[FR] [NSFW] Nothing cures oneitis like watching your former oneitis wipe your cum off her face

Mangoinhand · 2017-02-17T04:11:46+00:00

That's a great story and I am happy you found a better path.

Your conclusion of "Women are honestly pathetic, emotional creatures..." is more of an ironic projection of your perceived past self. You blew your load on yourself because that's what You Really Wanted back then (behaviour not words)

Women are not the enemy nor is it healthy for a man to emote such scorn and bitterness towards his past relationship. But I can understand it is part of the healing process and wish you success and happiness to you and those in your life.

Odiumvex · 2017-02-17T03:58:34+00:00

...It was because it was hot and in the moment. You obviously enjoy that type of sex and you held back in your previous marriage. Where was this mouth fucking man ten years ago? You guys just let shit happen with your basic shit, drives me nuts.

danO1O1O1 · 2017-02-17T05:40:58+00:00

You can't really call someone's nature pathetic. The antelope that's caught by the lion isn't pathetic. Just unlucky and it's just nature. Your woman would have loved the new you back then. Where was he?

Fulp_Piction · 2017-02-17T12:20:02+00:00

A lot of people here saying "women aren't pathetic, thats just the way they are". I get where you guys are coming from, but I'm with OP. Women are pathetic if you judge them according to the standards any man should hold themselves to. Any supplicant, needy, subservient, manipulative, externally validated man is a pathetic man. Giving them their own rulebook is a slippery slope that leads to you excusing shitty behaviour because 'girls, right? lol'.

Part of waking up is realising that women don't give a fuck about 95% (low estimate) of the things that you think are important. To a woman, you are as much of an accessory as a designer handbag. It's pretty much about status, and it's both depressing and freeing to realise that.

mnemos_1 · 2017-02-17T09:01:13+00:00

Godspeed to you as well, you magnificent bastard. The awakening you've experienced, the awareness you now have will continue to spur your growth to new heights. Go forth and slay.

Women are honestly pathetic, emotional creatures who are driven by emotion and will do or say anything (or let you do anything) to make that emotion seem genuine, even if they truly don't want to. You literally can't rationalize with something like that.

I have to say though, I'm noticing a number of the commenters are giving OP flak for this statement. Remember gents, anger is part of the process, and needs to be experienced, understood and resolved before any sort of acceptance can take place. He'll get there, and from what I can see, he's made a great start.

*Edit: Typo

sihitu123 · 2017-02-17T09:16:57+00:00

" fucked her mouth for half an hour -

I believe the story but fuck it couldnt be constant mought fucking thats for sure.

BearsBeatzBattlestar · 2017-02-17T13:48:45+00:00

I think there is an underlining truth to this sub, but you guys often go so overboard with it

Luce_Bree · 2017-02-17T14:19:04+00:00

"You are BETTER THAN HER!!!"

~Patrice O'Neal

GOD_not_G_D · 2017-02-17T14:00:04+00:00

Stories like this are better than porn

PaulAJK · 2017-02-17T14:20:47+00:00

This sort of story would have had me utterly baffled before I took the pill. How can a woman be so illogical and wierd, why do they do this crazy stuff, what's the strategy there, IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.

Oh, hypergamy you say? Yeah, that explains it...

ozaku7 · 2017-02-17T15:06:00+00:00

Women are insecure creatures that need external confirmation of whatever they do. A woman can't decide for herself, nor judge herself. Which is why a woman opens up sexually when you don't give a fuck about whatever happens, as long as she will make you feel good, which in turns makes her feel good. A pedastalizing beta would only be uncomfortable with shooting his manjuice all over her face, which is an indirect judgement of negativity. Why do you think that Alpha's have so much more fulfilling sexlifes? Because they don't judge a woman by what she does to you in bed, aslong as its good. A beta on the other hand wants her to be like the princess she is, and will just fuck you with kisses in your neck and vanilla missionary like the romantic 16+ movies display.

Every woman wants to get fucked hard and dirty, but the extent to which she will go is identical to how much you care about what you do and how you judge it. A Ferrari wants to be driven and revved hard, but if you treat it like a Ford Focus, it will drive like a Ford Focus.

room_303 · 2017-02-17T06:45:40+00:00

Isn't this more a case of your ex-wife hitting the wall and trying to lock you down?
How hold were you when you met?

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-02-17T10:29:07+00:00

The thing is to try and not be bitter at women for 'their nature'. Be bitter at society for promoting the blue pill narrative. There is literally no logical reason for blue pill thinking to exist, if it weren't for pseudo feminism and shit rom-coms no man would ever treat a woman in your previous manner. We've seen from the countless failed marriage, LTR cheating posts in this sub that treating a woman like a 'princess' is a one way street to cheat ville.

Guys like fucking a girl and being dominant women are mega attracted to someone who dominates them (almost like it's written in our evolutionary biology to respond to this behaviour...).

Why does society promote this shite that is counter intuitive to nature, 'valentines day' is an obvious example but the problem runs much deeper; guys encouraged to be weak and buy their girl flowers and chocolates. Fuck marriage and LTR's might actually work if guys could actually be honest and treat women in the ways they actually respond to without being shamed and labelled as misogynist etc.

