This ain’t it sis

FrequentPoetry · 2020-12-09T05:20:14+00:00

WHEN HE TALKS TO YOU INSTEAD OF MAKING DOG NOISES 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

WHEN HE GREETS YOU WITH A HUG INSTEAD OF STARING AT YOU 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

WHEN HE WALKS NEXT TO YOU OUT IN PUBLIC❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

fireforestfairy · 2020-12-09T05:25:15+00:00

Many young pickmeishas are like that. They'll overinterpret every interaction with the guy they have a crush on and think any interaction = definite interest.

samarsharqi · 2020-12-09T09:28:02+00:00

Uh if someone says my name excessively it is a giant fuckin red flag because it’s a power/ dominance move and I’m running.

chasingastarl1ght · 2020-12-09T06:04:48+00:00

Aw. Gotta admit, but generally speaking, I think my name in my bf's mouth is actually sexy so I guess I understand the tweet. But it's just a sexy little thing, not a green flag or whatever.

werker115 · 2020-12-09T16:05:07+00:00

Lol it’s a red flag when a guy says my name intentionally while speaking to me, once gets a pass but if its a theme, RUN.

HengroenAndLlamrei · 2020-12-09T12:53:21+00:00

When you have a crush, I personally agree (in the beginning stages) it’s sexy and exciting when they use your name. I never hear my name, I rarely use other people’s, and I think if most people think about it, they’ll realize people don’t use their name often either unless they’re at Starbucks.

Usually with my friends, family, and colleagues, we just start talking to one another, no calling by names necessary. For example, I say ‘How are you?’ not ‘How are you, ‘name’?”. It’s more natural and less like dialogue in a book to indicate whose talking.

So when a man does intentionally use your name, I do think it’s one of those tiny flirty things. I don’t think it’s a red or green flag, just a flirtation.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-09T11:07:33+00:00

It truly is. Years ago, I dug it when my ex said my name during a convo. That's sick.

Ancient-Cucumber · 2020-12-09T20:33:59+00:00

Saying your name repeatedly is a tactic to get you more attracted to him.

Shoddy_Glam · 2020-12-09T06:33:14+00:00

Imagine your girlfriend texting; “OMG GF, Rodney did not trip me on my way out of the house this morning! 🤭😊😄🥰😍😍”

2020-12-10T03:10:05+00:00

Real talk, I notice most men refuse to acknowledge me by name. Always “you...” unless they’re desperate for my attention so I hear my full name.

It’s how I vet them out. Further proof they don’t see me as a person. They’re dehumanizing.

your_last_braincell · 2020-12-10T13:55:11+00:00

Now I am not surprised when teen girls say this. But if a grown woman says this unironic...😐

Title	This ain’t it sis
Author	kittyopuppy
Upvotes	1030
Comments	46
Date	December 9, 2020 5:01 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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