Delete if not allowed. Man posted a story about how his wife lied about being on birth control and tricked him into having a kid - I recommended he join this sub and share his story. INSTAbanned from r/offmychest - this is their response when I appealed. Have since been muted.

TrackrunnerG · 2021-02-24T17:44:48+00:00

So much for equality

TAPriceCTR · 2021-02-24T18:12:18+00:00

They mute because they're afraid of your magic persuasion power. They don't want to learn.

I was banned from AITA for saying that soccer moms lusting after 16 y/o Taylor lautner were no different from dirty old men lusting after 16 y/o britney spears. said I was sexualizing minors.

duhhhh · 2021-02-24T17:50:23+00:00

This is why trueoffmychest exists

Deadlocked02 · 2021-02-24T17:59:42+00:00

I don’t know why I still get angry over things like this. All over reddit, all mods have the same annoyingly authoritative tone that just gets to my nerves. Who the fuck they believe they are? Imagine how awful these people would be in positions of leadership in real life. Also, their burning hatred of MRM never ceases to amaze me. Funnily enough, these are probably the same people who are constantly spreading messages about tolerance on their private social medias. Getting along with people who agree with their own ideas and believing they’re being “tolerant” for that is just another extension of their narcissism. Very few individuals can actually deal with divergent ideas.

cakestudios1 · 2021-02-24T18:44:08+00:00

I wonder if that mod has ever clicked on this sub. I’ve never experienced even the slightest bit of anti-women comments or posts on here

DallasTruther · 2021-02-24T18:07:36+00:00

Just want to add about the OPs original story

TL;DR version; original post here.

Around the time of OPs child’s conception, he was attempting to break up with his wife (then-girlfriend). While they were going through a rough patch, she “mysteriously” got pregnant - even though OP religiously used condoms. After this, she insisted on having raw sex, because “she was already pregnant.”

When OP was 42 and (then) wife was 40, she confessed that not only her, but all of her friends knew that she wasn’t originally pregnant and that she had lied to OP to attempt to get pregnant.

OP then went on to say how he had to give up his dreams of traveling to a foreign country to study for his Masters and ended up abandoning all of his personal dreams and desires.

The woman LITERALLY raped OP, in a sense of: physically, mentally, emotionally AND financially - but by all means, supporting Mens Right due to shit like this is deemed “unacceptable” and “sexist”.

I can only hope this mentality withers away sometime soon.

Metroid545 · 2021-02-24T18:13:44+00:00

Well he confirmed the bias

SharedRegime · 2021-02-24T22:30:48+00:00

You shouldnt be upset to be banned from that sub. It got taken over ages ago and the original people made a new one. No matter what, even if this sub does clean itself up (and yes, we have quite a few people in here that spread some hateful shit we cant ignore them) we will always be treated as the bad guys, because thats how society requires us to be seen.

No, sjws and feminists do not want equality. Thats been obvious forever and its no going to change. You can not educate the uneducated when the uneducated have been told to not educate themselves. Its best to just not even interact with people like that, as theres nothing that can be done anyway.

Raider1FN · 2021-02-24T18:37:29+00:00

Just stay away from the lunacy. They don't want equality,They want EVERYTHING to revolve around them, They don't care about Men, they want us subservient or eradicated. They're irrational, hateful and they think we're anti feminism, you damn right I am. Fuck feminism! But, this ain't about fighting it, it's about letting them destroy themselves without us. We're just stepping back and trying to save every man from their trap as much as we can, they don't want it and they can't hide the fear that instead of bowing down to their ridiculous demands, we're waking away. They're realizing the damage they're causing and they're going to lose their easy meal tickets. What happens when they have to take responsibility for EVERY single one of their actions and their ain't no man to blame it on anymore. Oh no! Enjoy loneliness fems, enjoy being a man. It's what you wanted, we just ain't gonna validate and give y'all special treatment anymore. Lets see how long your needy asses can handle it. Y'all are already showing weakness in the seams. You're threatened by the idea of an independent man who doesnt need a woman, why would that be of you don't need us? Fucking irrational worthless animals.

bufedad · 2021-02-24T19:15:17+00:00

Memsrights could have been an awesome sub, but they decided to deal with mens issues instead of women's, and thats just sexist bullshit

Raider1FN · 2021-02-24T18:40:31+00:00

It's weird that narcissist is spelled so weird these days. When did they change the spelling to feminist?

butt_salamander · 2021-02-24T23:06:56+00:00

That sub is fucking cancer

GoblinLoveChild · 2021-02-24T23:18:15+00:00

SILENCE DISSENTER!

