Suicidal man makes a post about being upset about having circumcised forced upon him, and says that if he was born a women this wouldn’t have been done to him. Women in the comments talks about how women have it so much worse.

mensmod · 2021-11-11T17:57:57+00:00

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WingsofSky · 2021-11-11T03:05:13+00:00

Remember. The squeaky wheel gets the oil.

Ok-Efficiency1842 · 2021-11-11T03:05:35+00:00

And the worst part is people will see this and think it's fine.

They refuse to see the hatred and intolerance that is right in front of them.

MixedKid05 · 2021-11-11T03:05:24+00:00

I tried explaining to this lady that the man means that if he was born a women he would not have been circumcised, because in western countries forcing that on women is illegal, she refuses to understand what I mean, and I get down voted. Like honestly, the man is suicidal and she goes and tries to make him feel bad and tells him women have it so much worse.

Like say something nice to him, make him feel better, he wants to kill himself, preaching how women have it so much worse to him isn’t going to do anything for him, it’s Judy going to make him feel like people feel his issues aren’t valid, which as he said in the comments. He didn’t want to go to a therapist because he felt people would laugh at him, meaning down play his issues.

What is wrong with this person?

The OP is there trying to explain what he meant by things, and it’s just what I thought, he’s trying to say being a man is worse then being a women or that men have I harder, he said he just believes that each person should have bodily rights and be able to choose to what I done to their bodies.

The people are also messaging OP calling him racist, anti Semitic, sexist and misogynistic. These people are truly cruel, OP had his post removed by the mods, and he is now making a new account to get away from the harassment from these people.

Edit-The mods of that sub deleted the rude comments. It was this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/Anxiety/comments/qr0zc5/suicidal_over_forced_circumcision/hk3z8jh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

sleepyJoeBidet · 2021-11-11T04:38:17+00:00

Women like her have hate that goes beyond reason. They are the ones that need help. Not a poor soul who wishes he was afforded the same protections as women. (Not that he actually was a woman).

LoveHotelCondom · 2021-11-11T03:46:50+00:00

I think there's a pretty big fucking difference between being mutilated as a defenseless baby and being rejected for tubal ligation by a doctor terrified of being sued but maybe that's just me. I guess the inconvenience of having to search for a doctor willing to perform the procedure you want is about as great as having part of your penis cut off to them.

AbaloneSilent5810 · 2021-11-11T05:16:57+00:00

women are raised with victim mentality.. and plenty of men support their antics to get pussy..

xx_DEADND_xx · 2021-11-11T03:21:37+00:00

Here to we see a general stance of feminism, when it is a major mens issue they use females have it a lot worse , but if we say this in a major women's issue they say we have no idea what they go through

MixedKid05 · 2021-11-11T03:49:57+00:00

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DanteLivra · 2021-11-11T04:13:13+00:00

Imagine talking about military veterans having it worst while you are describing that you've been raped.

Those people are doing the same thing.

Detective_Connan9 · 2021-11-11T06:10:11+00:00

Everybody should go downvote her comments

Complicated_Peanuts · 2021-11-11T06:42:34+00:00

The post has been deleted as expected.

hardturkeycider · 2021-11-11T03:48:35+00:00

I see more women against MGM in that thread than for it, and then only one or two stragglers being straight up unreasonable and making it about feminism

PrimoXiAlpha · 2021-11-11T09:10:35+00:00

Top comments validated op's opinion. It's nice to see.

RockmanXX · 2021-11-11T09:50:25+00:00

This is what happens when you allow feminism to spread the lie that Women are oppressed for the benefit of men and that Men are universally privileged, even if they're homeless or suicidal or whatever.

No bullshit, these women actually think that they're like a 3rd world man working in a dirt farm and walking 10 kilometres everyday to get water, they think they are THAT disadvantaged compared to Men.

I've learned over the years that it's pointless to try to talk any sense into feminists, you just have to stand your ground and call them out.. just say it loud and clear, Women are NOT oppressed to benefit Men. Patriarchy is a LIE.

ZangryGrapes · 2021-11-11T11:58:54+00:00

I don't see any comments saying women have it worse. i do see alot of women in the comments supporting him and comforting him

Alkoholisti69420 · 2021-11-11T16:06:09+00:00

I read the comments and the general opinion was supportive and condemning of male genital mutilation. But obviously there is going to be assholes everywhere

nyancola420 · 2021-11-11T04:05:17+00:00

I think I saw this thread.... those responses bothered me too. It's one thing to compare and point out women also don't have autonomy over their bodies but it was inappropriate af. And he was specifically talking about circumcision. As a feminist I want men to have equal rights and this mgm issue is totally swept under the rug. It's not like this takes away from other inequalities women face. It was his personal feelings and he was asking for help and being really open and honest. I learned so much from that post. I think some people just need to think it through more before they respond like that. It's coming from a place of being triggered and disregarding the whole point of the post.

lineber · 2021-11-11T05:06:34+00:00

No! I don't believe it! Feminist have found a way to make a men's issue into something about them?

