This guy is just wasting her time and wants advice on how to continue wasting it. Upset that people are taking "her side". Trying so hard to be the victim.

Oomlotte99 · 2020-12-15T00:37:33+00:00

She needs to let this go. Notice he mentions his dissatisfaction with their sex life while asking a seemingly unrelated question. He’s lame. “My girl...” ugh.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-12-15T00:38:52+00:00

So he doesn’t like screwing her but he wants her to stick around and waste her time so he can screw her until he finds someone he actually wants to be with.

And we’re supposed to feel bad for him because using a living person as a sex doll is tearing him apart.

God, I hope she leaves.

Sage_Planter · 2020-12-15T00:43:27+00:00

That's a lot of words for "I never plan on marrying my girlfriend, but I want to trick her into staying with me."

SuitablePerformance3 · 2020-12-15T00:52:31+00:00

Translation: He wants a woman completely devoted to him, who only cares about him, cooks and cleans and also indulges in every sick fantasy and kink he has with enthusiasm. Oh and he's not looking for commitment because he's not at that point in his life yet but love doesn't need a piece of paper to exist.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2020-12-15T01:09:32+00:00

Of course he has to blame his parents, when he's 28 and has had a whole decade of adult life to get into therapy, or read a book and work it out himself.

FabledAngryVillager · 2020-12-15T01:01:23+00:00

It’s just as selfish for her to not wait for him as it is for him to make her wait.

Luckily this comment was downvoted to oblivion lol

I'm glad people are calling him out

Edit: and a heartbroken TRP guy (different guy from quote above, I think) who calls women "dumpsters" had this gem

There should be no deadline. You cannot force a man to marry you when u want. Just like you cant force a woman to have sex with you when u want. That’s rape. The best you can do is inspire him to propose by being the most awesome girl he’s ever had.

Jinxhourglass · 2020-12-15T01:43:01+00:00

She left everything behind to move in with a guy who just goes online and complains about their sex life. Tragic.

Proud-Purpose · 2020-12-15T00:32:20+00:00

She already laid out what she wants. The scrote's problem is that she's unwilling to sacrifice it for his convenience.

2020-12-15T02:55:01+00:00

What a nice guy, just couldn’t help but to tell us he’s kinky huh?

He’s a porn addict and he’s probably cheating or plans to in the near future since it was so important for him to only mention sex and nothing else negative about their relationship. He needs to keep his options open and sadly this is how all men feel about marrying their girlfriends in this generation.

HappyCoconutty · 2020-12-15T02:52:33+00:00

Written like someone who doesn’t give good orgasms but is kiNkY meaning he wants to replicate what he sees in badly made porn.

2020-12-15T03:22:35+00:00

When men say they're kinky, kinky means "I want to feel good about beating her/treating her like garbage, and get away with literal abuse while I enact my favorite porn scenarios on her." I really doubt they think of pegging/CBT/findom

Equipoisonous · 2020-12-15T03:20:59+00:00

He says in the comments that he would 100% propose if the “sex issue” were solved. Dude straight up won’t marry her because sex once a week isn’t enough for him and she doesn’t perform like a porn star. Trash.

Pahapan · 2020-12-15T05:29:51+00:00

9 times out of 10 when a woman doesn't want to have sex more often it's because the guy she's with isn't putting in a modicum of effort. He doesn't date her, he doesn't woo her. She comes home after working her 9-5 and has to clean up the same messes every day that she's been begging him to stop making since they moved in together. He plays video games and doesn't give a shit that she's doing all the housework alone. Then later when she collapses into bed, exhausted, unappreciated, feeling like a resentful mother to this man, he presses his gross hardon into her back, wordlessly nagging her for sex devoid of any foreplay in which she'll fake an orgasm, yet again, to avoid bruising his ego. If she's lucky he won't try to anally rape her, claiming he didn't know it was the wrong hole, because he's just sOoOoO kInKy.

BleuRaspbery · 2020-12-15T09:19:06+00:00

The prospect of not having access to convenient sex anymore is tearing him apart! The horror!

kalina95 · 2020-12-15T11:40:29+00:00

What has the sex got to do with not wanting to get married? Oh, I know. He wants to be like his parents.

ferociouslycurious · 2020-12-15T17:25:03+00:00

I gave my ex an ultimatum. He responded with a proposal. That didn't end well and it took 13 years of him faking being marriage material. Had a lot of decent qualities (higher on the quality scale than many men, so I've forgiven myself for being a pickmeisha because at least I wasn't *as bad* as I used to be, I ghosted a LOT of men before him) but didn't know himself well enough to make himself happy and chose to focus being angry about it on me. If he needs an ultimatum he isn't good enough. This guy should just man up and tell her to leave him.

four_q · 2020-12-15T19:29:29+00:00

Hell get engaged in six months to the next woman that comes along

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