Religious Red Pill Users: How Do You Balance Your Beliefs and the Red Pill?

I'm asking all of you, please, religious people to reply to this post because I don't want to have a theological debate with anybody.

Surely there are Muslim red pillers among you, or if not Muslim, then devout Christian red pillers. I am asking as a Muslim: How do you reconcile the red pill with your religious beliefs? How do you find the middle ground between your religious beliefs and the red pill?

The Abrahamic religions forbid adultery and we who are religious should not commit adultery. We should all protect our chastity and be chaste. None of us want short-term relationships, we don't want long-term relationships; we all want to get married because according to our religions it is forbidden to be a playboy. So that's where it's a big deal. According to the red pill, if you are a virgin, you are beta. If you are a virgin, the woman you want to marry will say about you, "This man has never attracted any woman? Then why should I look at this man whom no woman has ever looked at?" If you are a virgin, you are an unoptional man at high risk of developing oneitis. According to the red pill, women expect men to lead them in everything (if not in everything, at least in most things), including sex. If we are virgins, how are we supposed to sexually lead the women we marry? The most crucial part is that the red pill does not recommend men to get married because of the current legal conditions. But according to Islam, marriage is a commandment of God and Islam values the concept of family. But according to the red pill, we should spin plates.

I don't accept this, because if the red pill or any ideology or praxeology contradicts my religious belief, I prefer my religious belief, of course. Because I believe in the hereafter and I don't want to risk and lose my eternal life for the sake of living a hedonistic life. We religious men who want to have peaceful marriages should find a way out.