/s

Seriously, I didn't read the entire post. But probably works both ways. We shouldn't compare everything to how women would be treated.

On the subject, I am fortunate enough to have a good relationship with my mother to ask her why she had us circumcised. She was very young and the male doctors pushed it on her when she spoke up against it. They then fed her a bunch of medical advice about hygiene and infection so she gave in because the doctors told her that it basically wrong not to do it. I can't blame her, maybe the doctors were wrong. I seriously don't know the facts against the hygiene argument.

JedahVoulThur · 2021-11-11T11:18:10+00:00

South American here, I and most of the world think circumcision is a barbaric practice and can't understand why it isn't illegal in the USA yet. Global Map of Male Circumcision Prevalence

DraganTehPro · 2021-11-11T12:10:22+00:00

I don't see a single comment talking about how women have it much worse. Did they delete the comments by any chance?

Other_Lingonberry234 · 2021-11-11T12:57:23+00:00

I went to the link but couldn't find any such comments.

Edit: looks like they must've been removed, which is good

Stoicism1981 · 2021-11-11T14:53:08+00:00

I know they do it to girls in Africa

Vaudeville_Clown · 2021-11-11T08:04:29+00:00

I wonder how it would be received if men made victim of this would estrange their parents.

Terror-Error · 2021-11-11T10:14:12+00:00

In that post op makes various comments about how he prefers being cut and that uncut is dirty.

Pretty suspicious.

majestic_tapir · 2021-11-11T12:39:09+00:00

All the top comments are people supporting the OP. What did you do, sort by controversial?

Strigon_7 · 2021-11-11T16:10:28+00:00

I get that FGM is a massive issue worldwide and needs to be stamped out but FFS can we not have a moment's sympathy or care for a suicidal person just desperate to be Heard?

rainbow_bro_bot · 2021-11-11T12:31:16+00:00

The mods there deleted his post, and the user deleted his account.

Sad.

UbiquitousWobbegong · 2021-11-11T08:45:30+00:00

Framing it the way he did invites the "us vs them" mindset. He's right that it wouldn't have happened if he was born a woman in the same location. The problem is that women see his comparison with the subtext that men have it worse in life, because he specifically calls out their privilege in this case. That puts them on the defense, because calling out privilege infringes on the benefits of victimhood.

It's like someone using a company's copyright. If the company doesn't challenge the infringement, they can lose their copyright.

Every group that has been allowed to have a social understanding as victims (women, black people, native people, etc) have to actively maintain their appearance as victims, or else that understanding falls out of public consciousness. Most people don't think about their actions in this regard at the kind of high level I'm speaking about them here, but everyone understands the fundamental motivation. If we think we are a victim whose suffering is ongoing, and someone tells us we are privileged in a way, we feel slighted.

If we want to avoid this reaction, you have to avoid implying that a recognizable group has it better than you. Simply state your grievance, and let that be bad enough on its own to convince someone that you have been wronged.

xanx_00 · 2021-11-11T04:33:03+00:00

I literally just see one reply acknowledging the comparison he made with women and FGM. everything else is supportive and ignores it

Doesn’t excuse it obviously but your title is a bit wacky lol

DecimatingDarkDeceit · 2021-11-11T17:46:21+00:00

Summary? Here is the summary. From the spoiled or rather entitled wahmeynz (the inhumane women in the comments) perspective: If entire planet were to be invaded by an extraterrestrial civilization which forcibly integrate and abduct the entire male population. Woman would be the ''most affected''. You can't make this up! :I

AtTheEnd777 · 2021-11-11T06:40:01+00:00

I absolutely disapprove of circumcision but yes, FGM is far worse.

Alternative_Swan4969 · 2021-11-11T04:46:40+00:00

are you talking about u/sweetEVILone ?? because that’s not even what they’re saying

rollitpullit · 2021-11-11T06:16:33+00:00

Why is this man suicidal for a circumcision though? Did it go wrong and leave him disfigured? I can understand if he sincerely wishes he was never circumcised but why does this make him suicidal? He could have some underlying mental issues here.

SuitBoat · 2021-11-11T07:14:55+00:00

I don't see any getting upvoted

gianfranco_rossi · 2021-11-11T15:36:26+00:00

Circumcision is TERRIBLE! I had it done to me when I was a newborn, and I couldn't walk for a year!

FH-7497 · 2021-11-11T17:16:12+00:00

PLEASE STOP THROWING PITY PARTIES.

If you go to the comments, they are OVERWHELMINGLY supportive. Some women are even expressing that they are having their eyes opened to the horrors of infant circumcision. I read through on TOP for a couple minutes and didn't see a SINGLE comment supporting what you put for a title.

SERIOUSLY, actively polarizing content is exemplary of disservice to self and others. Please do better

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