There is nothing wrong in men lying about LTR and then ghosting

DeviantDork · 2026-05-27T07:55:24+00:00

Any position that starts from having to justify your own immoral behavior is probably one you want to reconsider.

WknessTease · 2026-05-27T07:57:53+00:00

Are all those studies in the room with us right now?

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2026-05-27T08:01:24+00:00

you know a lot of people can sense your contempt for them right? and that you're not as clever as you think you are.

stop projecting your fantasy of imagined superiority onto us.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-05-27T07:56:14+00:00

There is nothing wrong about stealing aersons money. Studies show that people only give money to the top ten service providers and others have to compete, that's unfair. Money should be distributed fairly, I need money too. So nothing wrong about stealing from you.

bondepart · 2026-05-27T07:57:34+00:00

So by your reckoning it’s fine for women to lie about body counts.

It’s fine for trans women to lie about being trans.

It’s fine for women to lie about being on contraception.

Because men lie too so it’s fair.

Zestyclose_Truth9999 · 2026-05-27T08:04:25+00:00

why should men not do the same?

Certain men do this already. This isn't some novel concept.

Unfortunately, you need to be very attractive for people to ignore a bad personality, and most "avergae loooksmatched" men are not.

TL;DR: No one cares that you want to "do the same".

Zabadoodude · 2026-05-27T08:08:58+00:00

You don't need the internet's permission. You can be a dishonest asshole to get sex if you like. But at least be honest about what you're doing and don't rationalize why it's actually not asshole behaviour.

baller696969balls · 2026-05-27T08:28:46+00:00

Please show me those studies. Otherwise you won’t have any proof of women lying about their body counts. How are you so certain that women are sleeping with more people than they say they are? Have you asked all women about their sexual pasts, and subsequently stalked all women to see if they’re telling the truth?

Women, on average, sleep with less people than men do. Men prefer variety and are also horny more often than women. I don’t think you understand that the women who go for “the top 10% of men” aren’t in some sort of competition to bang them all, it’s usually an ideal for a long term partner.

ihatesmelly · 2026-05-27T08:02:41+00:00

Sure, do what you want but it still won’t win you sex and women know more people than you think and word will definitely get out you’re a POS.

MissMenace101 · 2026-05-27T08:29:21+00:00

Awesome. So women should just have affairs, not have sex, not work and bludge off their useless husbands seems men hate women apparently anyway. 🤷🏼‍♀️

love_in_october · 2026-05-27T08:34:42+00:00

Usually women who like hookups end up in relationships with men they hooked up with. But many women don't do or like them.

It's wrong to lie to people. It's not going to enact revenge on the boogeywomen who had the audacity to hook up with someone other than you. It's just going to poison your interpersonal relationships and put you on one of those Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook groups people here like to complain about with a warning that you're a manipulative liar, and they wouldn't be wrong.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-05-27T08:40:24+00:00

The only “studies” that show this was a dating app 11 years ago.

If your going to use this excuse to be a horrible partner, don’t be surprised no one wants to date you

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Interesting_Talk410 · 2026-05-27T08:07:38+00:00

It’s not ghosting when the women are happy you’re gone. Women make sure thy have all their belongings when they leave your place because they have no intentions on coming back.

“lemme get the other half of my subway sandwich I left on his counter …”

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2026-05-27T08:30:02+00:00

Simply rephrase what you’re doing to be socially acceptable for normies. You’re participating in “casual dating”. A woman gazed at you a bit, liked it when you called her beautiful, hanged out with you for a few hours, and then said “ok” when you told her you wanted to kiss her. In online dating you’re “meeting new people to make a connection”. If you don’t like her, then you just “didn’t feel any chemistry”.

DiligentRope · 2026-05-27T08:24:54+00:00

You're still in the red pill rage phase, you need to learn to get out of that.

Title	There is nothing wrong in men lying about LTR and then ghosting
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Date	May 27, 2026 7:51 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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