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[–]OracleofFl 193 points194 points195 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
An alpha widow is born!
[–]shinywhitedarkness108 points 7 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Having an alpha widow in your friend circle is so fucking annoying. She won't stop talking about that guy, even when she last saw him 2 years ago.
[–]silvertongue93 19 points20 points21 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes even 5 years ago and some shit about how he was "the love of her life" lmao
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and she will compare you to him every time you try to be N alpha
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only way to fix that is to take a giant shit on her every time she mentions him - "Oh, is that that guy who pumped you full of jizz and then dumped you on the side of the road like a used condom? That guy? Right. Yeah, too bad he did a 'Smash n' Dash' on you. You were such a cute couple."
[–]hiroshimatruthbombs 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahsha.
Beat me to it bro.
[–][deleted] 64 points65 points66 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
This is why hypergamy must be restrained. In a hunter-gatherer community with 100 people, the woman knows every man there is to know. She can accurately judge her SMV against the field and make rational plays. Of course she will still attempt to monkey branch and engage in hypergamous couplings, but everything would be done within the context of this limited community.
In our world, there will always be a better man out there. Her senses are overloaded. There is a constant buffet of potential better cock. Even without our still strong social conventions for pair coupling, the top dogs could never hope to give enough attention to all the women who desire them. At the end of the day they succumb to their instincts and become alpha widowed.
She's being a bit over-dramatic with the n count though. N=2 still puts her ahead of 98% of the field.
[–]PsychedelicDentist108 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Read very carefully - she did not say she had an n count of 2
This is a prime example of womanese. It's left open for interpretation but worded in a way to suggest the best outcome for her reputation, but with wiggle room in case she's called out on it directly
[–]lobstergenocide 50 points51 points52 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
exactly, she didn't say she has a n count 2, she says her n count >1, which could be in the dozens by now if she's chasing "experiences"
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ha right you are.
[–]Modredpillschool 46 points47 points48 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It wasn't that bad until the internet came along and made women's audiences infinite.
One cleavage pic can get 10,000 likes. What can any single man offer?
[–]farendsofcontrast 23 points24 points25 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Women can maintain virginity for long time and hold onto it. But once the can of worms is opened there is no closing it back. Most of the heavy work is done by the first guy, after that it really doesn’t require much effort for the guys that follow.
[+]bosticetudis -9 points-8 points-7 points 7 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
It's a result of our culture fetishizing virginity. It's built up in their minds how important their virginity is, but no one ever tells them how important it is to maintain a strong SMV by providing more to a relationship than a wet spot between their legs. Where does a woman's SMV lie? Is she loyal to her partner and working toward the life and prosperity of themselves as a couple and to each other as individuals? Or is she instead living her life according to the teachings of our society and of women's groups, that their only worth is between their legs and riding the cock-carousel is an empowering exercise of civil disobedience in protest of society's virginity fetish?
[–]SailorAground 42 points43 points44 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I downvoted you and here's why: There is strong scientific evidence that shows that the more partners a woman has that it degrades her ability to pair bond (the thing needed for long term successful mating relationships) and not just a little but an exponential drop off. And this doesn't start at the fourth or fifth partner, it starts at the first. Ancient societies understood this intuitively and so prioritized female virginity because it helped ensure that you would have a successful mating relationship that could stand the test of time. Now that we have accepted the post-modernist Marxist lies that nothing meme anything and have forgotten the reasons behind our traditions and customs, we've cast off things like female virginity and self-discipline.
Now that you know this, let's test it. Think back to that time you took a girl's virginity; what happened? Did she coolly and casually shrug off your relationship or did she become a stage 5 clinger? More than likely, she became a clinger and tried desperately to set her hooks in you to keep you around. And why do you think that this is not an uncommon situation? There are a multitude of stories regarding deflowering a woman and her latching on to the man; so much so that it's become stereotypical. And know you know that that's simply her biology trying to form a pair bond since women are the gate keeper of sex and men that of commitment. And just like drugs, if this biological process is abused it starts to malfunction, ruining the woman.
[–]vullnet123 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For sure. I took my ex's virginity and she was clingy until my beta-ness drove her away, but I think that she was a lot more "lenient" with beta me because of that.
[–]bosticetudis -3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This only works for a small minority of women. Most women, once they get a taste, will start wondering about the other options out there and start riding the cock-carousel.
[–]SailorAground 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What works? The fact that the more dicks the woman has, the harder it is for her to settle down? You just repeated exactly what I said.
[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 49 points50 points51 points 7 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Indeed. But remember that women take their cues on what's okay from their environment, far more than even men do. If a girl finds herself surrounded by peers engaging in easy hook ups, and there's no older, more experienced woman around to advise caution, she will succumb.
Yes, women are weak. Yes, women are impressionable. But this is simultaneously their greatest weakness and greatest strength. A woman who is susceptible to corrupting pressure is also susceptible to a positive shaping influence.
A strong, dominant, masculine man is the key to a woman's happiness, as he can shape her into a supportive, submissive partner, and she can benefit from his wisdom and protection.
The only "crime" here was the girl's boyfriend being insufficiently dominant to prevent her eye from wandering. That may or may not have been his fault, but it is nevertheless his responsibility.
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
The real crime never lies with a single person. It lies in a collective ideology. She cheated on her first boyfriend to join the harem of liberation and freedom of which she is now a permanent member.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s truly amazing to step back and fully absorb how fucked our society is, isn’t it?
