Prime age?

ratboi34 · 2023-09-10T02:27:59+00:00

Female prime: 19-29 Male prime: 23-33

The difference between the male and female prime is, that men universally like women in their twenties physically the most, no matter if they are 18 or 70 themselves. Early to mid twenties being the most attractive. Women like men around their own age or a little older the most. In their fourties it reverses and physically their ideal is their age or slightly younger. So the physical attractiveness peak depends on the woman's age. However, since men desire women in their twenties the most, the ideal male age is the age, where it's the easiest to secure a prime female. Considering how unsuccessful 18-24 year olds seem to be according to studies and how many men get into relationships from mid twenties to mid thirties, 23-33 is probably male prime, unless you start balding, then it's over even earlier. So both male and female prime is quite young. It's maybe a bitter reality for some, but we will all age and become uglier. I think those red pill dudes need to let women age in peace tho lol.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-10T02:33:28+00:00

It really depends on when the woman comes into her looks. Most women peak at around age 24-26, but certain women like Monica Belluci peaked at like 35. Some people get better with age.

Most women, if they focus on remaining healthy mentally and physically* can remain physically attractive into their 40s though if they have a good genetic base.

Lovers691 · 2023-09-10T01:02:39+00:00

30 is the wall according to the RP

Safinated · 2023-09-10T02:43:00+00:00

It probably comes from actual data

https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10

https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html

Rogue5454 · 2023-09-10T04:18:23+00:00

What do they mean by in their “prime” tho? Can you break it down how they “judge” a woman’s “prime?”

AngeCruelle · 2023-09-10T01:15:44+00:00

Being in one's "prime" can mean a lot of different things to different people. Is it when you get the most attention from the opposite sex? Is it when you have the best/most fulfilling relationships? Is it when you feel like you've truly come into your own and all of the confusion and insecurity of the past are long behind you? When you feel like you're on top of the world and it doesn't get any better than this?

If I had to choose I would say that so far 24/25 have been some of the best years of my life. My father has described himself and my mother as being in their prime in their early 50s. They're still very much in love after over 25 years together. Proud of how far they've come professionally and financially. Their kids are adults. They get to travel and see the world with us. Both are healthy and active. Where I'm at now is pretty sweet but for me a life like theirs is the dream.

Future17 · 2023-09-10T07:07:01+00:00

Men primarily want women for sex.

Women want men primarily for security and status.

Hence, a woman's prime is when she looks the most sexually attractive. That's usually 18-29

For a man, it's usually 30-40 (he's the buffest, and the most financially secure at this range)

wtknight · 2023-09-10T02:00:14+00:00

Reaching "the wall" is different from being in one's prime. There might be a slow decline from a woman's prime until the age when she is no longer considered as attractive to the most attractive men out there. A 28-year old woman, for instance, might no longer be at her prime, but she still might be attractive enough to attract good men and therefore not be at "the wall".

timspacewarper · 2023-09-10T08:14:14+00:00

The Wall is women's realization that they cannot compete with their younger selves. You can define it as the decline in fertility and sexual appeal between the ages of 30 and 35, or mindset shifts and the epiphany phase, where a woman will start to act differently towards dating. She'll start asking you questions like "Where is this going?"

saving_private_ryan_ · 2023-09-10T02:19:08+00:00

I'm a 31 year old virgin who's never been in a relationship and only been on one date his whole life. I feel the prime age is over for dating once you hit 30s.

saving_private_ryan_ · 2023-09-10T22:44:01+00:00

I like older women in their 40s and 50s over women in their early 20s. I find women attractive well into their 70s as well. I know I'm a minority, though.

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-10T02:08:27+00:00

The wall means getting less options,becoming less attractive.

It is true woman's prime is around 18-25.After 30 ,it is end of life. I conceal my wrinkles and some of my white hair to improve my chances of getting hired for a job .Parents no longer loving me. The options in my dating pool are gone and those who are interested in dating seem to be low-level guys or fools. This is called "the wall".

20s is prime time in terms of everything like making friends,having kids,marriage,career etc,Woman's future is mostly decided by what she did in her 20s

Ylduts · 2023-09-10T11:59:58+00:00

Go look at the data. Men of all ages rate women of 18-23 as being the most physically attractive. It’s not even close.

YveisGrey · 2023-09-10T06:37:14+00:00

Only men have a wall.

Women have no wall really because even an old woman could sell sex and that says it all.

You see men start with such low SMV (and even RMV) that most of them have to work really hard to get any eventually when they become older usually around the 40s it’s pretty much over for them unless they acquired a decent amount of wealth and status.

Like think of your average dude 5 foot 8 a little chubby makes 65k a year, when that dude turns 39 very few women are checking for him let’s be real. He is never getting it hit on. If this dude makes a dating profile he is not getting any matches. But a woman who’s 39?? yeah she’s still getting some play. Let’s be real. Like she is probably occasionally getting hit on by dudes and if she gets on a dating app there will be matches.

women, they always get something, even if they’re older. Yes, their are SMV takes a hit with age. One could even argue that women take a bigger hit with age than men do, but it doesn’t really matter because they’re starting so much higher than men to begin with.

like if you’re born with $1 million in a trust fund and then you lose half by the time you’re 30 you still got half 1 million bucks. A guy who starts with 10,000 works his way up to 100,000 by 30 and then starts going back down as he approaches 40, he can never really compete with the 1/2million she got left to dwindle while his 100k dwindles. SMV is kinda like that.

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Cethlinnstooth · 2023-09-10T12:19:27+00:00

It's a market place. Value is dynamic and to some extent, local. It varies by segment of the market too.

What I think those particular men are stating is their age preference if they currently had unlimited purchasing power to purchase the best looking candidates within that age range. Which they just don't have.

The equivalent is...money makes an attractive narrative for women. But...most of the attractive working class women aren't seriously looking towards marrying rich men. Why? The rich who can't find satisfactory rich people who they are willing to have and who will have them tend to be trash on some level.

Mostly people just aren't in competition across market segments. Spergy 32 year old engineers with strong levels of misogyny aren't in competition for pretty 21 year old McDonald's employees. No matter how "prime" they think her titties look. No matter how "prime' she thinks his wage looks. It's barely happening if at all. The market segments itself the way it does for reasons. And the only group it is useful to determine the 'prime" of is the group that has been proven likely to want someone like you.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-09-10T13:27:53+00:00

Women's SMV tanks compared to men's after age 30, this is reflected on basically any study of male/female attraction.

Women also tend to select for older men as well, so when the hot 19 year old won't date any dude under 24, she's creating this environment.

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2023-09-10T18:57:34+00:00

Women have a shorter reproductive window. And men are not primarily or even secondarily selecting for resources/success, and that is the only thing that rises with age. So when a woman's beauty starts to fade, her desirability starts tanking as well.

Thatguyknowswhatsup · 2023-09-10T20:35:55+00:00

This isn't a RP thing, this is basic anatomy/science 101.
The older a woman get's the greater the pregnancy risk which makes women in their 20's "prime".

Younger women are also more desirable for several different reasons and because of it have higher value making them "prime". Older women HATE to hear that but it doesn't change the fact men are attracted to beauty and younger women are typically more beautiful than older women. Again, it's basic science/nature.

Title	Prime age?
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