I have had this happen to me more times than I can count in recent years. I'll be on a first or maybe second date with a man where I've shown zero indications that I want him to touch me or kiss me. We are not having a romantic moment, he will just get in my face and go for it. Sneak attack kiss. Gross.

One time my date and I were sitting at the bar in a very nice restaurant in a highly visible spot, I was talking and had turned my head away for a moment to look at something to my left, when I turned back to him he was in my face and kissed me. I was disgusted. I had given no signals at all that I wanted this to happen. Similar situations have occurred at the movies and even walking down the street with a date. One time the guy even full on licked my neck and side of my face like a dog.

This is such a huge turn off for me. Needless to say none of these dates went any further. These men had no clue, no social skills and either could not read social cues or didn't care to. For context I am 52 years old and all of these men were in my age bracket. How the fuck can someone get to the age of 50 and be so clueless?

The only men I've been with who had good "game" ended up being LVM players. Most older men don't look so good anymore. They really need to have something else going for them in order for me to find them sexually attractive. It's as if they've all lost the ability to woo and seduce. It's not sexy and it makes me want to run for the hills. Ladies, it wasn't always like this. These are terrible times. :(