[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 19 points20 points21 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
This was not the work of collective ideology. Women's behaviour is hardwired. She would have been tempted even in the absence of her friends' influence. Her boyfriend was insufficiently dominant in the face of more-attractive and accessible alternatives.
Eventually you're going to have to come to grips with the true scope of your accountability for a woman's fidelity. Holding women to the same standard of honour as men is naive.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Full accountability is context retarded, like much of the Red Pill community. If women absorb like sponges and we are telling them promiscuity is the name of the game then how is this primarily an individual mans fault? How come the most alpha men get cheated on in the USA but never in Saudi Arabia?
[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ultimately, it's pointless even debating wether it's her fault or not.
Assigning blame to her and absolving yourself from any wrongdoing has zero benefit for you.
Always assume blame, analyze your errors, make changes and proceed better in future.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just explained how important context is and you replied by ignoring context. Take a flight to another unwesternized country and see how they behave. See how women treat you. There is no Red Pill there because the Red Pill only has an incentive to exist in context to a polarized feminized culture. Don't forget that it is we who live in upside down clown world, not them.
[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't live in a westernized country and red pill theory is still highly applicable.
It's fundamental principles are based on appealing to her inherent biological nature, it's not some trickster gig.
Women aren't different here, they just have different parameters to operate within, but they respond to the same principles. Theres still tons of guys who get cucked and cheated on and most of the time they're lazy losers.
Either way,the best approach, regardless of context is to assume responsibility for every situation, and evaluate and improve where necessary.
[–]Redpiller77 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This almost feels like NAWALT. I can't see a woman being faithful because of my alphaness. Best I can hope for is never fiding out, which to me seems like is what you're talking about.
I agree with the other guy, collective ideology > individual. BUT, to me, nature > collective ideology. You said it yourself, their behaviour is hardwired.
[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's not NAWALT. It is precisely AWALT.
All women will be tempted away by a better option than you, if such an option becomes realistically attainable in her mind.
So if you expect to keep a woman devoted, you must do two things:
You must train her to behave loyally (preferably early in her sexual career, before she has been lured into slutty habits by easy rewards).
You must constantly strive to be the best of her available options. Not for her sake, but for your own.
Does all of this sound difficult and needlessly wasteful for the sake of women? It isn't, really. #1 requires a relatively small amount of direct communication and oversight, and #2 is something you should already be doing constantly as you pursue a better life for yourself. The only challenge is in finding a woman who hasn't yet been tainted by easy rewards, and who is still receptive to training. These kinds of women are in decreasing supply in the west, but they do exist.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The white race is extincting because the brightest among them are concerned with the mechanisms of intersexual dynamics within a decaying society, rather than the context that dictates it. The Red Pill is a side effect of this context. This is why tradition kept women firmly controlled where they preform their role best sans everything modern
[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're monogamous... you only need to be the best man around.
[–][deleted] 87 points88 points89 points 7 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
The organism wants what it perceives to be superior genes. It doesn't care about the feelings of the entity that lives inside and how it was programmed by the culture. She knew it was going to be a train-wreck, but she went through with it anyway because she was following her body's selfish desires, and not any kind of set of higher principles.
Also, chasing the super-attractive person for the feels is chasing a peak experience. And if you don't get it, you are left wondering your whole life, and if you do get it, then you wonder about what comes after, and if anything will make you feel this good, bla bla bla.
Anyone who has been through drug addiction AND survived it understands the mechanisms in play. IF you can learn to enjoy what you have in the moment, and not go chasing after things, you will be happier over time than someone who runs around chasing after peak experiences, because once they happen, there is a crash that takes place.
Or: every experience is a peak experience.
[–]Battagliare 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Anyone who has been through drug addiction AND survived it understands the mechanisms in play. IF you can learn to enjoy what you have in the moment, and not go chasing after things, you will be happier over time than someone who runs around chasing after peak experiences.
Could you please give some tips or a roadmap or anything usefull on how to achieve this sir ?
[–][deleted] 55 points56 points57 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You have to be willing to suffer. Drug addiction starts with drug use. Drug use starts with curiosity and a desire to escape drudgery and pain, which is imposed on us through the school system that cuts us off from the natural world. Or at least, that's what happened with me. Going away from drugs is acknowledging that you cannot escape existential pain with chemical pleasure. When you use drugs, you are high for awhile, but then you come down, and now, not only are you not high, but reality APPEARS to suck, because the drug moved the hedonic benchmarks higher. Now, a nice sunny day or pretty girl's smile just doesn't cut it anymore. Once you have eaten the forbidden fruit, you have to acknowledge that the price of eating it is knowing what you're missing. I have a friend who will NEVER try all sorts of things because he doesn't want to know what he's missing. I find that hard to relate to. I like novelty.
To get off drugs, you need to go through a period of suffering. There are all kinds of people who will try and sell you a treatment or a cure. If you have a metabolic addiction, it is VERY difficult to go through withdrawal. Withdrawal is painful. My addictions were not metabolic. Supposedly, there are substances that can help with metabolic addictions. For instance, William S. Burroughs wrote about apomorphine helping him kick heroin. But then, you have to deal with the system. You have to navigate it and deal with all kinds of professional predators (doctors). There is no money in the permanent cure, only the treatment. So, if you are willing to suffer excruciating agony, or dull pain, or psychological torment for a few months with the knowledge that it will pass, and that like the pleasure you were experiencing from the drug, it is completely fake, and artificial, and will pass over time. For me, it manifested as depression and suicidal ideation that lasted for 2 months. I coped with it by literally exercising all day for 2 months. Meaning, I would just walk and walk and walk, like Forrest Gump. I would start the day feeling like shit, then after a few hours, I would be numb, then by the end of the day, I'd feel okay. But then the suicidal ideation would start the next day. So I would walk again. It was because I had attempted to treat my problems with psychiatric medication that created more problems, instead of trying to address my problems as being in the real world.
