This was basically my ex's friends. Weird how so many men don't find this odd( when not actively boasting about dating teens as my ex and his friends would vomits!)

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-04-01T17:33:00+00:00

You did not make much of an effort blocking out the person's screen name. This had to be removed. Thank you.

Pizza-n-Lice · 2021-04-01T03:22:13+00:00

When they all spend their time watching porn titled "barely legal" it's hardly surprising anymore. They love women, or in this case, girls that are too young and naive to see them for who they are. The males not only don't see a problem with it, but congratulate each other. How young would they all go if only it was legal? How many girls have stories of wearing primary school uniforms and getting cat called and harassed more than they do as adults?

millennialpink2000 · 2021-04-01T05:04:34+00:00

The age of consent is the 'I'd go younger if I could get away with it' line like the minimum wage is 'We'd pay you less if we could get away with it' line

Hostileovaries · 2021-04-01T07:31:37+00:00

Pre-FDS I was in a situationship with a guy. We were in our late twenties and we were hanging out after a night together and he gets a call and goes on speaker phone (🚩) and it's another girl, 'well maybe it's a friend' I thought. Whatever.

Then they asked if I wanted to go to her graduation after party for a stranger? Weird, but whatever (🚩).

I asked what college she went to. They laugh it's a high school graduation she's 17 (🚩)

He gets off the phone and asks if I would be interested in a threesome with a minor I never met (🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩).

Literally never spoke to him again.

MadamLeFay · 2021-04-01T13:20:32+00:00

When I was 17, I was babysitting for a woman who kept trying to fix me up with her 28 year old brother. I told her he was too old for me and she kept insisting, saying, "I think you two would be great together! He likes younger girls!". I was totally squicked out by the idea and I kept refusing to meet him. Read below to count the red flags:

Then one night at 1130pm, when my entire family was asleep, I got a call from her brother. He sounded drunk, high and/or mentally slow. I was so naive and timid back then, I didn't immediately hang up on him like I should have. Anyway, he wanted me to sneak out of my house and meet him in the parking lot of the local restaurant a few blocks away. I didn't have a car, so this guy expected me to walk in the middle of the night to meet him in a dark parking lot of a closed restaurant??? I told him "no" and he kept insisting. I can't remember how the call ended, but I never babysat for that woman again.

I can't believe an adult woman would give out my phone number after I repeatedly expressed I wasn't interested.

singing_stream · 2021-04-01T13:18:14+00:00

I probably shouldn't have (i don't regret it, but should have listened to myself and just walked away before that point tbh), but i went through my ex's phone because my intuition was telling me i couldn't trust him. I looked through his texts and photo gallery, and there were literally hundreds of porn pics there.

Aside from being disgusted at the fact he'd tried to cheat on me - i actually found myself thinking ''at least he doesn't have very young women on his porn collection''. That was the only thing he gets credit for.. the woman he was collecting pics of was in her 30s at least.

I have kids myself, and i see how young and naive they are, and then i look back at how my mother didn't say a damn word when i was 'dating' a 23 year old when i was 15. I thought it was okay, but now i see how much he manipulated me, and how truly childlike i still was.

17 year olds are literally kids still - both in body and mind. Hell, many boys don't even stop growing until they're 18ish. It's disgusting that any adult could ever look at a child with anything other than parental feelings.

thenyashoulda · 2021-04-01T05:54:10+00:00

think I’d remember a former friend bringing an underage prostitute to a couples dinner date too.

Don’t you remember being 17?

37 is soooo old. Hell 25 is ancient. No way a 17 year old GIRL wanted to go on a double date with mr n Mrs suburbia.

Bravenpeace1384 · 2021-04-01T12:30:25+00:00

My ex LVM is 40 and lives with a 24 year old female. He would tell me she was like his “little sister” while also telling me what a “slut” she is and obsessing over her “big tits” another 22 year old female social media friend of his that he would always love her pictures and drop comments on her page.. when I confronted him about it he said “I just think she is pretty, I think a lot of young women are pretty like Grace Moretz there’s nothing creepy about it” They are so fucking gross and don’t even realize how creepy they are.

