Sexual Violence

New-Baby5471 · 2022-06-23T18:59:13+00:00

I had a conversation about this a few years ago with an ex who was a lawyer. The topic was about whether the concept of rape should or shouldn't exclusively imply physical penetration with a penis.

When I complied about the fact the law of our country didn't recognize any type of forceful involuntary sexual intercourse against men as rape, but as "dishonest abuse" (which have a noticeable lower conviction than rape), she simply said "you can always have the upper control of any situation with your male body strength".

I replied: Body strength doesn't have anything to do against psychological abuse which can lead to rape, and when it does, we men usually get convicted too.

Thankfully I got my ass out of that relationship.

AdamChap · 2022-06-23T23:44:21+00:00

Defining rape as only penetration is ironically sexist. It's implying that only men receive pleasure from sex. Whilst rape remains high on the pedestal of most heinous crime the question remains is it the worse crime because it involved somebody sexually gratifying themselves at your expense or is the actual act of being penetrated in anyway that makes it the worse thing ever?

Personally penetration doesn't deserve the pedestal, and doing so places female perps in a separate category alone. See with the definition of rape focused on penetration we ignore the usual case of a female abuser receiving sexual gratification from sex as the biologic nature of women implies they are being penetrated.

I'm incredibly surprised more women, especially feminists aren't up in arms about it as the implication for our view on rape is in line with our infantile treatment of women as constant victims/children without responsibility.

Especially as the context of rape is always being expanded on whilst men are the perps, questions surrounding the withdrawal of consent; "If you tell a man to stop but he didn't stop for ten seconds is it rape?" seem to come before "surely rape laws favour female abusers because the definition of rape excludes women getting sexual gratification from men against their will unless in the specific case she decided to stick a finger up his ass?" is to me - truly telling.

Revolutionary_Town21 · 2022-06-24T04:02:57+00:00

In India, the slice for men is 0%. And guess who oppose gender neutral rape laws? You guessed right: feminists or the better term, femipigs

nigerundayooosmokey · 2022-06-23T19:56:51+00:00

thetinmen has to be one of the best pages ive come across!

SecondEldenLord · 2022-06-23T19:00:05+00:00

They think that rape means penetration and it cannot be done by a woman, but it actually means sexual act without consent. UK is very well known for defending their females no matter how wrong they are.

lIllIlllIl · 2022-06-24T07:30:30+00:00

My ex-girlfriend raped me and bragged about it on Instagram with #HimToo.

GrannyGoodness89 · 2022-06-24T00:32:55+00:00

I was molested and raped many times by men from age 1-24

I'm a 32 year old gay guy BTW

kingslayer990 · 2022-06-24T05:12:48+00:00

Exactly the point I have been saying for years. All the feminists and assholes falsely spread the narrative that male sexual assaults are nowhere near what women face. Bitch men are not even allowed to file a SA and DV complaint by law in most countries even today. They literally cannot become part of any statistic. It’s insane really.

DK-Freeze · 2022-06-24T03:55:45+00:00

Do you guys have any links to studies of this? It would be nice to have some evidence to back up claims whenever people would say men cause like 90% of rapes

ExtraGreenBox · 2022-06-24T07:10:28+00:00

A gallery link that isn't tied to reddit would be nice for this. Like for sharing on facebook etc.

Starmind0 · 2022-06-24T01:42:53+00:00

I propose to the world my very unique hot take: Any number is a high number.

Kitchen_Winter_1850 · 2022-06-24T08:39:27+00:00

Would you mind providing a source to these claims?

gerrta_hard · 2022-06-24T07:27:49+00:00

are those including prison rape?

Great-Flan-5896 · 2022-06-23T20:25:41+00:00

That's why I would kill my attacker.

SCPcito · 2022-06-23T20:03:32+00:00

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Fearless-Sherbet-223 · 2022-07-06T02:54:50+00:00

Haven't confirmed the numbers, but here is the NISVS's reports and publications page on the CDC website: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/datasources/nisvs/summaryreports.html

Title	Sexual Violence
Author	Automatic-Shelter387
Upvotes	723
Comments	64
Date	June 23, 2022 6:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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