Night starts off with my wingman and I at one of my favorite local bars. We bullshit around for awhile, doing some quick opens here and there. My game is on point and I get the feeling it was going to be a good night.

My wingman spots two girls he recognizes and introduces me. We've been winging together for awhile so we have a pretty smooth system worked out. We briefly have a four way chat with the girls and then I start to zero in on the girl I like. He rightly takes that cue to hop on the other girl. Lesson: Get a wingman. Seriously. If you're only going out solo you're missing out. Men are meant to do activities together and it builds your social circle.

My girl is very friendly from the beginning and showing subtle IOIs. She isn't even trying to pay attention to her friend or my friend, all focus is on me. I self amuse and tease her for a bit just because I like doing so but nothing crazy. Lesson: Sometimes a girl just likes you from the beginning. When that happens, don't overgame.

Suddenly, I feel a hand clap me on my left shoulder. I turn to see who it is. No one is there. When I turn back around, a guy has opened the girl I was talking to. An obvious ploy to make me feel stupid and AMOG me in front of the girl.

Unfortunately, the girl knows the guy who just came in. I watch her reaction though and it's mostly friendly, not omg this is the guy whose cock I want. He tries to get me involved.

AMOG: Yo bro. How old are you? You look pretty old.

Another obvious attempt to AMOG me by getting me to qualify to him. Knowing what's going on, I give him nothing. I don't even look at him. I just keep talking to the girl. He tries again.

AMOG: Omg look at this guy, he won't even answer me. How old are you? Md619: 24

I immediately realized this was a mistake. I should have kept ignoring him, but now that I answered he's accepted into the group. He starts talking to the girl a lot, trying to get her attention on him. I know I've spiked this girl's buying temperature quite a bit and so it's possible that she might go with him just because the girl hasn't invested much yet into the interaction (just met me) and buying temperature is transferable. Yet I don't want to get into with this guy since she previously knows him. I decide there's only one option: the pull away. I simply say "[girl's name], come" and then grab her hands and slowly lead her away from the guy. He doesn't follow. Lesson: You don't always have to AMOG an AMOG. Better to be nonreactive and freeze him out if you can.

Now that I've got the girl away from that guy, the IOIs she was giving me have intensified. Ironically, the AMOG helped me solidify the set by giving me a chance to show that I know how to handle situations like that and "winning" her. I look over and my wingman is making out with his girl. It's on.

Except it's not. Suddenly it turns out my wingman has to leave. What was the perfect situation, two guys and two girls, is now potentially a disaster because it's only me and two girls, one of who just lost the guy she probably thought she was going home with. Lesson: Bullshit happens. Expect and prepare for it.

A better man than me might have been able to flip it to a threesome. But it's late and so I decide to stick to my girl, thinking I can isolate her at some point. She is still giving me IOIs and investing. For the next 45 minutes or so I spend mostly qualifying the girl, figuring out all her logistics and entertaining the friend so she approves of me and doesn't get bored and decide to pull my girl away. Which has happened to me. I also get a shit test around this time, with my girl out of the blue saying "you can leave if you want". I tell her "you're suppose to fight for me". She laughs. "Oh is that how it is?" I just ignore that and change the topic. Lesson: just because she's attracted and giving IOIs doesn't necessarily mean she's ready for sex.

Eventually though the friend gets tired of not having a guy and wants to leave. It's around 2:30 AM and things are solid with my girl so I'm okay with this. Bring them back to my place was not an option for reasons I won't get into. Which means I've got to get back to her place somehow in a way that doesn't make her feel slutty. This is now priority number one. Lesson: when it's on between you and a girl, don't focus on making it more "on". Focus on actually making it happen.

I tell them I'll walk out with them since I don't want to stay at the bar alone. Lame but it gets the job done. I know they took an Uber to the bar and I drove, so I offer to give them a ride back to their place. My girl, of course, gives resistance. She says "you don't have to do that. It's out of your way (true)". But I keep reassuring her it's okay and lead them to my car. Lesson: girls will almost always give you objections when it comes time to actually pulling the trigger. You must handle them.

I need to get rid of the friend so I drop her off first. Then before I start driving to my girl's place, she seems slightly tense so I suddenly change my mind and tell her we should grab some food. She excitedly agrees. Lesson: going to different venues with the girl builds comfort and shows her you're not an overeager beta who can't take his time. Baby steps. Also, always be aware of what the girl is feeling..

We get food and before I can even seed the pull back to her place, she says "you can come back to my place and eat". That was easy. Any time a girl risks looking like a slut like that is a big deal. I nonchalantly tell her "Yeah, I guess that's the easiest way". Lesson: Never make a girl feel judged when trying to fuck her. If she senses judgment she will freeze up. Sex should always "just happen" so she can rationalize it away later if necessary.

Back at her place, we take our time eating. When she's finished she lays down on her bed and looks at me. I make my move and we fuck all night, no LMR or even token resistance. Smooth. Lesson: It might take longer, but when you properly run a set instead of rushing through it, LMR often is gone. To her, high value guy + comfort + no feelings of judgment = carefree sex. When one of these things is lacking in her mind is often when you'll get resistance or shit tests.