Spits out tea

paribanu · 2021-03-30T19:57:00+00:00

it’s shockingly common. they will tell themselves anything to redeem themselves in their own eyes, to the point where they’ll blatantly lie and make up excuses to prove to everyone that they’re the real victim, not the person they hurt. smh

queen_beastmode · 2021-03-30T21:15:10+00:00

My ex was a huuuge asshole to me but he would go above and beyond at work, with random friends, his mom and get all this praise and accolades for doing shit that he was paid to do. In all honesty he was kind of a slacker, with low standards of professionalism, hed frequently get in stupid fights with coworkers and would have trouble keeping up in any job that didn't have a bunch of people emotionally invested in his well being and this explains him so well.

TheLovelyTurd · 2021-03-30T21:22:53+00:00

This so true. I dated a guy who was always the victim, nothing was ever his fault. Anyone who's views didn't align with his were automatically against him. He was a victim of feminism. Oh the tragedy.

Rowbloks · 2021-03-30T19:57:58+00:00

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VikingDotter · 2021-03-30T20:18:10+00:00

Oh my god, this made it click for me. Men like this view themselves as static and unchanging.They once formed the idea of themselves as a good person and no matter what they do after that point in time, they still see themselves as good. Their shitty actions are excused as exceptions. That’s why my ex was such an ass and somehow still believed he was a good person. He was probably thinking “I did record her without consent and I did lie to her and I did put her down and I never did chores, but underneath all that, I’m a good person”. Except no rational human being would consider that a good person.

Lych33horn · 2021-03-30T22:32:36+00:00

My favorite part of BoJack Horseman is when Diane tells Bojack that she doesn't believe in 'deep down'. So many men make the excuse that no matter what they do 'deep down' they're a good person. That's not at all true. You are your actions. If you constantly do shitty things and abuse the people around you that's the kind of person you are. A bad one.

BLUEDIRT93 · 2021-03-30T21:36:59+00:00

I went out to a bar this weekend and this “nice guy” bombarded me and my two friends. He stuck to us like glue all night and repeatedly touched me and my friends when I had told him a million times not to.

carlther · 2021-03-30T19:55:43+00:00

Preach

zorua · 2021-03-30T22:09:09+00:00

Lmao so true. My abusive ex who gaslights, torments and hits women was determined he was a good guy.

QueenCrownn · 2021-03-30T21:41:30+00:00

Word to all that is true and holy and factual! I used to know a few of them. They're the most narcissistic of them all.

bitch_not_it · 2021-03-30T22:41:59+00:00

In his opinion, he has good pure intentions. Therefore he should be able to do whatever he wants, especially to other people

It's only logical that they don't have any issues with this because remember, according to his personal opinion, he has good pure intentions

If people have a problem then it can only mean one thing: he's a good person being persecuted and victimized. Usually because feminism is such cancer on the world

KevlarSweetheart · 2021-03-30T21:23:15+00:00

Derrick Jaxn has entered the chat

BLUEDIRT93 · 2021-03-30T21:35:56+00:00

Hahahahahah

RabidWench · 2021-03-30T21:31:55+00:00

"I feel like I'm a nice person..." but I'm about to say something really douchey now and you'll have to physically hold yourself back from laughing at me or punching me in the face

night_glitter · 2021-03-30T23:38:47+00:00

Aw look, it’s my lying cheating ex-husband!

hdost34 · 2021-03-31T00:49:48+00:00

Anyone who says they’re a good person is usually a bad person

Cat_With_The_Fur · 2021-03-31T00:28:52+00:00

My ex, who actually wanted me to be grateful to him for asking for a divorce before he cheated on me. Like what an upstanding citizen y’all. He left his wife BEFORE he got with random women at bars.

Foomama48 · 2021-03-31T01:23:29+00:00

THIS!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Tragicallysentient · 2021-03-31T01:26:41+00:00

Ion trust no dude

Title	Spits out tea
Author	Adverb_Noun
Upvotes	1956
Comments	51
Date	March 30, 2021 7:35 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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