Once you go through that, then the next step is to find some activity that you enjoy and have passion for, and make that your drug. Preferably it should be something wholesome that gets you around wholesome people. Meaning, people that aren't using drugs. Painting, drawing, dancing, music, making stuff, crafts, whatever. Make that the addiction.
[–]coloredzebra 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just wanted to acknowledge how spot on this is. As a former addict myself, this outlined the steps I subconsciously experienced before coming out on the other end.
find some activity that you enjoy and have passion for, and make that your drug
Number 3 is especially important, without replacing the former addiction, with a "healthier" alternative tends to lead back down towards withdrawal.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As soon as I found a life-affirming hobby that I loved, my urge to use drugs disappeared. I mean, it was like it was never even there at all. There were no cravings, period. Granted, I didn't have a metabolic addiction.
Another thing, after struggling with it for so long, I REALLY appreciated that hobby. I really enjoy practicing it sober. HOWEVER, there are people that come to events, and they are high. They are talented at what they do, but they still get high. Now, maybe they can manage their use better. I don't know. For me, drugs, were filling an unacknowledged void, and were treating an unacknowledged pain. I didn't have a passion that I loved, and I had a lot of psychological pain that I didn't know how to deal with. Also, nobody seemed to notice or care about those things. So I had to figure it out for myself.
I'm not sure if it was necessary to go through the journey of addiction to get to the place that I'm at. What if I had discovered my passion in high school? Would it still have been my passion twenty years later? Or would I have taken it for granted. It's tough to say.
[–]ReformSociety 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Some substances such as LSD, Shrooms, Kratom may help curb one's opiate addiction.
LSD and mushrooms... lol. If only we lived in a society that trained people how to handles those experience, instead of having that knowledge be on the fringe from dubious sources. They can be very dangerous, leading to insanity for some.
Kratom, is now sold "legally" in stores. For how long, who knows. I dabbled with it a bit, for the supposed "benefits." But then I gave it up after a few weeks because I quickly realized it was nothing more than another pain-killer / crutch designed to create repeat customers.
Less is more with substances. Chamomile tea. Caffeine... sparingly.
[–]Aro2220 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mushrooms should be legal. Lsd...no way ...
[–]Battagliare 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
never used drugs, was trying to ask about "IF you can learn to enjoy what you have in the moment, and not go chasing after things, you will be happier over time than someone who runs around chasing after peak experiences." this part but thanks i guess.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh, but you do, my friend, you do. Drugs are chemicals. We are giant complexes of chemicals that manifest as a macro-organism and an eco-sphere of micro-organisms living in symbiosis... well, that's our bodies. Every emotion we feel is a chemical reaction. Anger, hatred, love, anxiety, etc. Surviving drug addiction, as well as meditation, can help you realize this. Also, certain foods as well. For instance, having a bunch of sugar will set off a chain reaction that can affect your emotional state.
[–]RightHandWolf 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations on making it out of the addiction. I've been there myself as well. I got clean and sober 18 years ago today. Yes, you have to be willing to suffer in order to heal. You have to be willing to do whatever it takes to follow your path and stay on the path. The most important part of success is the motivation. Not in the sense of whether you have motivation, but what the motivation is. Whatever you're trying to do, you have to commit to it because it's something you want to do; because it's something you believe in; because it's something you are doing for yourself. The next time you shave, comb your hair or brush your teeth, take a good look. See that dude in the mirror? You know who he is? If you understand he is the only one on this planet looking out for your best interests, that puts you way ahead of the curve.
[–]tchower 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s an old song, but it’s good and reminds me of the red pill. Roxy Music-Love Is The Drug. This pretty much sums up the Red Pill and especially woman like this one.
[–][deleted] 44 points45 points46 points 7 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
They had it figured out for 2500+ years. Then birth control was invented and the gene pool hasn’t adjusted yet. It surely will, especially as socialist systems go bankrupt and the natural order is restored.
[–]Complexxx123 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
I mean, birth control has been around since the ancient Egyptians so unless you're referring to our species before 1500BC I'd say there is more to it then that.
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 7 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Oh there was a drug to change hormones so you could cum inside a woman without her getting pregnant?
[–]D3athN0te101 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not quite, friend. They used more... spontaneous methods.
[–]rudyreif 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait, That's how you get pregnant? brb
[–]jverity10 points 7 years ago [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link
Yes, there was a plant called Silphium that was reportedly the most effective birth control ever and had no side effects, And the Egyptians used it for thousands of years but once the Romans discovered it they harvested it to extinction.
[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I feel like you’re lying but I don’t know enough to call you out on it, gonna assume if it was real they were whores which led to Rome’s conquest.
[–]jverity26 points 7 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
I feel like you’re lying but I don’t know enough to call you out on it
The fact that you are already at a computer, using a web browser, and are too lazy to type the word Silphium in to a search engine explains so much about the ignorance displayed in your post history.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had to look at this post history to see what all the fuss was about.