You have failed to follow article #378 of the Politiburo handbook.

Please report to room 101 for Psyche-realignment.

Zack_WithaK · 2021-02-25T00:00:26+00:00

Note to self: It is sexist against women to point out sexism against men

Diomil · 2021-02-24T19:03:58+00:00

Wow, that mod is such a little person, I should be angry at him or something but all I can feel is pity for such a person. What a sad existence.

bulldogs1800 · 2021-02-24T23:06:34+00:00

r/watchredditdie

cuteman · 2021-02-24T23:46:43+00:00

We call this moderation based on ideology

Ahielia · 2021-02-24T20:41:35+00:00

That cesspool is banning accounts for even posting here, regardless if they are active participants or even subbed to offmychest.

I was banned for posting here, never posted or subbed to that shithole.

MostLikelyPoopingRN · 2021-02-24T23:21:11+00:00

Well, they’re staying true to form. Would’ve been nice if they explained how mentioning that sexism against men exists is „sexism against women“...

LoomisKnows · 2021-02-24T23:33:19+00:00

This is why TRueoffmychest exists, the militants on offmychest are a disgrace to the reddit community for how they treat certain users

jmcsquared · 2021-02-24T23:46:15+00:00

And they probably think r/feminism is completely not toxic at all smh

oafsalot · 2021-02-24T22:32:23+00:00

Haha. What did you expect. Being here comes with serious risk of discrimination, that's how we know we're right.

ElegantDecline · 2021-02-24T23:14:33+00:00

r/offmychest is infamous for banning anyone with MR arguments

introspectthis · 2021-02-24T23:46:35+00:00

This is exactly the type of thing I used to make ghost accounts for. I'd copy and paste the story, edit it to make barely recognizable and swap the genders to prove my point.. I can't tell you how many times I was banned/removed from groups acrossed so many different social media platforms for "spreading hate".

I stopped doing it because it was a lot of work for such little pay off, and even then the hypocrisy I'd expose was almost always buried under the mountain of "you lied! This was predatory, you set everyone up, you had no right" ect. Same type of shit when you record someone to prove they're lieing, later they completely deny it, you play said recording and they flip out because "tHaTs So FuCkEd Up HoW cOuLd YoU bEtRaY mY tRuSt LiKe tHaT??" But on a larger scale.

Seeing shit like this though makes me want to start doing it again. At the very least I encourage others to try, if for no other reason than to see first hand just how fucking bad the problem is.

JayPx4 · 2021-02-24T23:31:02+00:00

Yeah that’s pretty blatantly a mods personal opinion.

OctaviaPinfold · 2021-02-24T23:45:16+00:00

If a woman did the same with a "feminist" sub, there would've been no consequences, maybe not even the deletion of the comment, instead dozens of gold awards. Mods are very trigger happy when it comes to something not aligning perfectly with the feminazi propaganda. I was permabanned from a sub because I said that murder is a worse crime than rape and women who use the #killallmen are not better than men using the #rapeallwomen, and if the latter is not a joke, then the first one is not a joke, either. I was banned because of brigading... because you can brigade alone of course, and when I appealed that you can't brigade alone, they can't ban me because I visit other subreddits, and I didn't even break their rules that literally say you're welcome to challenge ideas regardless of who you are, they said they don't care and banned me from contacting the mods as well. Equality and open discussion for the win!

I reported the message they wrote and admitted their abuse of power but nothing happened. Most likely they get those reports as well and not a proper moderator.

Moopa000 · 2021-02-24T22:26:23+00:00

r/feminism is a cesspool of toxic femininity, same in some aspects as r/mensrights, this sub does have it's fair share of sexism against women, but not near as much sexism as r/feminism.

RedPorscheKilla · 2021-02-24T19:55:45+00:00

Hi OP, LOL, my apology I mean no ill will, but I got banned from the subreddit deadbedroom, because I was a new user and didn't have enough "history" so I was banned for good,.

