On Cheating: "THERE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOU."

_TheRP · 2017-08-26T21:07:05+00:00

Women are like small children. You can dangle the coolest set of keys in front of them, and eventually they'll get bored.

There is no greater sin to a woman than a man being boring.

You need to provide an emotional roller coaster without showing emotion yourself, and even if you manage it perfectly it'll still eventually get stale - because you'll eventually get stale.

TheLaughingRhino · 2017-08-27T03:48:27+00:00

There are a subset of people in life, not many, who irrelevant to being "game aware" are simply people aware. They can read people, they can gauge motive and behavior and they can predict often what is likely to happen next.

I've met a few people like this in my life. And they are all pretty miserable. Once you really learn to "get" how people behave, it's just really disappointing at times.

The problem doesn't root at that 99 percent of women will cheat ( that is true), the problem roots that 99 percent of people, men and women, are basically douchebags, and women just comprise a large subset therein with the power structure in place to wield very specific and long range douchebaggery.

The problem is not that they are cheater.

The problem is that they are giant douchebag with all kinds of character flaws, and cheating is simply on the menu of all kind of craptastic things that will happen to you if you get close to them.

Just stay away from low character people, when you have a choice, that's both men and women. Life is just easier that way.

FMIBMW · 2017-08-27T00:33:41+00:00

This is why any man must have their "EJECTION" switch painted in the brightest red with fucking sparkles covering the whole handle.

Unfortunately with most of guys and some of us on here we end up slowly dismantling that "EJECTION" handle one nut at a time via LTR's, kids, marriage, co-habitation, etc... and naively letting a 5 year old air traffic controller (women) give us proper speeds, altitudes, and directions.

Then when we lose control and plummeting straight into earth... when we go for the handle it simply just comes off with a "oh shit" and then a giant fire ball erupts of the wreckage. Air traffic takes no responsibility and IN FACT rationalizes that YOU are the one who listened to the directions.

Torabor64 · 2017-08-26T20:02:54+00:00

Tl;dr: She isn't yours, it's only your turn.

SlothOnRoids · 2017-08-26T20:19:09+00:00

No guarantee she won't cheat but you should never be scared to walk away. Never be complacent and too comfortable in your relationship. Never stop improving yourself each and every day.

smyger · 2017-08-26T19:57:12+00:00

Wow. Makes me sad to hear but I guess it's true and you can't do anything about it.

newName543456 · 2017-08-26T19:37:41+00:00

Hoes want variety, and yes, you can be as alpha as they come, if woman wants some strange, hamster will find a way to make you look like crap in comparison. That is, until other guy won't commit and branch swing fails, then you're back to being "greatest guy ever" and that whole misadventure "didn't mean a thing", even if for months you were treated like crap or as if you never existed.

Even mainstream admits frequency of sex in LTRs drops over time. Difference is, they choose to hamster it as "sex isn't important, true love conquers all".

tr0n_cat · 2017-08-27T00:58:00+00:00

I know a lot of dudes on here advocate demoting her to plate status . . . Hell of a punishment considering if she gave a shit about your commitment, she wouldn't have risked losing it by cheating on you.

This is so dead-fucking-on. I can't imagine anything more frame-breaking than wasting one breath on a woman that cheated. You need to be ready to hit that eject button quick and ghost her despite any feelz you may have wound up catching.

Fedor_Gavnyukov · 2017-08-27T01:14:33+00:00

the chattering of her single "friends,"

this is one of the biggest causes of women going astray or all of a sudden acting out like idiots. i can't stress this enough. women will try to sabotage other women constantly. i don't give a fuck if they've known each other for 20 years (especially then). i've seen this happen way too often in many different social groups (not just some dumb bar cunts). happened to a couple of ltr's i've had, luckily for me, my girls listened to my reasoning over their "friends" and the fire was put out.

also, this:

she's only sorry she got caught

GreenPiller · 2017-08-26T20:26:22+00:00

I laugh everytime a guy on AskTRP states that his girl told him he was the best guy she has been with and that it's doubtful she would cheat on him.