[+][deleted] -7 points-6 points-5 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I’m in the app on a bus, don’t really care a lot about this
[–]jverity 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
If you are posting on Reddit, whether on phone or computer or an app on your smart fridge, you have an indexed copy of the wealth of human knowledge at your fingertips. There's no excuse for ignorance because all ignorance in that situation is willful ignorance. You are talking out of your ass because you are too lazy to educate yourself first and too stupid to realize that you should just shut up if you don't think the subject is worth learning about.
[+][deleted] -7 points-6 points-5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh shit let me just watch a documentary for you. Are you mad because I don’t think what you said is worth googling? It wasn’t very relevant.
[–]bosticetudis 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have a very strong opinion on birth control for someone who claims they don't really care a lot about this. You took the time to write a flippant response to someone informing you about Silphium and proclaiming them to be a liar when they provided information that seemed to contradict your original thesis. Why not learn as much as possible about the subject to strengthen your arguments instead of being willfully ignorant?
[–]x6x6x61982 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would even go as far as say 4 can nail one, alcohol does wonders.
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[–]farendsofcontrast 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She didn’t get shit. For her to actually have acquired better genes would require her to tie down CHAD, which won’t happen.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My buddy and I call this "the curse of the female 6." I've seen this happen to so many girls I know. They literally cannot understand that top dudes will fuck them but not date them. I don't know how they can be this stupid.
[–][deleted] 133 points134 points135 points 7 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
I got badly hurt and embarrassed time and time again but whenever I tried to leave, he would pull me back, likely for the ego boost.
!!!!!!!!!!!!SOLIPSISM ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!
He did not keep you around for the ego boost. That is what women do. He kept you around because he enjoyed penetrating your sweet sweet pussy. I thought this might be a fake post because written by a guy because it seemed "too perfect" in the red pill scenario sense, but that sentence could only be written by a woman. Certified legit
[–]Full-Time_Lurker36 points 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Also she says "I now have a raised n count" leaving out the number...lol
[–]Battagliare 24 points25 points26 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"but that sentence could only be written by a woman."
haha nailed it :DDD
[–]markinsinz7 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn what a catch. Super subtle. I had my doubts too then found your comment and realised the same conclusion.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 41 points42 points43 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This, I brought entirely on myself.
I don't buy this as genuine.... women (even in RPW) just don't take responsibility for their actions like this.
More realistic would be: "I hate my ex boyfriend for making me behave like this".
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nope it's real. I will direct you to the following passage:
Women keep orbiters around for ego, men keep plates around because they enjoy having sex with them. Only a woman could think like this. Solipsism in action.
[–]PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, I think she wanted us to see how beta (pathetic?) her ex was so she could craftily shift the blame on him.
[–]Downtowndex72 35 points36 points37 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
“What is an alpha widow?, Alex”
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sad watching a chick you have a window with dating some poor beta.
[–]3Yakatonker 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its like watching cancer metastasize on a healthy but overtly ignorant host.
[–]nantucketghost 88 points89 points90 points 7 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link
Random side tangent, but some what related:
There is a couple of old broads on Vimeo - they're fun to watch and full of redpill truths. Basically a couple of cougars talking about sex, etc.
They had this one where they talked about tinder and why women give themselves up too soon.
They reasoned: It is because sex is their only currency.
They see a hot guy on Tinder, whatever dating app or real life. They like this guy and want to keep this guy. How do they keep him? Oh, not by being interesting. By deciding to give the guy what he wants. Sex. They figure and assume that the more sex they give him and the quicker they do it, the higher the girl's chance of locking a man down. I mean, why not? She's giving him exactly what he wants right? Why wouldn't he want to keep her? At least that is their thinking.
[–][deleted] 82 points83 points84 points 7 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Sounds just like Beta males giving up their commitment to lock down a relationship.
The harder you try, the harder it gets
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[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
Marriage (big commitment) doesn't lead to sex.
It used to. But it's no longer 1900's, it's only red pill from now on. Unfortunetly. But a man gotta do what a man gotta do.
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[–]lobstergenocide 30 points31 points32 points 7 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
I don't think that sentiment is as rare as you might think. In fact I would wager that the reason most guys end up here in the first place (myself included, to some extent) is because they thought they HAD found that girl that could be the one and that they didn't need anyone else - but unfortunately it's not up to you. Women make the decisions when it comes to sex and relationships, all you can do is try to be the best dick she can get and hope that's enough to keep her from swinging to someone else. I didn't want to "subscribe to this hookup culture" either, but it's more like a conscription than a subscription - you're in it whether you want to be or not, all you can do is try to make the most of it.
[–]Scrubstepcat 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I certainly pertain to this.
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[–]lobstergenocide 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I like where your head is at in regards to personal improvement > everything else, which is the right mindset to have. But you should try to get out there and score something if you're a virgin at 19. As bad as it sounds, if you haven't lost your V-card before your 20s it starts setting off alarm bells in many girls' heads right off the bat that there's a reason no girl has slept with you until now. It sounds counter-intuitive but in my experience even the low n-count "good girls" that are more-or-less feasible for LTRs won't care if you've had experience before them, and in fact will actually be more attracted to you because of it.
Likewise, you shouldn't be working to be her best option, you should be working to be the best you can be, full stop. she will come, whoever she might be.
