TL;DR supplementing with nootropics such as ashwagandha, l-theanine & phenibut help lower inhibitions for daygame.

BODY: Recently disovered the Nootropics subreddit as I'm interested in maximizing cognition during business meetings & sustained energy during workouts (basically, the Limitless effect, if you're familiar with the film). I once considered this a quack science, but kept an open mind & experimented with l-theanine & caffeine in my preworkout mix. A curious side effect was I became noticeably more talkative & sociable as a result. Investigated more & found other calming agents also have this effect, much like alcohol, but without the obvious side-effects. I've had great results with ashwagandha, also, & am soon experimenting with phenibut. If you're looking to add more social flair in your life, it's worth investing some time to research. These are powerful tools & are reasonably safe, inexpensive, & legal.

LESSON LEARNED: There's options when your social game is lagging. Do your due diligence, but do not be dismissive of the power of nootropics.