Dmva100 · 2017-08-26T20:57:46+00:00

Only one way to counter this. Get variety yourself and stop investing.

OldK1ngDoran · 2017-08-27T00:15:43+00:00

There really isn't any better than me . True fact.

ScottDurden · 2017-08-26T21:13:20+00:00

Yes, nothing will save you from hypergamy, however, by being alpha in every aspect of your life & limiting emotional investment you'll never lose sleep over what constitutes her "preferences".

workingmanrush · 2017-08-27T00:54:28+00:00

I've observed one wife who is cheating on her husband, he hasn't a clue and at the time I figured it out I was shocked, that said my instincts a long time ago told me she wasn't happy; I'm happily married, but I do occasionally check my wife's phone and computer especially after observing this other woman cheating; I read MMSLP and it really improved my marriage, but it's a challenge to mix alpha and beta, figure out shit tests v loyalty tests; if my marriage did ever fall apart I'm very confident l would be fine and juggle plates (maybe, I get a lot of interest, who knows); just be the best man you can be, mix the alpha and beta, what happens happens; if a woman cheats, when I dated I always moved on, probably would still do that, hopefully I'll never have that problem

blackierobinsun3 · 2017-08-26T20:59:01+00:00

Biches want that new car smell, when it wears off they just get another car, but they don't realize they damage they cause

ozaku7 · 2017-08-27T11:09:00+00:00

Women want to have their cake and eat it too. Very rarely have I ever heard a woman saying she is satisfied with all her decisions in her life, because decisions mean that you have to give up one option to get the other. But they want both. And it's the same with men. They might want the silent nerdy guy, they might want the masculine plumber from around the corner. Settling isn't an option, because they lose the option of having the other.

This is where their cheating tactics come in, where they hamster that this man is so different and her current man cannot possibly ever offer her this, it is not considered cheating because she isn't getting from him something that her man can give her. She chases both options and has them, and only cries when she loses them both, because then she's back at square one again.

Females are a gender that is permanently dissatisfied. They become happy when you "open a door for them", but soon after they pass that door, they realize that there are plenty of closed doors that they expect for you to open. Que, gifts and deeds that you give or do for her, which all go into the abyss of history and we're back at "Yeah, you built me a castle, you gave me richdom, you're making me cum every evening and you're the best man alive, but "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY?"

Lastly, I don't know why TRP is so upset with women cheating, understanding their nature and that commitment is just a social construct. Why don't you just get into an LTR and have the cake and eat it too like women do. Go on business trips, fucks coworkers, fuck clients, do whatever the fuck you like. What she doesn't know doesn't exist in her world, and as long as you keep that up, you are a dirty cheater in your reality, but in her reality you are the faithful husband, she will or will not cheat on. You will never know that, your reality is what you are seeing and everyone has their secrets.

max_peenor · 2017-08-27T13:58:41+00:00

There is always different than you.

The words many men have said: But why HIM?!?!? Because he was different.

JaspersChest · 2017-08-26T23:06:57+00:00

Well......Shit.

Japan better hurry up with that AI sex robot.

LiveAFTSOV · 2017-08-27T01:37:39+00:00

Hate your post cus it's so true.

Blue pills won't accept this.

Harry_Wangs · 2017-08-27T06:36:26+00:00

This is true and it works both ways. I was very tempted to cheat on my ex-ltr with two girls who weren't as attractive. They were only maybe 6-7.5s. but the fact that they threw themselves at me and it would have been so easy, made it hard not to cheat. Because I got sex whenever I wanted and saw the same naked girl hundreds of times, I got bored also. It went from me wanting sex 2-3 times per day to me wanting sex only 3 times per week.

I have realized, for me to get into another LTR, I will need to share some deep important value with my LTR. Otherwise, I will get bored of her and she will likely get bored of me too. I don't think LTRs are necessarily bad ideas, but you need to acknowledge that you will get bored of her looks, and she will get bored of yours. Granted, the better looking you are, the longer infatuation will last, but you'll need to move beyond that or the LTR won't last.

