treated myself and my body too cavalierly :( But I suppose that's really the same as what she said.
[–]Lopsidedbutinvisible9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For myself, I knew I needed to have casual sex to get any curiosity out of my system so I wouldnt cheat on someone amazing when they did come around.
I dont regret the times I got involved with Low Quality guys, I regret when I thought I met High Quality and treated them as such and they werent.
[–]lilbobabean_queenFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FOR REAAALL.
[–]rsmsmFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But Tig is a lesbian, that is not her in the picture, and her twitter is done by her team.
[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't be embarrassed about the quality of guys I've slept with, when the quantity is 0 😎
[–]GoldeneAnanasFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, the last one was at least a good dildo on legs. Or robotic 37°C tempered realdoll.
Just wasnt man enough for a relationship.
[–]loudest_gussetFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everything in my body cringes from the memories.
[–]missmelissa187FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yessss
[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Triggered and attacked 😂
[–]ucouldahadasandwichFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The accuracy 😅
[–]ferretcatFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know if I can even show my face after being exposed like this lmao
[–]newuser20202020FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes and thanks to FDS, will not be engaging in casual sex any more. LVMs don't deserve my time and also why should I expose myself to the risk of a STD?
[–]shadowwallflower1FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel personally attacked by this post. Too true!
[–]pineycitrusforestFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She perfectly verbalized my feelings on my sexual past.
[–]LizardInFirstFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m not ashamed but would prefer not to tell my boyfriend the number. Thankfully he is HV and wouldn’t dream of asking!
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