There were a ton of red flags yesterday when we were hanging out with her friends and I could see so clearly what the future held.

1. It was obvious she didn’t feel comfortable with me around her friends. She barely ever wanted to take photos together and never posted photos of us on social media.

2. She hit me in the face for the second time while drunk last night. The first was after I took her out for a nice dinner by the water.

3. When I first arrived at her house yesterday she said, “is that what you’re wearing?!” I had on basketball shorts and a nice fitted sports shirt.

4. No hug or kiss when we greeted. If I didn’t initiate a kiss yesterday I doubt she would have at all.

5. Belittled me in front of her friends when I was trying to get my covid mask out of my backpack in the car, “what are you doing?! Can you not find your mask?”

6. Belittled me when her two friends first showed up about my water bottle, “he carries that thing everywhere”.

7. Belittled me about the fact that I mostly only wear basketball shorts.

8. Belittled me when we were playing flip cup, basically waved me away like a dog.

9. Wouldn’t sit with me for more than 5 seconds on the couch when we were both drunk, preferred to hump her female friend.

She was shaking and pleaded, was pacing for 10 minutes, then on the floor silent. Apologized profusely. I literally read off all of these bullet points to her. She had no excuses.

I’ve spent the last 2 weeks trying to convince myself to accept her for what she was, but it literally took a full days worth of constant red flags to realize this wasn’t healthy. I’ve been having anxiety attacks and have lost 15lbs in the past month.

I’m definitely open to feedback and insight as to what you all see here that I could have missed?