I agree in a case the other way around, you wouldn't hear the end of it!!

escalopes · 2021-02-25T00:03:52+00:00

r/modsbeingdicks

i_like_pewpews · 2021-02-24T22:14:08+00:00

Yes because all of the women empowerment subreddits aren't just extreme sexism towards men that instabans anyone with a penis..😐

Dls95405 · 2021-02-24T23:31:08+00:00

Women are running civilization off a cliff. You simply can't shit on men forever.

Teal_Kitten · 2021-02-24T23:33:15+00:00

aS a WoMaN i genuinely can't understand what their problem with this sub is. I like to stay balanced but I'm banned and muted from most gynocentric subs. Where are my redpilled girls at?

SamaelET · 2021-02-24T20:57:32+00:00

He is totally ignorant. This is not a male support group. This a group talking about male rights. As the name says it. Did he even read that post ? Of look at the others post anyway ? Probably not. The title of the post he quotes is not even sexist against women.

BurningOrangeHeaven · 2021-02-24T22:10:06+00:00

Its like this across almost all major subs.

ManofGod1000 · 2021-02-24T23:23:49+00:00

Sounds to me like the mod who banned you was trying to get some P-Sleeve, you know, based upon his "good" behavior. Oh well, we cannot control what others do but facts are facts. Society has no say in what is reality, despite those who think or say otherwise.

MRChesey · 2021-02-24T23:29:48+00:00

Wait, so even saying that something is sexist against men is now sexist?

Accomplished-Tear-41 · 2021-02-24T23:57:42+00:00

Not only that but they can take antibiotics or fertility drugs on top of that without you knowing. Don't forget fraud, being accused of being the father of a child that isn't yours fucking sucks and only the woman can know whose it is.

PineappleWithSmallPP · 2021-02-25T00:01:18+00:00

I have never one seen sexism on this sub that people agreed with so I’m really confused

Thatshadowguy91 · 2021-02-25T00:09:00+00:00

You have just been discriminated against based on who you are and your beliefs. What's especially egregious about this is that you honestly had benevolent intentions by mentioning the subreddit. It's honestly disgusting that this is what goes on today.

HipEvilMidget · 2021-02-25T00:45:18+00:00

Feminism is used for sexism against men.

sendindaninja · 2021-02-25T00:59:12+00:00

F**k off my chest

zaygiin · 2021-02-24T22:11:49+00:00

What a power trip mate, Jesus. What are those mods even thinking...

PurpleHawk222 · 2021-02-24T23:18:05+00:00

Ah yes because pointing out sexism is sexism, brilliant.

Velexious · 2021-02-25T00:26:18+00:00

Thank fuck for my boys. If I didn't have them all I would have is women and holy shit. I'd off myself.

theInfiniteHammer · 2021-02-25T00:26:42+00:00

What a loser.

Professor_Sqi · 2021-02-25T00:31:41+00:00

Shocker. Another subreddit moderator think they're hot shit and are beyond warped with their ideals.

furay10 · 2021-02-25T00:56:25+00:00

What cunts.

GojiNuts · 2021-02-25T04:20:48+00:00

Wow, that instant ban was brutal, man. Their rule states... recruiting for groups that oppose our goals. I bet it's not spelt out that their goals are rooted in deep, toxic woke values (just see their justification for banning you, man).

DownVotesWrongsOnly · 2021-02-25T04:51:52+00:00

If offmychest wants to have silly rules (no linking to private subs), that's fine, I guess.

But this is a public sub...

ThrowRA4AMA · 2021-02-25T06:44:52+00:00

Yeah and I’m sure if you had lied about having a vasectomy then it would be called rape.

GoDentist · 2021-02-24T23:11:20+00:00

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quorn_king · 2021-02-25T00:34:31+00:00

Crazy how they can't think outside of their indoctrinated bubble. Like religious extremists

Miserable_Host_5865 · 2021-02-25T00:43:03+00:00

What cocky, prudish bastards

They were never worth your time

uzi_is_luv · 2021-02-25T01:07:46+00:00

These guys are on such a power trip I stg, like wow they really showed you. All things aside yeah there are some incel minded people on this sub but thats a very small minority in contrast to the majority of people who just want men to have equal custody rights and access to better mental health resources and things of that nature.