Lesic · 2017-08-26T23:14:22+00:00

First two paragraphs should be in the sidebar.

Nyctangel · 2017-08-27T16:16:29+00:00

Seriously this statement is as good for both women and men, there will always be someone more attractive than you, there will always be someone more interesting than you, you cannot get every hobby/interest/job/physical particularity out of a single person, never.

Its greedy people who can't be happy with what they have or who will always convince themselves that they can find "better", thing is there is ALWAYS someone who may be more fitting so when will it be enough?

Just be happy with what you have or at least have the minimum respect to your partner to at least not cheat and leave him/her or find other solutions.

ex_addict_bro · 2017-08-27T09:28:43+00:00

Preach brother. After thinking about this topic for some time I came up with this exact conclusion. Proper post.

tk421awol · 2017-08-28T23:37:50+00:00

The reason most men have less power in their relationship than women is that the men have not accepted and internalize the Abundance Mentality, while the females are force-fed and happy to binge on that idea. And the number one rule of relationships? Whoever needs it less, has ALL the power.

Glacierdust · 2017-08-28T02:03:35+00:00

OP, I agree with you, I really do. But I just want to point out 2 things and I hope you don't see them as disagreement: 1) yes, women want something different, something shiny, and there are men in her life who fit the criteria BUT that also means that there are women in your life who want YOU. Especially if you're Red as fuck. Do not worry about it if you have a cushion of abundance. This should hit your LTR with some dread and she'll think twice before she "accidentally" sits on some other dick.

And, 2) I'm not siding with women on this exactly, but for fuck's sake most men really are boring. It's unfair to ditch them if they're decent and they provide and all that but I still urge you to look around and see just how dull most men are. And it's because they don't have a purpose and they don't have a belief system to abide by and they don't belong to any brotherhood forged by trials and tribulations the way a squad of war veterans is.

VenusHypergamy · 2017-08-28T03:14:38+00:00

I had a plate tell me once that she very quickly "gets tired" of guys. That was the last time we hooked up. Just my turn.

bobaisdope · 2017-08-27T05:11:26+00:00

Now I totally understand why my dad didn't let my mom go to work after giving birth to me, he made her a housewife since then. But I was born in Asia and the women here are pretty submissive, but it's not quite true for today, they're being westernized, always acting entitled, these little snowflakes, whatever you want to call them. I guess things were easy for dating back then, my dad is alpha af, very funny and smart, outgoing guy, but he chose to marry my mom, who is just 6, I bet my dad bang a lot of babes but decided to marry just a normal woman, a woman who can help him raise his children, clean the house, cook him meals.

TonyZ554 · 2017-08-26T23:20:27+00:00

Just remember is that different than you is perceived as better than you according to her for the moment she decides to cheat or branch swing. When her new branch cracks or the other guy never actually commits is when hypergamy can backfire. That's when she has to essentially "luck" her way back into a situation where a man who she perceives to be as good or better than you that will also give her his commitment.

greatslyfer · 2017-08-27T16:09:43+00:00

"Strong, silent type."

Which we all know there's nothing really mysterious behind it lol, but whateva.

SasquatchMcKraken · 2017-08-27T18:34:47+00:00

Thanks for the gold. The little bro of a good friend of mine, who I sort of consider my own little brother, recently found out his summer sweetheart was fucking a football player behind his back. That got me to thinking, and I thought I'd share those thoughts. It's cool to see they resonated.

ShakaLeonidas · 2017-08-28T00:12:33+00:00

Women are for the species. They are not for culture, morality or harmony.

Their function is to gestate life and be the rightous agents of chaos.

If they are on the bottom, they will clamor to the top by any monkey branching means aka hypergamy.

If they are on the top they will drag everything to the bottom via Solipsism, Alpha Widow Syndrome(first unrequited lover imprint) Victim mentality, and histrionics.