CandidKick · 2021-04-01T10:34:27+00:00

I will NEVER trust a guy who goes after young girls or women. They are truly depraved.

When I was 14, a guy in his 20s was interested in me. To my surprise, the adults around basically just told him to wait a couple of years. Still, they encouraged us to get to know each other, go have dinner together (‘Not a date’ somehow).

I was too young to figure out how to navigate the situation, I had a bad home life so no help there and this guy was a part of our community-everyone loved him.

Besides the fact that I was a child and he was an adult! there were other weird things he did: trying to get me to work out a certain way to build curves on my child body, discussing adult things he wanted to do if we got married with other grown men, do things to get me to build an emotional attachment and dependence on him, etc. Basically, groom and build-a-bear his future child bride

At one point, they all tried to get me to move in with him (be dependent on him) when my family ended up moving, but I saw it as my ticket out of that situation.

Luckily for me, I did. A few years later, he ended up murdering a young woman.

Men hanging around much younger women/girls is the biggest red flag. A blimp waving a sign saying: Run!

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-04-01T14:51:19+00:00

Im getting kind of sick of people saying "What kind of conversations is a 30+ year old having with a teenager" like do they not realize yet these men are predators and they dont give a shit about what kind of conversations they are having with their teenage gf. All they care about is manipulating and having control over a teenage girl and getting to fuck her. They dont give a shit if she talks about her favorite tiktok star.

RojavaLover · 2021-04-01T09:03:58+00:00

That guy has paedophilic tendancies. I would name him and shame him to everyone and make sure he is outcasted from the community. Scum.

thenyashoulda · 2021-04-01T13:15:22+00:00

notallmen

Bullshit

112k ❤️s

the internet has made anonymous the average (American) male’s opinion. Same for ours. part of the reason we are all here.

Where are the legions of men in our woke society, these knights of morality bravely stepping forth to use their physical might in championing the fight for equality? Where are the hundreds / thousands of male replies who readily note this child is being trafficked and want to save her from this slavery?

Surely some recognize she is a child on a forced date as a prostitute and other responses clearly seem to be deluded in thinking a 37 year old man would ever have something a 17 year old girl would consider attractive, interesting or worthwhile.

This predator is someone who collectively, men online glorify as that to which to aspire.

Over 100 thousand of them

pretty_kill · 2021-04-01T13:40:59+00:00

My ex got with a subordinate at work who was 17 after we broke up. He was like 10 years older than her at the time. They're still together today. When I talk to my friends who are still friends with him, he is into all kinds of depraved shit now. I was confused as to how he hid it so well when we were together, but I think it is because I was out of his league and he did not want to risk losing me by exposing me to his true depraved self. It has opened my eyes to how well men can fake it, even for 5 years. Though there were red flags I did not notice or press further because we got together when I was young and naive. It really highlights to me how these men have to keep going after younger women, because women their age won't put up with their bullshit.

moonartemis1989 · 2021-04-01T10:18:57+00:00

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doc-2-be · 2021-04-01T15:28:27+00:00

I actually don't understand why the 17 or so year old girl is dating a much much older man ? And they usually are very quick to defend their relationship. Sometimes I wonder if they know what they've gotten into?

avidreader89x · 2021-04-01T03:50:33+00:00

This, so much this.

I went to private and catholic schools and when I wore a skirt, I would get cat called and harassed a lot. It was crazy the amount of attention I got from older men. I got more attention from men in their 20’s to 50’s than I did from teenage boys.

Men liking younger woman is not anything new, but porn has been a huge factor in the sexualization and objectification of young girls. Most porn titles have the words “teen, barely legal, or 18 year old pussy” in it. Just look on Reddit. When you search “teen” on here, lots of teen related porn subs come up. Same with when you type in legal. I only know this because I’ve seen GROWN men on here talk about it. I’ve also clicked on a few nsfw posts, and the girls always post their age and the younger they are, the more upvotes they get.

My stbxh and his friends also have a fixation on barely legal girls. They are all in their late 20’s to mid 30’s. Some of them have daughters. Most are married or in relationships. All addicted to porn. I am pregnant and I’m so worried for my future child coming into this world.

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