Help_Me_Love · 2017-02-17T14:05:12+00:00

Best fucking post I've read on here

staylor92 · 2017-02-17T14:12:59+00:00

Read this listening to "pour some sugar on me" by Def Leppard. Pill swallowed.

muh_posts · 2017-02-17T09:25:40+00:00

This is stupid. This was not your oneitis, this was your ex. Congrats on digging through your trash and finding a half-eaten hot dog.

suske127 · 2017-02-17T05:22:13+00:00

Good post and good point/s ; glad it's "worked out" for you, you seem to be a lot happier now. I was really digging this post until I read "women are honestly pathetic" ~ Man, you can't be so hostile/upset. Sounds like you just hate women in general (maybe you do)

They're not pathetic, they're different. They seek confidence and leadership with all their heart because they can't lead themselves, or be ultra-confident themselves. That's not pathetic, it's just how they are. Just be glad you were born a man, and it isn't against your nature to be strong!

whuttupfoo · 2017-02-17T10:40:30+00:00

Women are honestly pathetic, emotional creatures

Get rid of this kind of talk. It makes you sound like a pathetic emotional creature.

scarhand23 · 2017-02-17T10:34:33+00:00

I fucking envy you. Holy shit dude.

enteralterego · 2017-02-17T15:20:33+00:00

Can confirm. I had sex with the girl I was crying over and writing poems and songs for 20 years ago in high school. Last year around this time I popped her anal virginity (at least that's what she said - don't really care either way).

She actually said I had become like a god (not God - but like a minor god as they have it in old Greek mythology, don't know the word in English).

And believe me I look nothing like a greek god. Not ugly - but bald head, at least 10 kg overweight. But dodging shit tests like Neo in the Matrix, body language, all the other stuff we talk about here apparently made me look like a greek god in her eyes. Hey, who am I to disagree.

And yes, like the OP, my high school sweetheart wanted to go LTR. Hell no. Why would I need a 36 year old with a divorce behind her as a LTR in my life? No ma'am.

Zweihander747 · 2017-02-17T17:01:41+00:00

Well ten years a long time brah, but never to late to be woke

mbillion · 2017-02-17T20:41:46+00:00

Bitterness and still wanting your emotionally abusive ex is not based or in control of your emotions. In fact your level of anger makes me feel like you are anything but in control of yourself

lwbrown10 · 2017-02-17T04:41:07+00:00

How did you she notice the new you? Was it on social media or did you just stop contacting her and she started blowing up your phone, etc.

SirGaetanDugas · 2017-02-17T11:32:36+00:00

Oneitis is insidious and its great to overcome that self imposed passivity.

Id be remiss not to point out that you did that shit to yourself bro. Being mad at the woman for it is akin to a fatty railing against the bakery for cooking up the treats he gobbled and washed down with fruit punch.

While you are right to invest in future women and not the ex there is no reason to punish her for your failings

nonthaki · 2017-02-17T16:53:44+00:00

Now , You have become wiser with the pain you have experienced .

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2017-02-17T04:57:53+00:00

I have to say, this was a hell of a post!

coldser · 2017-02-17T06:40:43+00:00

nice post. I wonder how did you change and how did you realize that you have to change?

SirAttackHelicopter · 2017-02-17T17:02:08+00:00

tried all the methods that feminism suggests to no avail

The truth right here. Even women are discovering this hypocrisy in HUGE numbers.

ruser5034 · 2017-02-17T17:13:42+00:00

this is a stupid question that maybe you can direct me to some in-depth reading on...

so modern feminism is basically beta-fying the current male population. and we know and see that AWALT, betabux alphafucks. they will naturally branch swing and desire alphas. do they realize that they are shrinking their pool of attractive men/ in the end making themselves unhappier by lessening the number of men they'd actually want to be with by constantly snipping their nuts and beta-fying an entire generation?

again dont mean to be repetitive if this has been discussed. let me know if i can find good sources on this

Skrewedup · 2017-02-17T18:00:16+00:00

yeah women suck, i agree we need to just fuck them and leave them theirs no point in trying to deal with their emotions.

fcb98292 · 2017-02-17T18:25:19+00:00

You literally can't rationalize with something like that.

True. But TRP is not about that. It's about increasing our value and forcing them to come to us instead of the old (blue) way. It's also about mapping out the female psyche to maneuver through all the bullshit.

Fulp_Piction · 2017-02-17T19:18:39+00:00

You've misunderstood me. I meant that I have standards, not in an arrogant way. I would respect anybody who could live up to them, myself included, however women by their nature probably won't. Nor would they want to.

coveredwthsores · 2017-02-17T19:39:45+00:00

Maybe she just thought you were a pussy. If she is really hot for the "new" you, she was probably really dissatisfied before, which would explain (not excuse) the cheating.

No need to degrade her.

RXRob · 2017-02-17T19:48:16+00:00

She's placed the cheese in the trap and you've gratefully gobbled it up. The trap is about to spring.

Out of the all women in the world, why would anybody fuck their ex?

[deleted] · 2017-02-17T20:07:57+00:00

What I'm saying is that two of my three young sisters went and fucked around even with my father, who is a very strong father figure and who was there for them from birth to the present. Women nowadays have no reason to respect how they were raised once the system they were raised in no longer controls them(legal maturity). I saw firsthand how this affected their lives, they have tried to recover but will have to live with the consequences.

Fulp_Piction · 2017-02-18T16:57:04+00:00

Anger in the long run is bad, but if you're putting pussy on the pedestal, go to the extreme of anger and tone it back bit by bit; you'll find the optimum.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-02-17T11:04:09+00:00

Now imagine what would happen if you didnt wait so long to alpha up?

RedShock1 · 2017-02-17T05:40:37+00:00

Success is the best revenge. Well done man.

RICCIedm · 2017-02-17T13:17:56+00:00

NSFW threads shouldn't be allowed

All of them are brags

Title	[FR] [NSFW] Nothing cures oneitis like watching your former oneitis wipe your cum off her face
Author	beta_no_mo
Upvotes	468
Comments	145
Date	February 17, 2017 3:19 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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