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[–]TheFreckledGoddessFDS Apprentice128 points129 points130 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Eh, I felt more lonely in relationships with LVM than I do being single.
[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same.
Lonely, insecure, confused, rejected.
[–]mtan15FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not good enough, judged, tormented, objectified ... the list goes on. Happy as single though!
[–]med10crityThrowaway Account14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Especially when you consider how often LVM try to isolate you from your friends and family and monopolize all your time and energy 🙃 I'd rather die surrounded by people I care about than beside one mediocre soul-sucking loser
[–]girludontbringhomeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it’s a combination of the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. Sometimes the relationship feels like the most incredible experience, and the rest of the time you feel lonelier and more anxious than you’ve ever been. I am just grateful that it’s been a very long time since I’ve been in a relationship with someone I really liked so I barely remember the good parts, but I remember lots of bad experiences from that relationship and more recent ones. It keeps me tf away from LVM.
Not sure why I’m being downvoted, I’m talking about unhealthy relationships with LVM.
[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple126 points127 points128 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah after fds it’s hard to go back. Loneliness is easier than being with a known lvm 🤷♀️
[–]SerenaFitPickmeisha™️28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. That’s how it is. And can’t go back.
[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That’s really how it feels ☠️ But I guess the hard part is knowing that you’d have been lonely either way so it’s better to be alone if that’s how it’s gonna be.
[–]pinkcloudzzzFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
True. Dating an LVM always makes you feel lonely and confused and stressed out
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie[S] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aaaamen!!!
[–]daisy_0720FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dating an LVM always makes you feel lonely and confused and stressed out
Oh my God, this so much. I don't miss the confusion and constant low level anxiety AT ALL.
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LVMs are banking on the fact that women are so fearful of ending up alone that we’re willing to put up with their mistreatment. That way they don’t have to learn to be nice people. That’s truly fucked up, small dick energy. 🤏🏽🤡
[–]sunflowerr23xxFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d rather be lonely and die alone than put up with a LVM
[–]monatsiyaFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and when you spend all that extra time cultivating your friendships and relationship w/yourself >>>>
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'd rather be alone than want to be alone.
[–]wedonthavetobeishtarFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well said!
[–]mtan15FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oooh BOOM. Best comment!!
[–]BreesashaFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It definitely feels that way. I appreciate my family and friends more, and I've grown to look forward to events that don't center around dating or relationships because there's a lot more to life than being disappointed by LVM
[–]daglowupFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh it really do be like that huh 🤦🏻♀️ Step it up men
[–]v0ta_p0r_m0taPickmeisha™️9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m Alone, but I’m definitely not Lonely.😌
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[–]moonartemis1989FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just watch a romantic movie or something just to get it out of my system, then I'm good again for a while lol
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA
[–]iamwildflowersFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love it! I still have Hinge and Match.com, but after realigning my values and future goals I feel so much more picky about the men I see on these sites. Sometimes I get so over seeing LVM on there I come on this forum instead 😂. I think I may stay single for a while, we know our worth ladies 🥂💕
[–]sweetsourbitter6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Putting that energy I would have put into LVM into my friendships and relationship with myself. It helps conquer those lonely feelings.
[–]esthermaniiiFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me on my 6th year of being single and 4th year of celibacy 😎
[–]matte_personalityFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not really! You have your freedom. Goals, aspirations, independence. People who are of better quality that you will attract.
[–]girludontbringhomeFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
With all the crap that has happened, as well as the lives lost in 2020 (and now into 2021), I am just grateful for all the people I do have. I am grateful for my family, my friends, and my own life. I don’t feel lonely at all, even though I don’t get to see my loved ones that often with the lockdowns, I am just happy that they are still around and safe.
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[–]med10crityThrowaway Account14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple126 points127 points128 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]SerenaFitPickmeisha™️28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]pinkcloudzzzFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie[S] 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]daisy_0720FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple38 points39 points40 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sunflowerr23xxFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]monatsiyaFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]wedonthavetobeishtarFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mtan15FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BreesashaFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]daglowupFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]v0ta_p0r_m0taPickmeisha™️9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]iamwildflowersFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]sweetsourbitter6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]esthermaniiiFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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