Why is every man on Hinge competitive about “everything”? Oh, to be so vapid and simpleminded. Must be nice!

randomgirlimok · 2021-02-28T01:03:07+00:00

I dated a guy like that when I was in college. Everything was a competition- who is smarter, who has the better degree path and will make more money once we graduate, etc. it’s gets old quick.

LilithWon · 2021-02-28T01:27:53+00:00

Because men lack emotional intelligence and are overly competitive

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-02-28T01:14:42+00:00

And to add ‘😂’??? What’s so funny about his lack of imagination is what I’m wondering.

Exsqueeze_meh · 2021-02-28T01:30:39+00:00

I can't imagine swiping on a dating app anymore. Giving men attention is the very last thing on my list of things I am interested in doing. It's just a colossal waste of time at this point, i'm surprised if anybody actually meets a partner that way at this stage in the online dating game.

Everything is about them and their wants and desires, they're so unapologetically selfish. I think the last dude i chatted with, and i was still hanging on to my pickmesha ways, was a 40 year old and his last GF was in her early 20's (barf) and they met via a playing video games. He talked about her ad-nauseam. He had 3 kids from a pervious marriage, and they still lived in another state where he moved from. He was also very concerned with how much sex I would be giving him if we dated because his ex wife was not into sex after 3 kids and that would be a deal breaker. I remember feeling so disgusted and yet still was too nice to say, bu bye, to this clown.

Like WTF dude, you don't get to have a run down of all the sex positions before deciding to get to know somebody. We waste a FUCKLOAD of our time finding out that you're a skid-mark underwear porn obsessed scrote, but maybe we should just have an dirty laundry and internet history check before talking any further??? How about a walk through of your apartment or basement dwelling first huh? i'd like to judge your merits on how filthy your home is.

90860008 · 2021-02-28T01:25:36+00:00

Why tf do they love to use that profile question damn

Mamma_Midnight · 2021-02-28T01:47:02+00:00

I bet that's a lie. I doubt he's overly competitive about cleaning the damn bathroom, washing the pots or getting the laundry done. I reckon he has no desire to be competitive about being the first to see the dust bunnies or the smear on the window. I imagine there's a whole bunch of life chores he has failed to show any sense of competition over.

Sage_Planter · 2021-02-28T01:55:25+00:00

This is one of my least favorite prompts. Most men on dating apps lack the creativity to answer this effectively. There's very few decent answers, and pretty much every dude says "Everything, lol." Something like "Rock Band! My siblings and I still play every time we're together for the holidays" is acceptable, but they'd never come up with that.

NotLolita4 · 2021-02-28T04:20:40+00:00

I made this and holding a dead fish into a drinking game

2021-02-28T04:46:46+00:00

Yawn. Boring as fuck answer.

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-02-28T04:53:57+00:00

Is he also overly competitive about those sad pubes on his chin?

Title	Why is every man on Hinge competitive about “everything”? Oh, to be so vapid and simpleminded. Must be nice!
Author	kittycakes22
Upvotes	53
Comments	21
Date	February 28, 2021 12:47 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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