As for if you're missing out on anything, honest answer: yes you are. Hate to say it, but the girls you're around right now will never be hotter or easier to approach in a natural setting (through class, clubs, downtown scene, what have you). I do get the fear for STDs but that's why I would just use condoms, sure there's some risk involved as always but you can't let fear of what could happen stop you from living your full life, and living a full life includes getting laid when you can. If you don't you are just denying your own natural biology, which pretty much never turns out well. Plus, do you really want to look back at 30-40 when you're already settled down and have to think about all the girls you could have banged when you were at your prime? I sure don't.
Just food for thought.
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[–]lobstergenocide 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
As for keeping your virginity in tact that's fair, do as you will but there is something to be said for having legitimate experience in the area. As with all parts of life, you get better through doing, and that includes sex. But fair enough that's your choice to make.
Honest advice if you want it though, I would try to put that all past you. If you're like a lot of horror stories here, you could unwittingly be setting yourself to catch feelings hard for the first girl that gives it up to you, and once you put on those rose-tinted glasses you miss all the red flags until you inevitably end up either dumped, cheated on, or stuck in a loveless marriage to a woman who no longer loves you because you're no longer a challenge. I know it sounds counter-intuitive, because it is to an extent. But if you read some of the stories on here, especially "Blue pill example" threads (you may not be BP but that doesn't mean you can't slip up and exhibit BP behavior), you might find that a lot of guys that go in with your mentality end up regretting it in the long-run.
Still, I admire that you have a sense of morals and are sticking to it - just understand that many guys and girls out there don't, and your sense of right and wrong means nothing to them, and they WILL take advantage of you for it if you don't find ways to defend yourself. At any rate, I wish you the best in your pursuit and so long as you keep the focus on yourself you should turn out fine in the long-run.
[–]thewrecker8 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i thought we arent supposed to say if we a virgin or not anyway. and im well on my way to being a sexy mother fucker. i already get quite a bit of attention. i know i probably sound full of myself but im just being honest, 6 months from now ill be even much better. she would not assume im a virgin anyway. but if it comes up ill just tell her honestly "i wanted to save sex for an LTR instead of just fucking around and destroying my soul".
There's a very good chance a girl is going to sense it or know. Just like when they can tell when you're thirsty and trying too hard. You may or may not regret it but you're in the prime years for scoring some lays. Options are everywhere girls are seeing what's out there like the girl in this story. As you get out of your high school and college years a lot of girls have gone through their big whoring phase (many don't leave it). But as they get into their mid to late 20s they know the wall is approaching (at least the smart ones do) and they start looking for their beta provider.
[–]therealpkg 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
+1 for Lobster's advice. For sure.
[–]LogicalOlive 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Alright so we're somewhat in the same boat. We're both younger juniors in college. But here's the thing, we are in college the easiest place to get laid. Seriously man your last semesters should be school and slaying cat for the hell of it.
[–]dontbeanasshole777 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you're missing out
[–]jack_napier69 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah this; feelsbadman that I'm also immensely turned off by online dating
[–]ChrimsonChin988 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You want to go back to blue pill reality. Long term monogamous relationships don't fucking work. At first they're okay, even fun, well, for the first 3 years. After that the drama goes up and the sex goes down. Without fucking exception.
It's societal programming not your real self who is longing for this 'one and only'. Detach from the system or you will get burned.
Have to scale it according to the girl. Throw their heads around a little bit no matter what, but some don’t require extensive games.
[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Patrice the realest nigga who ever lived can answer that question - just ask women and they'll tell you.
"Nobody said learn how to play pool, learn how to play Xbox..... Tell better stories."
[–]OracleofFl 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is actually pretty profound. They put out because of their own insecurities of being able to keep them.
[–][deleted] 84 points85 points86 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And the boyfriend still wants her back...how pathetic!!!!!
[–]csawyer86 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this sounds like it was written by some beta dude pretending to be a chick to make a point .
[–]OmniscientOCE 40 points41 points42 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
This sounds kinda like fiction to me to be honest
[–]llaas13 points 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I stopped reading at " he was not the most alpha'
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea but you are reading red pill women. These women have been trained to think like this and are familiar with the lingo.
[–]magx01 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
written by a trp guy to spread some pills.
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[–]shitty_tom_riddle 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
also a girl wouldn't use the "smv" acronym. I've never heard someone say that outside of The Red Pill
[–]c4toyourdoornobeef 16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
it's crossposted from red pill women?
[–]shitty_tom_riddle 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh, you're right. I didnt even see that
[–]donkeydodo 21 points22 points23 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's too unfortunate that these type of women are all too rare. She might be ruined, but she possess the introspection to see that SHE was the one who fucked up, and not men. Most of these women become crazy cat ladies if anything because "MeN aRE MisoGYnIst PIgS"
[–]1empatheticapathetic 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What difference does it really make at the end of the day?
[–]donkeydodo 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What difference does the outcome of people's actions make in our society? If people would have a generally higher moral, I bet our society would be a far better society than what it is today
[–]thewrecker8 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what online dating has done. A girl can have Tinder and Bumble and almost guaranteed anyone she swipes right on will match. As most guys swipe right on everyone and worry about it after a match. So even if she's in a relationship and "just wants to see what it's all about". If she's remotely attractive she'll get dozens of matches daily thinking she's special because Chad likes her.
[–]wicketrigon 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
For those calling it fake, here is the original RPW post: Do NOT give into wondering “what else is out there” (AKA hypergamy). A warning.
