The Average Man

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-02-28T22:39:00+00:00

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Hoopy223 · 2021-02-28T21:01:35+00:00

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reluctantly_red · 2021-02-28T20:27:01+00:00

That would be an average top 20% guy -- at least -- might even be an average top 10% guy.

Certainly isn't a 50th percentile guy who makes $42K, is 5'9", and weighs 198 pounds. I just googled those stats BTW.

PreparationWorried33 · 2021-02-28T20:30:57+00:00

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NockerJoe · 2021-02-28T20:50:26+00:00

The average man has 6 or so partners across his whole life. 4+ partners a year is definitley very far outside the norm.

Vicky-3 · 2021-02-28T20:50:53+00:00

So the average 30 year old man has 4x14 around 40-60different sex partners.

Riiiiiight,average lol.

Vicky-3 · 2021-02-28T21:06:41+00:00

Are you gaslighting on purpose or did you do absolutely NO research?

OP is trolling. I thought he was serious at first. 🤣.

iamthemovie1992 · 2021-02-28T20:51:04+00:00

Hmmmm so some of it I agree with.

has a career/in school/hobby related interest that brings in money

For sure has a career or is in school. He will have a hobby, but he won’t be able to actually bring in money with it if he’s not super talented and it’s something that’s people actually find worth to pay for it. If anything, it’ll be his career, not his side gig.

has a moderate to large social group

I’d say a small to moderate. Now of course that moderate social group can meet up with another and have a large one say at a party. But it won’t be a regular thing. Maybe a monthly thing. Most of the time he’s chilling with the core group of like 5-6 people.

has a social life

100%. You don’t need to be the top 20% to have a social life. You can get a social life as the average man. The average man is going to bars, clubs, concerts, and parties. Sure he may have to pay the price of admission to get into these places where he’s not the main attraction or just isn’t invited personally for free by someone. But he’s out there doing shit.

goes on at least score 3-8 dates a year

Yes. This is pretty accurate. Even with OLD you can still find a date, as long as you’re not going for straight up 8s.

has 4+ sexual partners a year

No, absolutely not. Here’s the thing, the average dude is struggling to get laid at all outside a relationship. Yes he’ll go to these clubs, these bars, these places where you meet women but pretty much he’s almost always going home alone. Let’s say he’s a dude who goes out every weekend, which isn’t usually the case because you don’t go out every weekend, but let’s say he did. He can maybe get lucky once in a very very blue moon, and it pretty much is the thing he talks about for the next year and a half. The average man has 7 partners his entire lifetime, the entire lifespan. He’s definitely not getting 4 sexual partners in a year, no way in hell. That’s at least your top 20%

Rube-And-Tug · 2021-02-28T20:58:45+00:00

has a career/in school/hobby related interest that brings in money

This is worldwide, but only 13% of people are actually emotionally invested in their work

has a moderate to large social circle

Eh, depends on your definition. The average person probably has 5-10 people they regularly hang out with outside of work, decreasing with age.

has a social life

True

goes on at least score 3-8 dates a year

With the same person or multiple?

has 4+ sexual partners a year (depending on ideologies etc. of course)

The average American has 7 total sexual partners in their lifespan, so this is wildly untrue lmao

You drastically underestimate the amount of people who are serial/committed monogamists and those who drop out of dating entirely for one reason or another

TheJim66 · 2021-02-28T21:18:17+00:00

Do you people even go outside?

pre-DrChad · 2021-02-28T20:51:59+00:00

The average man is in a relationship/married not sleeping with 4 chicks a year

Unless you’re insinuating the average man cheats a lot which is a bold claim

ConsequenceThat6209 · 2021-02-28T20:52:05+00:00

Almost all studies places a median number of sexual partners for a man to be around 6-8. Where did you get 4+ a year from?

OXOzymandias · 2021-02-28T21:11:58+00:00

goes on at least score 3-8 dates a year

has 4+ sexual partners a year (depending on ideologies etc. of course)

thats not true

Hoopy223 · 2021-02-28T21:13:46+00:00

I have lived in several states, big cities and small ones, from San Francisco to Winslow Arizona, plus traveled out of the US. Out of all the men I’ve known throughout my life only one of them checks all of your boxes. I don’t know where you live or what personal baggage you carry but that’s not how most men are.

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Estimator1313 · 2021-02-28T20:52:31+00:00

Other than the job, I have none of those things.

Then again, when you’re an Aspie loser who’s been bullied and ostracized for years, how can you be even close to average?

Vicky-3 · 2021-02-28T20:59:55+00:00

Totally Wrong do a simple google search. The average is around 7.

https://onlinedoctor.superdrug.com/whats-your-number/

7 is average ,normal for a man. Doesn’t make the guy weird,and doesn’t make him a ladies man’s...just normal average.

Chairman_of_the_Pool · 2021-02-28T21:05:55+00:00

With COVID-19- who is going on all of these dates Or hanging out in a mid to large social circle in person?

PickleLine · 2021-02-28T21:45:37+00:00

You need to use median, not average because dating has a pareto distribution

Allblackallamerican · 2021-02-28T21:48:34+00:00

Take into account how many millions of men tried their luck at somewhere between 5-20 women in the past year and struck out with all of them, and then ask yourself does a man who had sex with 4 women he likes — we’re not talking about the men who will dumpster dive just to be able to say they’re getting pussy — in the past year sound average.

I can tell you right now, any man who has 4 different, quality sexual partners in the last 12 months is in the upper echelon of average at a minimum.

xFallacyx69 · 2021-02-28T22:02:13+00:00

Pfffff no way in hell. I can’t even swing 4+ sexual partners a year...

mydikishomofobik · 2021-02-28T22:17:24+00:00

LOL. That's not even close to being the average man. The average man is almost 40. Works as an electrician, police officer, truck driver, marketing specialist, operations manager, lawyer, or software developer. Probably has an overweight borderline obese late 30s wife and 2 kids. Could be divorced. Likely spends much of his time commuting to and from work and then dealing with his wife and kids. It's unlikely he has that many dates or sexual partners.

Title	The Average Man
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Date	February 28, 2021 8:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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