Thinking about low key signs of LVM.

Was seeing a dude that had been cheated on by his ex - according to him things seemed fine and then he came home one day and she’d packed all her stuff and left him for another guy. And I sort of laughed about it at first (cuz I’m an asshole) like ‘surely things didn’t SEEM fine up until this, like did y’all not talk at all?’ Lol. But didn’t really press further to be respectful of boundaries.

Come to find out later there’s a pattern of all his long term girlfriends cheating on him. At this point his real self is starting to show and we broke up. But like these girls leaving him for other guys should have been a clear warning sign to me that he was low value. What’s the common denominator?

Stereotype is that men cheat out of lust; women cheat because they’re unhappy. Right? If a woman’s needs are being met she’s not going to cheat. Maybe in very rare cases or way back when the dude was going for LVW.

But if he’s spinning you that sob story of betrayal and heartbreak....he ain’t it.