All this serves as catalysts for constant change and the repelling of stagnacy and complacency. They force evolution in a nutshell. The universe is constant change. Females do not allow homogeneity by hiding behind the guise of homogeneity. Perfect antithesis to the Order that males create.

cesarfd · 2017-08-28T14:47:38+00:00

Sexual monogamy doesn't work. Being on a LTR without at least a FB is a serious mistake.

shakespeareSMG · 2017-08-29T06:50:30+00:00

Sasquatch McKraken--what a great handle.

[four laugh emojis go here]

duruga · 2017-08-27T07:29:39+00:00

Women crave biological diversity as much as men.

ForeverMaverick · 2017-08-27T16:39:32+00:00

Well if she didn't value your commitment, your sex doesn't have any value either, because she can get that anywhere. By cutting sex you're letting go of what you actually want just to throw a temper tantrum. Don't do that. Children do that, and you're not a child.

For those reasons, it makes absolute sense to demote to plate as long as you can not give two fucks about the woman and be honest with yourself about it - otherwise you're only fooling yourself and it's gonna cost you for a long time in all arenas of your life until you get your shit together again.

If unsure, just ghost. There's half a world of pussy out there.

Shakydrummer · 2017-08-27T18:51:27+00:00

That's what I've been saying to my friend who has been stressing over his LTR cheating while she's in school overseas.

If she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. You simply should just be putting in the effort you want out of it, but also constantly talking and networking with other women. Chances are high she will, so just expand your social circle and meet new people. If something happens, you've got a pool of women to select from. Kind of a no brainer in an relationship situation.

TRPThrowAway002 · 2017-08-28T01:26:21+00:00

Why is demoting to plate status a bad thing?

Unless she's genuinely crazy (never stick your dick in crazy anyways), you optimize YOUR sexual strategy (ie. getting laid without commitment) and she loses hers (ie. losing commitment).

If she's slutting around though, it may be worth dropping her just to avoid future STD-related problems.

PantsonFire1234 · 2017-08-28T22:26:27+00:00

All of this is true. When I was a young guy I was often at the bad end where some older or more well off guy owned my ass. And I figured that women only did that shit when they found a better guy. I won the lottery genetically and grew up more than I could ever have hoped. I found TRP and everything clicked some more.

The reality became that even though I couldn't point out any guy who was marginally better than me. And those who were surely wouldn't give much attention to the normal chicks I was getting on with. But there's always different. And honestly that's all it takes. They will pretend they upgraded even though it's obviously untrue.

Another thing I learned was pretty much along these lines. I used to force blue pill behavior on myself because I thought that's what girls wanted. Then I learned they like the real asshole me and I did that. But where a girl would initially get bored, lose feelz or respect for me. Now they were just giving up. We'd get into fights. They opted for a beta because they thought I wasn't interested and so on.

After all this work I put into myself the only thing I gained was confidence, satisfaction with myself and a superior ability to attract hotter girls. And that's a great thing to have. But apart from that nothing really changed. I suck at relationships just as much as some other guy sucks at contact sports and exercise.

It sucks but that's the reality. Things are far more complex than 1. be attractive 2. be alpha. You can't control people and people nowadays are fucking stupid. That's a horrible position to be in statistically.

dandons · 2017-08-26T22:18:47+00:00

Truth is, men and women want to fuck a variety of people. I think we need to stop perpetuating this monogamy ideal. Let's all just be swingers. There is this thing called a paternity test today. We were meant to have orgies. Read Sex at Dawn. It will explain everything to you. Women can enjoy sex with multiple partners, and so can men. Stop shaming women's desires, just like women shame men's desires. We are all flinging shit at each other and it is just making everyone insane. Let's make love, not war okay?

Yankee_Fever · 2017-08-27T05:35:39+00:00

What kind of self depreciating garbage is this

Title	On Cheating: "THERE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOU."
Author	SasquatchMcKraken
Upvotes	460
Comments	158
Date	August 26, 2017 7:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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