[–]ChrimsonChin988 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
99% sure it's real. I agree most women don't self-reflect and rarely blame themselves. It's uncommon but it can still happen. Also, like others noticed, she thinks the guy pulled her back when she tried to leave for the ego boost (big fucking lol) and instead of saying what her n count exactly is (which would be 2) she keeps it vague (so for sure it's higher than 2). Only a woman would write both these things.
Also, I quickly scrolled through her post history which makes me believe with near certainty she's indeed a female...
[–]omega_dawg93 17 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
there's the physical wall for women and there's the real wall.
the real wall is simply the day that she realizes that without her vagina, she has very few options... but that her vagina has endless options without her.
iow, she understands that if she lets her vagina go feral, it will bring her lots of attention from men. but without her vagina, how many men actually want to be with her... the person?
this woman was young and imo had the right to find out what else might be out there for her. she may be "broken," but she'll recover... she's still young.
my problem is with older (26+) women that still wonder and wander... branch swinging after they have been on the cock carousel for years... bringing emotional baggage, kids, divorce trauma etc to you and saying, "you're not a real man" for not tolerating her shit.
social media has ruined women... and women have always given other women horrible advice.
i recently asked my last fwb... "list the top 3 GOOD things that can happen from a woman getting all the dick she possibly can?"
I'm still waiting for her to answer.
[–]farendsofcontrast 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No recovery buddy she’s way past that point.
[–]chaedec 17 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is definitely a fake story written as some nerds cuck fantasy
[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Written by a man. Women don't self reflect like this.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh, it’s uncommon but it happens.
[–]1SeasonedRP 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was my thought too, for this reason as well as some of the terminology used.
[–]thismightnotbetaken5 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
This made me remember a story –
A bee when it sees its hive getting attacked its instinct is to sting the attacker irrespective of the fact that it'll sever its body while pulling out the sting and die in the process.
As humans (males rather) we have the gift of choice. We can choose to rise above our instincts, its hard but can be done.
Whenever my brothers, you suffer from any addiction of any kind and feel the urges, remember, YOU have a choice. Choose wisely
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unrelated to red pill but still pretty interesting:
I took a philosophy of biology class once and apparently there’s disagreement among evolutionary biologists about whether to consider a bee or ant colony as one individual organism. Because the bees and ants can’t survive alone, and they are programmed very self sacrificially, like cells in your body. So some biologists argue it makes more sense to consider a bee as just a cell because it’s self preservation instincts are so low, but it’s hive preservation instincts are so high.
[–]SKRedPill6 points 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, if you're willing to tolerate the mystical on TRP, sexual experiences leave extremely strong karmic memory on the physical body that it cannot forget unless someone did a flash format. Accumulate too much of this, and you become unstable and lose the ability to pair bond or be satisfied. Women especially are far more vulnerable to this, because of the way their system was designed to bear children.
Having lots of sex without getting pregnant and on the pill is not something a woman's body is capable of handling very well. She doesn't mention how taking pills might have killed off her natural patterns.
In fact one thing they don't tell you (which I'm beginning to see) is that as women get older, those who've been on the pill for long start getting infertile and they need to wean off the pill for quite a while before they get back to normal. This is especially the case with more and more 30 childless women, although to be fair, most men are unhealthy and sitting around and with all their habits are also killing their T and sperm.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think this can all be attributed to biology and psychology rather than “karmic” imprint.
[–]SKRedPill1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Karma is also physical in nature. It basically means memory. Well it's a philosophical way of looking at the physical, but fact is, women simply get imprinted far too deeply. They weren't meant to overdose on sex with partners they way they do now.
Men also have built in instincts to test women - what today's society simply shames as "insecure" is a filtering mechanism in men. What men need is loyalty, trust and good sex from their women, as well as to know that their children are truly theirs. A man's instincts are fully aware of what happens when women go overboard. Most men don't know how to read their gut (but can't hide their reactions) because of today's modern education system which pays no attention to the intelligence in the body.
Psychology can fool your mind. Your body is never fooled, because it hasn't changed a bit.
[–]6ix_ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i feel like thats the kind of shit they should teach in school. how to know yourself and trust your gut.
[–]Fulp_Piction 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What even is that last paragraph? Calling bullshit.
[–]1v1crown 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sounds like it was written by a man, not a woman.
[–]tchower 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
This is also an example of the “social-side” and “herd mentality” of woman. What her friends were all doing, made her feel like she was missing out. So she had to go and do it, and what also amazed her about the guy she was cheating with, was that other girls wanted him and she was just one of his many choices. If you ever hear a man talk about a girl it’s if she was an 8 or 10, and if it’s the red pill you’ll hear if she is a plate or girlfriend status but that’s pretty much it. Guys don’t go into this much detail if any. Just where she was on the scale and if she was doing it or not doing it.
[–]1ozaku7 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women want wanted men, it's simple. My GF just dropped a gem that she "doesn't want to share me" after asking her why she is pissed off that I started working out.
But this girl is right. Your first love is your strongest love. Anything afterwards just feels questionable and pointless becaues you realize you were only high on love because of the intimacy and sex... which you can have with everyone... which makes it alot less meaningful... so you basically lose that high and feel miserable for a long time until you just either settle down with the fact that you won't ever feel the same way.
It just doesn't feel the same anymore, you start fucking around more and more, you care less and less, you let go and even forget some partners even existed in your life. Then you just ask yourself what the fuck you are doing while wishing you had what you first had.
