What needs to be on the table?

So there is a lot of talk here that men are just "losers" and "dont bring enough to the table" or "woman rather stay single".

But what are your actual expectations? Please tell the numbers or a orientation point or your statement is basicly usless

for example if you dont mention heigt, would it mean a 4,5 men would be ok? or he should be "social" social like a asperger autist or social like the average men?)