PLEASE READ THE FULL POST BEFORE ASKING NAMELY THE EDIT.

This is a question I've had, but where, exactly is there good dating advice to point to? I've looked through a lot of the "toxic" material, but ultimately, I'm looking for practical, realistic advice for the game. This community is very fact based and tries to back up a lot of their ideas with well thought about explanations. I commonly hear, irl or in other communities, that "this person doesn't work" or "that person isn't useful," and bluntly, it's not useful to fidn healthy or usefull information to solve a problem. So i wanted to ask this relatively large community what resources you all think are legitimately good and why?

I found that Mark manson's "Models" is a pretty good book, and I've found some useful information here and there in the red pill, but Im generally found in an awkward position of hearing many critiques of why dating advice is bad, but very little info on what is good while it also being reasonably practical. Common one being the classic "just be____" sort of advice. Thoughts? I've been sitting on this for a while to very little answers from all around in many communities, and this seems like the best place for this sort of discussion from pretty much a reasonable sample base. Also, I understand there is more than one way to solve this, Im mostly trying to see answers that have more thought put into them.

Thank you to all who will answer.

Im somewhat reentering a lot of these spaces for the first time in years, so apologies in advance if I seem less caught up.

Edit: purpose, clarification of theQUESTION. When I ask where, I dont mean generally. I mean, what places give good dating advice, who or what is a good resource. I understand people arent one size fits all, but I am asking for where (and you can say what they generally advocate for and expalinw hy theyre right), but I am not asking for a magic bullet.

Example of what i am looking for.

QUESTION: Where do i find good dating advice, and why did you pick it?

ANSWER:Oh, this guy _______ gives good dating advice, he says ___. . I tried it, and i think he's generally right about _ . I find his content to be pretty useful. Try them out.

Similar to Question: I need a car. Where can I find a good dealership? Answer: Oh, this guy over on street sign ave. He has a good place. He's pretty good on prices.

I realize this is a communication error on my part, but I hope this clarifies the topic and what I'm asking. This is for seeing where exactly good advice can be found, not blanket advice for all cases.