2021-02-25T01:09:48+00:00

Subreddit = groupthink echo chamber

Kevidiffel · 2021-02-25T01:20:48+00:00

Ever heared the term "Pigeon chess" or "playing chess with a pigeon"? I get the vibes when I see what that so called "Mod" wrote...

jtwooton · 2021-02-25T01:55:37+00:00

I mean...you can't say that that post about the US being sexist isn't true..the fact you were banned from there for saying that is so ironic. The incident speaks for itself.

RowanHarley · 2021-02-25T02:04:54+00:00

I'm tempted to create a post speaking about this, but instead of a woman lieing about birth control, I'll say the husband lied about having a vasectomy/being infertile, or something along the lines of this, and seeing how much visibility the post gets

javerthugo · 2021-02-25T02:21:50+00:00

The level of cuckoldry amongst mods is insane.

olilouli · 2021-02-25T02:31:19+00:00

They also ban r/redpillwomen

ytismylife · 2021-02-25T02:56:10+00:00

I'm banned from there too, it's a rite of passage. They censor everyone they disagree with. Pathetic.

7Jamester7 · 2021-02-25T03:34:37+00:00

Did you really expect anything less? Geez

thetruemask · 2021-02-25T05:15:35+00:00

Pretty shameful these so called feminists are downright silencing any dissenting opinions.

Not to make this comparison but it's really Nazi like, either you agree or you can be made silent.

Same happened to me with r/twoXchromosomes they posted that article about a husband in Tennessee who wanted his wife to keep the baby. And had that as a legal right.

I just said I don't agree women should be forced to give birth but then men should'nt be forced into parentage either.

I was insta banned for that one comment. Mods wouldn't even say why I was banned when I asked because that comment isn't against the rules.

And it's hypocritical to be mad about this case but perfectly fine men are tricked and forced into parentage with no choice all the damn time.

Anything that goes against the feminist rhetoric is unacceptable to them. It shockingly regressive and facist

HannibalsProtege · 2021-02-25T06:34:05+00:00

I was banned from that same group because I posted a comment in r/TRP. I didn't say anything inflammatory in said comment, actual comment "My bad. I thought GLO meant Good Lookin' Out."

Banned. I challenged the ban, and got fed up dealing with whatever pissy twat was on a power trip. So then I reported the mod to Reddit. Pretty sure nothing was done as you know --- it's them.

InformalCriticism · 2021-02-25T08:21:44+00:00

So cringe. I've gotten an account suspension for merely bringing up simple facts with certain mods. They'll come after you if you're not toeing an invisible line that they drew whether it makes sense or not.

__PETTYOFFICER117__ · 2021-02-25T00:55:32+00:00

I mean I can't say I agree with what they did, but as someone who's been here for quite a while, there is quite a bit of toxicity/sexism towards women on here.

Just a couple days ago I got downvoted for saying that men and women are both oppressed in different ways, and that minimizing women's issues was sexist and we should strive to understand and fight for women's issues just as we ask women to understand and fight for ours.

The dude I was talking to also posts in MGTOW and other toxic subs, and all of his comments were upvoted despite his repeated toxic language and attitude towards even considering the struggles of others.

Of course, I'll get downvoted for saying that toxicity exists in this sub.

Guys, in order to not be a toxic community, we have to recognize when toxicity exists and actively fight against it. I don't see that happening a whole lot on this sub, unfortunately.

EDIT to reiterate: While I don't agree with your ban, OP, or the way in which they went about it, I can't say I disagree with them that this sub is commonly very toxic.

GoelandAnonyme · 2021-02-25T01:04:17+00:00

I mean, in practice, his comment following rule 2 often applies in this sub.

But yeah, in general reddit admins are awful. Wish there were more rules that they had to follow.

Hope I won't get banned for saying this.

EdenSteden22 · 2021-02-24T23:56:04+00:00

But you literally broke rule 4?? I don't think you should have been permabanned but you should at least read the fucking rules before appealing a ban

dkmich14 · 2021-02-24T22:46:38+00:00

He kinda right though, there is a lot of anti-women sentiment here that try to downplay women issues, women and men both have it hard and it is foolish to compare the two. This subreddit compares the two and then say men have it so much worse than women. But thats just my opinion. I was hoping this place would bring attention to issues that affect men without catering while not downplaying issues that affect women, but well it is the internet.

xMoody · 2021-02-24T21:59:08+00:00

i mean they aren't wrong, the mods don't delete blatant sexism and toxicity from the people that post here who unironically think men are under attack in 2021

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