Are we dating the same guy (screenshots)

Ooooeq · 2023-06-14T04:24:27+00:00

Not one comment about sexual assault, abuse, or cheating.

Maybe they didn’t read the guidelines? 🥱

PlzSendDunes · 2023-06-14T03:42:55+00:00

So entire Facebook group to smear men who try to find their second half ... And accusations without an evidence. Also sharing private conversations...

This is not protection against threatening men, it's just pure bullying group.

I_SHIT_ON_DOGS · 2023-06-14T05:16:05+00:00

You know... I really have to ask.

Why are all women-dominated spaces online such toxic shitholes? I know this sounds mean, but whether it's FDS, TwoX, TrollX, AWDTSG, AskWomen, or any other women's community, without exception, they seem to be full of shitty rude people.

870yungin · 2023-06-14T03:44:53+00:00

This why you shouldn’t date nowadays.😂🤷🏽‍♂️

Traditional_life98 · 2023-06-14T05:08:42+00:00

I hate hate hate this.

Shooting guys down before they even have a chance…

LakiL_ · 2023-06-14T11:10:52+00:00

Seriously...you don't know the guys life, but are willing to take his job away because... your group will admire you? This is some oonga boonga ape level shit here.

Aimless-Nomad · 2023-06-14T03:55:06+00:00

Its like fds all over again

wanderlust_12 · 2023-06-14T13:03:35+00:00

This is toxic femininity on full display

GodSpider · 2023-06-14T13:50:33+00:00

"Not a distraction in grey sweatpants" is she literally just insulting his dick size or am I misreading?

TestaverdeRules · 2023-06-14T17:15:15+00:00

To be honest the guy in pic 7 really does sound like a toolbag. I mean 12 pictures in 2 days come on bro.... but either way he still shouldn't be posted on there without his consent. These groups need to go

IceCorrect · 2023-06-14T11:33:20+00:00

Last one is the best. Man date multiple women become problem while women are doing the same at even higher rates.

AbysmalDescent · 2023-06-14T13:57:05+00:00

This really goes to show that sites like these aren't about keeping women safe, and are just about women collectively stalking, projecting, humiliating, belittling, slandering, fear mongering and attacking men. At the very least, it's very clear that "women's safety" isn't how it's being used, even if that is what it promotes and legitimizes itself as.

wackedoncrack · 2023-06-14T20:08:41+00:00

This is why the passportbros exist, anyone who takes western women seriously in the American dating marketplace deserves to be used and abused. The evidence of toxicity is everywhere.

There is zero reason to message or interact outside of a casual fling, as you can see, even flirting with these girls through text leads to character assassination attempts in a public forum that have the potential to effect your job and livelihood, just imagine marrying one of these whores….

Stay safe boys.

870yungin · 2023-06-14T06:54:53+00:00

I have a theory that many of these women on dating apps are not even trying to date. I think they are on these apps to say they had and uncomfortable experience with a man and get him fired so that the position can open up for other women. This could explain why it seems impossible to date as a man and why it seems like any small thing you do to makes them angry because they are looking for evidence to get men fired and actively discriminate against our gender putting women in roles above us.

jr_geppetto · 2023-06-14T10:18:00+00:00

To play devil's advocate: Why would we want to end a group where women are showing us their true nature? It's a great intel source.

Catch-the-Rabbit · 2023-06-14T07:07:20+00:00

Why is this cat using his work phone for dating apps.

Harsh-Pain-No-Gain · 2023-06-14T08:24:18+00:00

DISGUSTING CREATURES!

I am SO ASHAMED to be a Woman with the Existence of such Worthless Skanks like those morons from the screenshots.

SHAME ON THEM!

thomas_gabriel88 · 2023-06-14T16:42:00+00:00

Wow also putting.people at risk of being sacked? That page is even more toxic than I was initially led to believe.

NMMXXII · 2023-06-14T12:57:38+00:00

These people are so damaged they can’t forgive and move on with their lives.

Anyways, new plan, cull numbers to genuine, honest profiles… Facebook group:

Here she is without a filter. 📸

anonymous7865412 · 2023-06-14T11:58:00+00:00

Lots of low value women in that Facebook comment section. The only way to truly prevent getting put on blast in these groups is to stop using app dating services. Balance needs to be restored in the dating world and the only way to do it is to stop OLD.