It's like finding out that Santa isn't real and christmas loses it's feel forever, but you just somehow make it work, you are still happy celebrating with family and friends, but nothing beats that childhood magic of Santa.
[–]JanuaryArya 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know this isn’t purple pill debate, but aren’t they both at fault.
She didn’t realize what she would be attracted to and she valued the wrong qualities in him.
He didn’t realize how to be attractive to her and he valued the wrong qualities in her.
I get it, women are very vapid and rarely realize the damage they cause to men, and when they do realize they deny, minimize, and rationalize.
But for every vapid whoring female there is a weak man putting pussy on a pedestal and making us feel disgusted, therefore seeking a different alpha.
So the fairy tale of catching a chick while her n count is low still requires effort to earn attraction,
[–]The_Red_Trooper 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was written by a man. Women dont talk this way. A redpill guy wrote this. Bullshit post
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I used to see stories like this and feel something. Now I just don't care. It's just nature to me now. It truly is AWALT. I think it's my abundance mind set. I told my LTR this the other day. She asked "what if I leave you?" I said "I'll just find another." She said "it sounds like I'm replaceable." I said "in a world of billions of people you are, but that doesn't mean I'll forget the good times we had."
So really it doesn't matter what women do. Other than legally protecting yourself, they can do whatever they want. If you don't like it then walk and never look back. There's always someone else.
She changed the subject. What she thought of that? I don't care because like I said, she is replaceable. I don't want to replace her. But if it happens, life moves on.
I've had a lot of relationships not work out. I always found another. I learned from my mistakes and each time it gets better.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude I picked up a girl last night and got her number and snapchat even though she has a bf. I walked into a grocery store and she was in the shampoo aisle, she was a solid 8 and around 22 or 23. I improvised and picked up a ridiculous hat and put it on my head, it was meant for kids. I walked up to hr and asked her how it looked on a scale of 1-10. She said it looked 10/10 and I was making her laugh. I asked for her number and if she wanted to go out. She said that she had a boyfriend. Among other things I asked her what he did and she said he worked at a tire store. I asked him what his name was, Kian she said.
I said don't worry I respect that. I started telling her about my MMA fight coming up. She was sending me IOI's. She gave up the number and the snapchat. I saw her again in the aisle, she smiled at me and laughed. The next part you simply can't make up.
Today I woke up and discovered GODDAMNIT I had a flat tire, there was a screw stuck in there. Fuck. Type in google maps tire store and there's one a mile away. GUESS WHO FIXES MY FLAT. Yeah. a guy named Kian. Honest, hard working guy. I was honestly blown away and didn't put 2 and 2 together till right as I was leaving. It might not be him, but I'd bet 1000 dollars it was her boyfriend.
Fuck. He's probably super in love. Blue pilled and just so dedicated to his one-itis. Welp the first whiff of Alpha dick hitting on his GF and that shit is GONE out the fucking window. He would probably be devastated if he was a fly on the wall and saw that interaction.
No wonder all I do is just focus on my purpose. No wonder I couldn't give a fuck less anymore about marriage like I used to 5 years ago. It's all bullshit. These hoes ain't loyal for SHIT. I am making the best money ever and yadda yadda yadda. It's amazing how much you can get done once you stop caring about trying to make shit work relationship-wise with thots.
Enjoy the decline gentleman.
[–]Magnum994 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“alpha male” great-looking jock-types I saw girls at or below my smv pull alpha jock types Being hungry for what I felt like I’d been “missing out on”, I took him up on his offer and we became fwb. Instead of having an n count of 1 (my potential husband) This, I brought entirely on myself.
“alpha male”
great-looking jock-types
I saw girls at or below my smv pull alpha jock types
Being hungry for what I felt like I’d been “missing out on”, I took him up on his offer and we became fwb.
Instead of having an n count of 1 (my potential husband)
Guys, stop going there and stop writing your fantasy stories. This is not even a decent try...
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People wonder why I slut shame despite having a girl who has no other “experience”. It is a degenerate disease . Socialism can only prop it up for so long. My sons may not have to deal with it and my daughters will get nothing from me if they participate.
[–]general_landur 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This reads like a guy in their anger phase posting as a girl. Too specific.
[–]Lordadidas 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe I’m thinking wrong here but this is partly why I don’t want a virgin. I mean, I’ve found that an n-count of 3-4 works the best. That way you’re only competing with 3-4 dudes in her mind at any given time (shouldn’t be hard to win when you have TRP) and the feeling of “is there better out there” should dissipate slightly but of course it’ll never go away.
[–]idgaf- 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Anyone think she's overreacting?
Her N count is still relatively very low. I know plenty who end up in marriages just fine. In modern times, even 20, 50 isn't a sentence for loneliness.
That said the alpha widow confession is on point. She can no longer feel attraction for men of her ex's caliber. Crazy. Keep lifting gentlemen.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her n count is low but she will always think about the jock that used her for sex. It'll be hard for her to find a chad who would also LTR her.
[–]Blackphish88 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sorry. Didn't read far. Saw "had great relationship" then "Saw others girls with j-j-j-jooooocks". Story ends that she was a dumb whore and deserves the life of misery she bemoans, right?
[–]1ozaku7 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How would you feel if you were to be stuck with your Nissan while you never got to drive a Dodge Viper?
[–]Blackphish88 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fine. I don't need a shiny car everyone thinks is cool. I just need to get from A to B.
[–]1ozaku7 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Guess you're not a dumb whores, but is someone who misses out in life.
