So last night, I was out with a girl I met online. She was a fiery natural redhead with captivating green eyes. She was pretty nervous. I lightened the mood by being aloof and charismatic. I was securely in control though and my frame was unshakable. Ever since adopting TRP philosophies I have been overly confident and I believe she picked up on it instantly.

Still, the date was going slow. She was nervous and I couldn't escalate as quick as I wanted. Her nonverbal cues were defensive and protected. In real life, she is a librarian and an archivist. She is not used to being around confident forward men.

During our second drink, I checked my phone to look at the time. My phone had text notifications from a few ladies... 13 messages from 5 different woman. The actually messages were not visible but the names, all clearly female names, were visible.

She noticed it. I feel that most men would quickly try to hide the fact that they were receiving messages from other woman. I held frame. It was almost like I wanted to see it. She said, "wow, Mr. popular." I held frame strong and said nothing. I didn't even flinch. Without hesitation, I said it is late and I need to wake up early to hit the gym and work. Almost instantly she was like, "It's only 9:30. I am not ready to end the date. How about we go someplace else?"

"Where did you have in mind?"

"How about my apartment?"

Done and Done.

I am sure some more seasoned Red Pillers could identify more here. Essentially I was leveraging:

  1. strong frame throughout
  2. preselection of other women
  3. confidence and charisma
  4. willingness to give zero fucks and leave
  5. I had other opportunities available so I didn't care if the date was successful or not. This put the ownership on her to work for my attention.

Thanks. I look forward to feedback and thoughts.