Saw this elsewhere and yup

bioqueen53 · 2022-01-16T16:37:28+00:00

That's why they always come back

daisies4dayz · 2022-01-16T21:42:13+00:00

There’s a good bit of truth to it from studies. Essentially men tend to feel “the hit” of the breakup much later.

Women tend to grieve immediately- crying, ice cream, talking to her girlfriends about it, processing it, etc. and then start to heal.

Whereas men tend to shove down any feelings about it. “Celebrate”, going out partying, hooking up with other girls, not talking about or processing it.

And eventually down the line, maybe a few months later it bubbles to the surface and hits them like a ton of bricks. A lot of times this is when they start reaching back out and stuff.

randomgirl34861 · 2022-01-16T17:53:43+00:00

I saw this like 6 years ago when I was going through an awful break up and saved it to my phone. It’s so true!

lostmillenia · 2022-01-16T18:01:05+00:00

He texted the other day, "my life just feels incomplete without you."

"No need for a statement back to me" "Just wanted to tell you that"

Surreeeeee 🤡 not incomplete enough.

ConstantNurse · 2022-01-17T01:48:38+00:00

I grieved for about a month after I ended an 11 year abusive relationship but I also did my best to keep pushing forward.

The ZVEx went silent and his sisters later told me that he tried OLD/philandering around while sending texts about “how he was going to therapy” and “I’m making myself better for you”. I never responded to the texts but kept them for P.O evidence.

I was terrified of me changing my mind and wanting to go back to him, therapy helped keep me away from him. It took about a year before I stopped getting the urge to send texts about new info in shared interests (Never sent to him, but you know the urge when you see something and go “I wonder what they think of this”).

During this time, my friend group expanded out. I started traveling, got my degree and started working. I haven’t looked back. NVEx stalked me for the better part of two years, to the point I thought he would commit a murder/suicide (The DV detective I worked with was concerned as his behaviour was getting more desperate and erratic which is a sign that something might go down).

Thank fucking god for getting away and moving. I feel completely free.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-16T22:36:37+00:00

If these came with thought bubbles, it would go something like this for him:

First Day: I’m gonna get so much p-ssy now that I’m single!

In a week: “I haven’t had sex in a week!”

In a month: “I’m going to be alone forever.”

Lol

bleda_princezna · 2022-01-16T16:16:48+00:00

That's too accurate 😅

lolmemberberries · 2022-01-16T21:50:36+00:00

It makes sense, women tend to have a wider social support network and more close friends to lean on during tough times.

preppykat3 · 2022-01-16T21:59:38+00:00

Truth.

candyfox84 · 2022-01-16T18:05:26+00:00

👏💯

Smooth-Resort · 2022-01-16T15:55:14+00:00

Periodt queen shit 🥳🤗

myeggsarebig · 2022-01-17T12:10:23+00:00

Dag. This is the truest meme I’ve seen in awhile!!

And, it precisely why the ring our phones 20 years later. 😂

Title	Saw this elsewhere and yup
Author	askmeabouttheforest
Upvotes	431
Comments	20
Date	January 16, 2022 3:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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