[–]Ivabighairy1 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It reads like it was wrote by a guy. Not saying it doesn’t happen, just critiquing the writing.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
This is a good argument for a little ethics in red pill philosophy. I know it’s fundamentally amoral. However, personally I think it’s shitty to alpha widow a girl who stil has a very low n count of 1-2. Or to break up a relationship that has deep feelings just for the lay. I know the chad in this story didn’t do that. But if I see a beta w a girl and they may have a shot at marriage, I think it’s shitty to just alpha widow her.
In other words, keep the pump and dumps to girls who are no longer wife material (which in this day is most of them). I know the remaining wife material ones may get turnt out into slut puppies eventually but I don’t want to be the one to destroy her prospects at a reasonably happy future marriage.
And if you must fuck an n count of 0-1, don’t do it unless you’re gonna do the relationship thing and only dump if/when she gets bitchy or cheats. Otherwise you’re just alpha windowing a still marriageable maiden and contributing to the rot.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
>But if I see a beta w a girl and they may have a shot at marriage, I think it’s shitty to just alpha widow her.
You owe them nothing. Unfortunately, in the world we're in it's every man for himself. She chose to be alpha widowed and her bf (whether alpha or beta) is not your concern. Why should you care about her future marriage prospects...A good girl can turn into a slut anytime. Besides, the fact that a lot of women chose to be alpha widowed lies on the fact that their beta bf is not giving her tingles and she wants an alpha man. I love alpha widowing girls...especially those with pathetic beta bfs. Enjoy the decline haha.
[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know I dont technically owe them anything. But I still think it’s shitty. It’s essentially manipulating her hindbrain into a decision that harms her long term prospects.
Also it depends on how beta and schlubby he is. If he’s a flat out loser then fine, poke his girl. Odds are very high she’d ditch him anyway and destroying that relationship is probably a favor to them both anyway. Loser dudes shouldn’t be getting married.
But if he’s a regular dude with his shit together, just kinda beta so that you could outshine him. I wouldn’t destroy that. Not all family man types can compete with a chad. So I wouldn’t fuck w that.
[–]blackierobinsun3 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
All it takes is 1 week at college
I'm in college atm and its crazy. Girls with boyfriends, Preachers daughters, arab girls betrothed to other men in their countries hop on my dick after a week of meeting them.
Embrace nature.
Somehow men who behave like that long term boyfriend are repulsive to women. Why? I don't care. I'm not into feminine sexual strategy. I'm into my sexual strategy.
[–]throwlaca 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is revenge fantasy for men, very likely written also by a man. Dont fall for it.
I'll be honest, I've been slowly unplugging for the last few years, and this still gave me a twang in my gut. Even though I know full well it's a common occurrence and have myself been the fwb guy to a girl who wanted more. To fully unplug seems like it makes you dead inside; you simply just stop reacting to all this nonsense.
[–]Nergaal 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Instead of having an n count of 1 (my potential husband), I now have a raised one
Wow, how to encrypt reality
[–]javiercer20 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Well... she’ll keep fucking guys who treat her like shit until she calls that ex boyfriend Billy back. Get married and then be unhappy again after 5 years of marriage. She will get fucked by some real masculine man on her sofa while good hubby is at the movies with the kids. Keep going for years until Billy finds out she’s been riding several dicks for a long time, go like crazy and divorce her ass, will give her the house and half of the money he made in 25 years.
Little slut is 55 now, face looks meh, saggy tits, ass not as hard as it was 20 years ago. Works full time just enough to pay the bills and to treat dinner to 25 year old asshole chad, hoping he won’t forget her and come by to fuck her dried up pussy at least once a month.
I love these histories.
[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] [score hidden] 7 years ago stickied comment (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]Mattcwu 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's sad. She totally regrets her decision. She could have been educated on the issue and maybe things could have gone a different way.
[–]LarsleDarsle 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Show some sympathy for another human being. It's their biological nature to act stupidly like this. Nobody is perfect.
[–]nross368 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at me I have an n count of 2. Alfas please dm me. Look at me I'm advertising I understand. Look at me look at me!!!!! I get it. I'm different. Look at me.....
Just like a cat that has figured out a mirror, a bitch has now attained self-awareness.
[–]_Anarchon_ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's no way a chick wrote that
[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my 30's I was doing pretty well. I had a nice car, and I was going to gym 5 days a week. I am six foot tall and was ok looking.
One day I was visiting my mother and my sister came over too, bringing a fat blonde friend.
The friend stared and me for a while then said to my sister "I can't help thinking I've been undervaluing myself; I think I deserve better than my current boyfriend....."
Out of shape, conceited, AND disloyal. Not a chance babe.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What is the point of this post? Water is wet.
[+]McVaghunter -9 points-8 points-7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
got together at 16, had our first kiss at 17 and lost our virginity to one another at 20
I call bullshit! At 16 the average girl is already in the two digit n-count, there's no way in hell, she was still virgin at the age of 20... No fucking way. I think that the "guy" in her story is not one person, but refers to the low/average SMV guys she was fucking (yes, fucking) between the ages of 16 and 21. Same goes for the "chad" she was fucking after that, it's not just one chad.
She made the first guys wait long periods of time before giving up a kiss or some pussy, which is a clear sign that this girl never had any bit of sexual attraction to those dickless bacteria she was dating.
One of the lessons I loved: Just have an abundance of options and your harem will be open up to your polygamy and accept themselves as nothing more than a lay. Beautiful.
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