Did the Tea App prove the Redpill?

treadmarks · 2025-07-27T17:50:51+00:00

The red pill didn't need anymore proof, there's already plenty. It's just a marketing problem at this point. These high profile incidents just help to get the message out.

throwaway73737828 · 2025-07-27T13:54:01+00:00

We didnt need proof in the first place, but yeah it showed people that they can finally accept it by showing them data. Also you have to understand something about the 20% rule. The bottom 20% to 11%% get like 3-4 matches a month. When you go above 10% these dudes gets 50-100s of matches a month. They can date 20 women a week if they wanted to. So it proves that these women date the same type of men.

So the bottom 20-11% are not struggling to date however their options are not abundant, but they get dates and sex dont get me wrong. But the 10% is just on steroids.

nadirian · 2025-07-27T13:41:07+00:00

I think everyone, men and women and children, have way too much trust in tech corporations.

This app is trying to make money, and like many tech endeavors, it has no real path to profitability outside of monetizing people's data and hype. So they focus on HYPEHYPEHYPE and then cut and run once people catch on to the grift and stop feeding real data.

You think the ghouls pitching this app to VCs are honestly reporting their numbers? Fuuuck no.

IridikronsNo1Fan · 2025-07-27T13:42:02+00:00

The 20/80 rule. We have different kinds of data to support it. Personally, I know both guys who never go on dates and guys who have a main girlfriend, a side chick and random one night stands every couple of weeks.

Dating as a guy is the very definition of "feast or famine".

And yes, all of them are dating the same guy. And and aye, becoming the subject of gossip on the Tea app will actually help those guys because of pre-selection.

marchingrunjump · 2025-07-27T17:30:09+00:00

I’d guess a significant proportion of downloads are due to ppl wanting to see what it’s all about.

Alwaysnthered · 2025-07-27T15:25:47+00:00

online dating is a hypergamous echo chamber, real life tends to be a bit different.

I Actually find it very interesting.

the couples I know that met in real life, and met earlier and are typically looksmatched or in a lot of cases the women is actually more attractive than the man.

However, online dating is a completely different ballgame.

I always tell people that there is a window of opportunity between the ages of 18-23/24 where you can actually meet someone in a more normal environment that isnt' exposed to hypergamy as much. but you need to be in the right enviornment. a guy going to electrical engienering where its 98% men is going to really stifle his chances whereas the same guy who goes to nursing school is probably going to easily find a partner. its literally that simple.

once you past this window it becomes less and less possible

I wish I knew this when I was younger, I wouldve formed my environments to be around more women.

now I'm unfortunately part of the hypergamous pool.

DelDivision · 2025-07-27T13:58:16+00:00

Of course it did especially when the photos of the women and the men those women posted were revealed and showed that those unfortunate looking women were punching above their weight class.

Muscletov · 2025-07-27T20:28:39+00:00

I just think the app antagonized another large batch of men by highlighting women's distrust and disdain towards them.

Clutterboxx · 2025-07-27T16:10:24+00:00

It's too early to say, the app might get deleted from stores and people will avoid it after the leaks. We also don't have a clear idea about the type of guys who were on it.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2025-07-27T16:49:26+00:00

I think the biggest proof of the red pill being true was how unattractive the women are and how attractive the men are on the tea app. Hypergamy is definitely real and men are hooking up with and dating women far below their attractiveness, at least in western society

OmoshiroiKudamono · 2025-07-27T16:01:10+00:00

First, make the ages 20-30, not 40. The 30-40 y/o's missed/barely missed the hellscape of online dating. "Online" is not just the apps. The 30-40 y/o may not even be aware of the Gen Z apps.

Second, even if Basic Bob and Cubicle Carl appears, the average man is NOT viewed very favorable. Even for Bob and Carl's looksmatch, he is NOT favored. That means he will have high chances of being labeled a creep, even if his intentions weren't creepy. He could have said the wrong pickup line or something.

Third, of course Neckbeard Ned is a creep. But he is a small %.

Fourth, Pookie, Chad, Tyrone, and Glocktavious will appear, but the TEA users don't care enough to avoid. They already deep down inside know what they are getting into.

Ragazzocolbass8 · 2025-07-27T13:41:05+00:00

How many years would it take

I used to date 3~4 different girls a week. I did it for about 6~ years in between long-term relationships.

Some days I would set up 2 or 3 dates at the same time or close and ghost 2 of them last minute.

I bet I'm on that app if it's available in the EU. Is it?

stars33d33 · 2025-07-27T14:47:54+00:00

Most men aren’t even getting dates so it’s really only the top men who behave immorally that should be worried and how is that a bad thing to protect people from scum bag liars?

torytho · 2025-07-27T17:16:41+00:00

You're saying this from a blue pill lense? It sounds pretty conspiratorial and red pill to me.

I think it's possible for an app like this to exist if you imagine most of the people on it are clumped in major cities near each other. I mean, there are a lot of apps that connect local people. This isn't that different. You're just conspiratorial.

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ShabbyJerking · 2025-08-01T23:57:49+00:00

One could say which pill it actually proved - but that would get you b& in this sub (and 99% of others).

Dertross · 2025-08-03T03:57:18+00:00

Yes, we know. We've been saying it since the ok cupid study. All the bluepillers have is "the internet isn't real life" and they're going to die on that hill while the internet continues to corroborate what non-bluepillers are saying.

ITSalesGuy1 · 2025-08-18T17:38:07+00:00

Now there is fixmytea.com to help guys get their negative posts removed and see if their on there. LOL

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-07-27T14:20:30+00:00

The Tea app proved that some men are so damn dumb that it took an app hitting number one in order to get them to understand that women talk, message, share information, build networks, warn each other, and generally discuss things to each other. So the only ones that fall for the lame tricks are those that are either anti-social, steadfastly refuse to listen, or are very young and naive.

So in a sense it proves why redpillers are red pillers I guess.

Physical_Sherbet199 · 2025-07-27T15:22:00+00:00

Absolutely not. Most of these men on that app are bottom of the barrel losers and not at all attractive. If anything it proves that women like unattractive men. This should be motivating, inspiring, and a message of hope to men.

Solondthewookiee · 2025-07-27T15:46:33+00:00

So 4% of the Woman in the US are on this App, how the Hell there could be a possibility in a "Blue Pill world " that one dude actually has that many dates that he es multiple times mentioned on this App?

Because the vast majority of people go on more than one date with one person?

Even if we more then double the chances, one dude would need to have 10 Dates to Date a Tea app user

How are you getting this number?

Title	Did the Tea App prove the Redpill?
Author	Ok_Cook_3098
Upvotes	118
Comments	236
Date	July 26, 2025 7:22 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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