Look at the world around you. But not just any look, not a quick glance.
Take a look at all of the people struggling to get by, and take a look at what courtship has become.
Nothing but a click, a right swipe, and creating a dating profile that feels like making a job application. Those who care enough can bypass all of the traditional things that equate to nothing more than a drudgery, hook up, pump and dump, and go straight back to work.
Some of us like myself are working over 40 hours per week just to stay afloat. Why should I take more of my time trying to attract someone who will only add more stress and who wants constant attention and stimulation? I just want to relax. And I am.
And yet the questions continue. "Are you seeing anyone? Meet any women?"
No. There's no time and it's too great of a risk to my personal wellbeing. It's 2018, dating died out when it started to feel like more of a job applying process and less of an enjoyable activity. In the current year, there's just not enough time.
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When I was in Tokyo me and a friend went out for a night and were looking for places to go. We saw a group of three girls and we decided to ask them. As soon as we walked up to them, a white knight swooped in on a bicycle and cut in front of us and cajoled the girls and asked what we wanted?
Another guy came up from behind and didn’t say anything but it was quite clear he was white knighting as well. We asked the girls if these random guys were friends and they said no. The girls asked the men to leave and that it was ok. Fucking insane
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They are the epitome of beta.
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Not to mention 75% of women are overweight and 40% are clinically obese. That means that women who are a healthy weight will have massive amounts more attention than they should.
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http://fortune.com/2016/06/08/obesity-epidemic-women-teens/
https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/adult.html
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well its mostly that most women (and a lot of men) are just boring as dishwater unless you get them completely drunk or high (which I try heavily to avoid myself). Extracting conversation from some of these people feels like squeezing a rock... jesus, the best talks I've had have been with prostitutes and old people lmao.
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Ones where they put in equal effort
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LTRs aren't an investment, they're a continued gamble.
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She may or may not have known she had a problem with being a spoiled little kid when it came to money. But there's nothing you could have done for her. Like a drowning swimmer, she would have pulled you down with her.
The only way we could bail women out financially would be some kind of retro patriarchal coverture society where we control all the money and they have to beg us for $20 to buy a thing. That's not going to happen so fuck 'em. Let them work until they're 90, buried under debt and poor life choices.
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I love when a story like that ends in 5 years. So validating
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I feel ya bro. I hate narcissists. Mine was the same way. It’s from cucks and being coddled.
My original comment was about the 5 year rule. I feel most relationships end at that time. Usually the 1 year and 4-5 year mark.
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Lots of research suggests 1 yr is when 80% of relationships split.
4-5 years being next spike.
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Date someone who is a gift, not a burden.
Date someone who will help you in your endeavors, not hinder.
Date someone who will enrich your life.
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