If women had to go back to solely relying on being approached in person they wouldn’t be able to just put a filter on in real life or angle themselves to hide that extra 80lbs. They wouldn’t get approached at all and the ego would be crushed. Balance would be restored and these 4/10s would have to do things like cook, clean, and offer anal.

Giving them free material to trash you via online dating isn’t helping men as a whole. It would be a lot harder for them to post about you if they have to rely on sourcing real life photos of you by agreeing to go on a date with you.

FWIW: I’m a male and on our side.

dankmemezrus · 2023-06-14T18:35:20+00:00

Most of those guys are saying odd things tbf but I don’t think that warrants being publicly shared and shamed…

barrel_of_sandals · 2023-06-14T12:21:40+00:00

Fuck life... Im done

eyespy01 · 2023-06-17T15:34:08+00:00

Paola is the one behind most of the bigger groups. Men are under attack constantly by women that don't even know them. There are a few big ones the one she has an South Florida has over 30,000 members. We need to get this taken down. We need as many people to send harassment claims to Facebook against the group not individual pictures. Enough is enough!

E500MB · 2023-10-02T22:50:05+00:00

Need advice help , is it possible to get " are we dating same guy group removed for my city ? I have seen Vancouver and Washington DC removed ? If so please explain how ? 🤔 do you have a bunch of people report it ? Would gladly pay money at this point, facebook help is useless

Correct-Reporter1872 · 2023-06-14T11:46:25+00:00

This is disgusting. I can't look at women the same after seeing this stuff.

lifesuckswannadie · 2023-06-14T13:12:55+00:00

Just stop doing online dating. I don't feel bad cause men are putting themselves in this position for no reason

McFeely_Smackup · 2023-06-14T17:14:38+00:00

You can't convince me that these pages aren't 100% fan fiction.

Codename-18 · 2024-05-18T12:08:55+00:00

The only way to destroy these groups is not by being passively disobedient, it is to fight fire with hell fire.

I have porn videos of all my exes if one posts me online, and it happened, I'll just share them. Do I care that that's illegal? No. Also libel is, character assassination should be punished in the same way as revenge porn.

Men care about women's purity. Women care about men's reliability.

We could go for the win-win and go for a truce, but they don't want to level up. The State is no use.

Late-Hat-9144 · 2026-03-12T21:36:52+00:00

Im the head of HR for the company he works for

Hope she enjoys joblessness for breaching his confidentiality.

Thrawa76 · 2023-06-14T08:33:31+00:00

Some things here called my attention. I'd actually be ok with it if this was a group exclusively trying to prevent girls from being deceived into dating committed men. Also think if there's a female group for that, there should be a male one.

What I'm not ok with is rating and demeaning someone based on their appearance like in the last photo, in a private group that the subject doesn't have access to, in extremely demeaning ways (height and dick size). There used to be an app in my country called Lulu where girls would do that, can't let these types of things grow

Now, make a group where guys will talk demeaningly about women and watch society burn, especially if you get guys commenting on girls' past hookup experiences

jobejac · 2023-06-14T03:58:00+00:00

Women share the same preferences. Not surprising to the say the least. Damn creatures lmfao

baby_budda · 2023-06-14T15:48:19+00:00

What a bunch of yentas.

jsutforthis2 · 2023-06-15T08:26:43+00:00

Low value women

WhyTypeHour · 2023-06-15T20:00:54+00:00

If you really want to stop these groups. Just start "are we dating the same girl" group. They'll be banned inside a week.

eyespy01 · 2023-06-17T15:19:59+00:00

We need to get this man hating app removed from the app stores.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/146in99/alert_are_we_dating_the_same_guy_groups_have/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Individual-Clue9738 · 2023-07-21T11:56:09+00:00

It sounds like this woman needs to lose her job. Companies usually will demote or fire individuals who do not promote a positive attitude towards people or a community. Maybe men should post women's jobs?

DigAdventurous9078 · 2024-01-08T14:13:47+00:00

Hey all! can anyone help me or point me in the right direction to find these original post please??? Or unedited screenshots? I know this was awhile back it looks like. But i just happened to see it and I could use all the info available before professionally reaching out to a particular comment contributor…

Title	Are we dating the same guy (screenshots)
Author	More_Detail_3477
Upvotes	406
Comments	124
Date	June 14, 2023 3:23 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/148x7we/are_we_dating_the_same_guy_screenshots/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-screenshots.1222226 https://theredarchive.com/post/1222226

Comments

SHAME ON THEM!