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They only use that excuse when it’s convenient

Orangechicken132

March 1, 2021
520 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

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Title They only use that excuse when it’s convenient
Author

Orangechicken132

Upvotes 520
Comments 36
Date March 1, 2021 9:07 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lvkktf/they_only_use_that_excuse_when_its_convenient/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/they-only-use-that-excuse-when-its-convenient.1191838
https://theredarchive.com/post/1191838
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Comments

[–]pearlspaghetti501 points 5 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

Apparently, despite also having two eyes, women are not visual creatures. A special shoutout to the pickmes who validate their LVM’s uNiQuE bIoLoGIcAL NeEds with sentiments like:

“I watch lesbian porn with my boyfriend all the time. My boyfriend likes it and it keeps things exciting!”

“Yeah he looks at gorgeous girls in public. I just look at them with him. So what? He’s married, not dead!”

“My boyfriend and I go to strip clubs together. Getting lap dances is fun! Loosen up”

In every case, it’s always the woman having to cater to her partner’s gaze. When’s the last time a woman salivated over an attractive man in public, pointed it out, and had her partner passively nod in agreement? When’s the last time a man went to a male strip club with his girlfriend and sat back as they had some random guys twirl junk in their faces? When’s the last time a man wanted to sit through hours of 10-inch wiener footage while his girlfriend used a vibrator on herself? Yeah.

[–]FrequentPoetry 314 points315 points316 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I would rather die single than deal w/ this crap.

Editing this to add: it is not a biological need to objectify and dehumanize women lmao. That's men being depraved. Women in indigenous tribes walk bare breasted among men.

[–]okeyda 142 points143 points144 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This used to be me 🤡🤡🤡🤡

[–]pearlspaghetti150 points 5 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

This used to be all of us to one degree or another! But now that we’ve seen the light, we’re too busy being queens who respect ourselves (and our sisters) too much to compromise or be gaslit by overt sexism that’s been rebranded as “progressive.” 😌👑

[–]okeyda 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hell yes

[–]CloudRosesFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, yes, call it what it is!

Lol honey, we were ALL there! I'm so glad I grew up! The time it DID NOT waste me is EVERYTHING.

[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same

[–]CloacaDiddler 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

YUP

[–]ChocoBananzaFDS Apprentice 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How sad is this that ALL of us went through this? Yes, all women go through at least one derivative of the ‘cool girl’ phase.

I can’t emphasise enough how happy I am to be here, on this sub, among my sisters. Nothing but levelling up! 👑

[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Alll of this deserves its own post. WHAT ABOUT MY DESIRES?!?

[–]RikaRikaw 256 points257 points258 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Can spot a hot girl blocks away But can't see that the sink or trash can are too full and in need of cleaning without being told to lol That's some selective hawk eye ability right theme

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So true!!

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

HAHAHA real talk. Jfc. Selective as all hell.

[–]donttextme_kFDS Newbie 154 points155 points156 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It’s the go to excuse for the perverts, “I can’t help myself that I’m staring at her behind, I’m a man! We are visual creatures.”

[–]Big-Respond8481FDS Newbie 121 points122 points123 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, like, no shit Sherlock, I can see, I am a visual creature too and I don't stare at men's asses all day because I am civilized unlike these perverts.

[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie 111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, women notice an attractive man and are discreet about it.

Men leer like a hungry dog staring at your fried chicken.

[–]zorra666FDS Apprentice 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But my dog has the courtesy to avert his eyes when I catch him eyeing my chicken😅

[–]McccyFDS Apprentice 104 points105 points106 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What I personally LOVE is when you have a tidy space and a messy space and they go "I dOnT wAsTe TiMe MakInG iT lOOk gooD". It's not about looking good, it's about having basic self respect and hygiene🤦🏼‍♀️

[–]slipperyfoots39 points 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

"It's my nature. It's just biology" so you're saying that you're not an independent person - you're completely at the mercy of your instincts and your hormones. You have no ability to control yourself and are no better than a large hairless ape? Maybe you shouldn't think so highly of yourself then.

[–]miss_peach94 72 points73 points74 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

'50 year old sewer rat that smells like corn chips' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[–]Orangechicken132FDS Newbie[S] 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lool that part killed me 😭😭

[–]relationship_redditFDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"MeN aRe ViSuAl CrEaTuReS"

Ok, then where the fuck were your eyes when you matched that gray and teal striped long-sleeve with blue basketball shorts?

[–]ReignOnYou95 64 points65 points66 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally just a lie they made up so they can continue to objectify women.

[–][deleted] 54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Omg, I was online and some pickme/man came up with some obscure study about how men are genuinely more visual in some random part of their brain or eye and how it is related to ancient times when they had to look for lions or some shit. I swear to god.

[–][deleted] 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah as if we didn't have to look for rabid rapists at the same time we were looking for lions, with a child strapped to our back. Smh

[–]BetterToBeLonely6 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I read some article about how men have fewer rods and cones in their eyeballs than women and how that was why they left whiskers all over the sink. Because their eyes are unable to see fine details.

SO WHICH IS IT????

[–]zorra666FDS Apprentice 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was spot-on!!!!

[–]LevellingUpTimeFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh my god. I'm going to use this every single time they try that line now, it's so good

[–]millennialpink2000FDS Disciple 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damnn that was good

[–]shiningsuns 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, I never thought about it that way.

[–]ddamayaFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ItS a BiOLogiCAl tHinG

[–]jenneke-gotenbergFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I can't help it. I just love women". Not really about visuals...but the next man I hear it from WILL be seeing stars.

[–]jargon_explosionFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reading "Fed Up" right now and this is so on topic.

[–]VictoriaSobockiFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree, good point

[–]Lost_Kale90FDS Apprentice 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh my gosh, I believed for so long that mEn ArE ViSuAl. Like ingrained in me. But it feels much more like an excuse than biology lol

I also wonder how many men really believe that their gender is more "visual" than women because that's what society has told them, and so they never have to act more civilized, and never thought to question it

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