when hope seems lost or when you have problems finding a significant other. love and compassion goes a long way

bigmanpav · 2022-07-21T21:49:37+00:00

It's very difficult to have this mindset. I used to be white pilled like this when I was younger. But when I try to be compassionate, I get played over and over again. I get used, ghosted or let down.

But when I act uninterested, like an asshole and like I don't care about the girl I'm dating, she will chase me and treat me well. It's unhealthy, but it works. It's really frustrating because I don't like abusing or manipulating girls I really like

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-07-21T21:51:59+00:00

it is the opposite of black pill

I don’t subscribe to The Black Pill but they have one thing right; attraction is pivotal.

love and compassion goes a long way

After attraction. No woman is loving a bum, panhandling on the curb.

That said I’m a big proponent for love, and compassion. Men however need to prioritise themselves first. Which is where TRP comes in.

Godspeed and good luck!

Swapsta · 2022-07-21T22:15:42+00:00

Everyone is white pill before they inevitably notice reality.

throwaway316stunner · 2022-07-22T04:29:00+00:00

To quote Bender from Futurama:

“Ba ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Oh… wait, you were serious. Let me laugh even harder.”

”BA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA.”

It’s delusional, man. Compassion doesn’t get you anywhere nowadays, not in this individualistic society of ours. It just gets you run over and stomped on while you’re down.

sl3epsfortheweak · 2022-07-21T22:04:59+00:00

I don't think compassion is enough for people to like you I mean perhaps they'll accept it if it's coming from the person they want but they might overlook it if it's someone else that's less significant to them

crispickle · 2022-07-22T00:58:51+00:00

Lol why would i show compassion and kindness to people who shit on those below them? Or women who treat men they are not attracted to as invisible?

This society doesn't care about struggling young men so why does it deserve compassion in return? Not to mention women despise kindness and compassion in men which is why fuckbois are way more successful than meek nice guys.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-07-21T21:34:19+00:00

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Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-07-22T01:26:00+00:00

when hope seems lost or when you have problems finding a significant other. love and compassion goes a long way

That's kind of seem bullshit.

it dictates that by showing compassion and understand towards women and their issues. they will start to gravitate to u. given time.

As a woman,I would say it wouldn't work most of time.

YtBlue · 2022-07-22T05:09:33+00:00

Great idea in a fairy tale land. Too bad the best marker of future success is the opposite of what your advocating.

D_D_BA4 · 2022-07-21T21:48:37+00:00

Trolling. Doing this to get a reaction.

-ImmortalOrochi- · 2022-07-21T22:19:01+00:00

Genuinely haven't heard of anything stupider. Is there anything to support your claim other than just world fallacy? Are those that don't get what they want simply evil/don't love enough/whatever?

Gold-Performance-536 · 2022-07-21T21:25:53+00:00

From my experience women respect power, success, and attractiveness. That gets you in the door. Kindness, support, and other similar qualities grow the relationship.

White Pill sounds like a Nice Guy strategy and no one likes nice guys

BlKaiser · 2022-07-22T09:01:19+00:00

I kiiiinda get your point. Or at least what you are trying to convey.

White Pill could also be the one person who, even though fully aknowledges that the red pill (or even the black pill) provide way more accurate insight about the modern dating scene than the blue pill, they still believe there is no point in participating in this game and let themselves be consumed in that highly transactional aspect of dating since is fundamentaly toxic. So they decide to follow the more romantic, kind and hopeful aspect of it and whatever goes goes. They could be very well aware that they are looking for a needle in a haystack, even be borderline delusional, they know it but it doesn't really matter. It's either this or nothing and they are okay with that, or they will try to be.

It could be some sort of soft resignment combined with the will to stand unshaken to a world doesn't work like what their core beliefs dictate, having the desire to either be the exception to the rule and find a partner on blue-pillesque terms or die alone.

Magnito-was-right · 2022-07-21T22:17:34+00:00

I’m friends with a guy who is obese, but everyone loves him and he does well with women. He just has calming energy, keeps it positive, and asks interesting follow up questions to answers you give him. He’s great.

poppy_blu · 2022-07-22T01:10:01+00:00

Try to remember that a lot of guys who find their way to the pillosphere are struggling because they’re on the spectrum and have a terrible time relating to other people. They are certainly capable of love and compassion but it looks different than what a normie expects, so they often get written off a being weird, aloof, stuck up, heartless, etc.

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HazyMemory7 · 2022-07-22T11:15:55+00:00

Love and passion are a disney fairly tail in 2022. I tried more or less what the description of white pill in your post suggests when I first found red pill, only to get burned again, and again.

I'll take playing the "game" so to speak any day over looking for a needle in a haystack that may not exist.

AelfredRex · 2022-07-22T11:56:00+00:00

Love is a lost concept in the land where 80/20, "sexual market values" and "n-counts" are taken seriously.

If you can't love women, how can you ever expect them to love you? Not a question they're equipped to answer.

No_Regular1586 · 2022-07-23T05:24:35+00:00

This is retarded.

MsGoogleEyes · 2022-07-27T04:28:42+00:00

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Title	when hope seems lost or when you have problems finding a significant other. love and compassion goes a long way
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Date	July 21, 2022 9:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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