Whats wrong with this sub? I got an offended message

SureEmployment4 · 2020-02-24T03:54:11+00:00

“Play games” aka set standards that require more than the bare minimum. How dare you!

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-02-24T04:09:47+00:00

You're not gonna find a HVM in your reddit dms anyway girl. You didnt lose anything 😂

quaintlyspoken · 2020-02-24T03:55:51+00:00

Correction: what's wrong with him?

Eleonora0 · 2020-02-24T04:12:45+00:00

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SomethinDifferential · 2020-02-24T03:52:56+00:00

Nothing. (Well a few things but that’s because of trolls.) You dodged a LV Bullet. Don’t sweat it.

glazedhamster · 2020-02-24T05:47:45+00:00

The trash took itself out, that's what happened.

I can just picture him scrolling your post history like a creep looking for some tidbit to bring up to show he "cares" and "pays attention" only to see you're on FDS thinking to himself "fuck! She's got standards! I'm outta here."

laeriel_c · 2020-02-24T04:07:43+00:00

What games? First time I heard about any games being encouraged around here haha, much unlike the PUA communities

bearded_dragonlady · 2020-02-24T06:44:31+00:00

Lol I've never met a HVM who dm's people on reddit. That said, I would never let real life men know I post here. At the end of the day, dating is a bit of a battle and I do not want men knowing my strategies. Especially because I play an innocent dumb fox to get my way.

Soulsalts · 2020-02-24T04:21:28+00:00

He doesn't know the first thing about us. We are all about seeking actual partners, and putting the axe to games.

A man who believes malicious hearsay and doesn't investigate to make up his own mind, is and will always be an intellectual infant.

PharmacyThumbprint · 2020-02-24T06:23:23+00:00

What’s really happening is him realizing that his weak and LVM strategies probably wouldn’t work on you. Good riddance

rinabean · 2020-02-24T11:25:05+00:00

Hmm... maybe I'm too cynical but I don't believe him. He knew you posted here from the start. You were supposed to say "omg no those women are all insane bitches, please let's meet up and we can have sex immediately". That's the impression I'm getting.

Like if he can't be bothered to have a quick glance at your reddit profile before messaging, he's not looking for "an actual partner", is he? He's just looking for a local woman.

buy_me_cookies · 2020-02-24T05:37:40+00:00

Oh noes you lost out on some loser who you wouldn't want anything to do with anyway!!! Whatever will you do without him?!? 😭😭😭

ivy176 · 2020-02-24T07:51:57+00:00

"I don't want to deal with women who don't want a friendly no strings all-benefits-4-me hookup bye"

glowupgoals · 2020-02-24T13:06:56+00:00

I bet he already knew about your FDS participation and wanted to use it as basis for “rejecting” you. Just a theory, but LVM are definitely petty enough to feign interest just to feel powerful in taking it away.

randomgirlimok · 2020-02-24T04:58:08+00:00

I would never date a guy who uses Reddit. They’re here for the porn.

scarletx08 · 2020-02-24T05:01:12+00:00

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Maisiebr · 2020-02-24T10:45:14+00:00

What they always (deliberately?) fail to understand is the women's perspective on dating. I recently told a man who I thought was open to a discussion like that, that for women, dating is not just a matter of being satisfied with the outcome (it is very important though and we shouldn't settle), but it's also fucking dangerous. Their "notallmen" reaction completely fogs their minds and they can't accept that notion. FDS's rules do not exist because it's fun to play games. They are in place because you need to weed out the men who aren't in it for you as person, but for you as a fleshlight/therapist etc. If a man is worth it, he will not be afraid of waiting, making an effort etc., because he knows that for you, dating is inherently riskier and he needs to prove himself to be trustworthy. Men aren't made fucking getaway drivers on dates, they aren't killed, they aren't raped.

logician01 · 2020-02-24T13:16:45+00:00

Who the fuck cares about some incompetent man who can’t even send a link to his picture over in 2020 when women are expected to pose and put makeup on with ridiculous standards.

Little fuckBoi if you are reading this back the fuck away or I will smack you on the face with an imaginary hot frying pat smack in the middle of this FDS crowd!

Loser.

scarletx08 · 2020-02-24T14:24:30+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/lonely/comments/f8l6sz/i_just_need_any_human_being_to_be_with_me_in_real/fin2bxd?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x

Lol I got bashed again for posting on this sub

darkhorse8419 · 2020-02-24T17:11:52+00:00

Men of quality give women this exact same advice. I have met a quality man that didn’t expouse these values of letting a man pay, not sleeping with a man so soon, making sure a man has his shit together, and most importantly being successful and independent. The quality men I’ve met have shared invaluable tips that have improved my credit score, showed me how to negotiate for more pay, given me critical career tips, etc. Any man offended by our message, is a man who wants to pump and dump his free coffee dates.

Blackishcat27 · 2020-02-24T17:19:15+00:00

Well you escaped an LVM. The trash took itself out.

ItsFreezen · 2020-02-24T18:43:29+00:00

"play games". You mean like on the MGTOW,PUA subs?

YeetMyProblems · 2020-02-24T11:25:56+00:00

Hey sis, I'm in NL too! PM me if you wanna talk shit about Dutch stuff together!

Title	Whats wrong with this sub? I got an offended message
Author	scarletx08
Upvotes	104
Comments	40
Date	February 24, 2020 3:50 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f8lcai/whats_wrong_with_this_sub_i_got_an_offended/
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