I have a guy friend that I work with at a store. We're both quite close and open with each other. As much as I love him he does have strong LVM traits. He's opened up to me about having multiple friends with benefits. He currently has 3 in his rotation. Two of them being young women in their 20s and one of them being a 40 year old woman. Talking to him has been very interesting because it's confirmed why at FDS we discourage having "friends" with benefits!

The other day he mentioned how he was hungry and needed something to eat and I jokingly told him that he can eat one of his FWB. He then laughed and quickly shook his head. I was abit surprised to which I then proceeded to ask him if he ever does go down on those ladies and he confessed to never doing so. I asked why, he responded saying that they "didn't like it". He then admitted that one of them did want oral but he didn't want to go down on her cause her "pum pum looks weird" 💀 . This guy is 27 years old... These women do however go down on him.

All I could think was why give a man the benefit of having access to your sacred body for free while he thinks you're "pum pum" looks weird.

There was another time where I asked him if he'd ever date any of them and he without hesitation said "Never!" . I inquired why to which he responded "Cause they're for the streets" . This is the same guy that continuously proudly brags about being for the streets.

He also mentioned that he'd never date the 40 year old on a serious manner because she's old and has kids. He also mentioned he'd only have sex with older women because of his "needs" . He however would never date them.

I asked him what he'd do if one of them fell in love. He was sure that something like that wouldn't happen because both parties agreed to a no strings attached situation. He then said if something like that were to mever happen then he'd go ghost and never see them again.

Being in a FWB situation rarely benefits the woman. As a woman you are at a much higher risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases even if you use a condom. Not only that but the men you give your body away to freely and easily will not respect you as a human being. The same men who will enjoy getting easy access to your body will be the same men who will degrade you for allowing them to access you with such ease.

TLDR; Guy I know has 3 FWB in his rotation. Je says he doesn't go down on one of them because her "pum pum" looks weird. Also says he would be quick to ghost if any of them caught feelings and would never consider a relationship with any of them.