The one harsh red pill truth every single guy that isn't white has to be aware of.

GullyBanman · 2015-10-30T19:27:27+00:00

On Canada is similar. Never had a race situation come up until the move.

Now it's in the back of my head. Don't change because of it, just be aware if the signs. And don't look like the stereotype. Lot of guys who hate Hispanics can just as easily. "he's not like the other ones" it away.

Don't slick your hair, call them essay, or have a dammed goatee.

White guys can't look like a fedora wearing 'gamer'. Consider this your fedora

GullyBanman · 2015-10-30T19:36:33+00:00

I find that the northeastern states like Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and places along those lines have a lot of white liberals that will talk about how beautiful diversity is but never want to actually associate with minorities unless politics and social image are involved. You're not the first guy I've seen mention this either, tons of Asian and Indian guys I see whining about race and beating themselves up over how they can never get laid because they're Asian or Indian come from these kinds of areas.

The women in these areas also seem to be very cold and sociopathic so I wonder if these guys are really missing out on that much. IMO, the worst looking American women I have met have come from these areas as well.

Maybe someone from there can chime in and let us in on what is going on.

Chadtheslayer · 2015-10-30T19:47:58+00:00

White guy here born and raised in a Mid-Atlantic state and I definitely believe that an Asian guy would have a tough time there. The people in these states have the whole "know it all" attitude, massive egos, and get a lot of their facts about other cultures and races through media and books rather than real world experiences. History of the area is rooted in segregation, even whites here used to segregate themselves based on ethnic heritage. Ask a white southerner or white guy from the west coast what he is, he will say he is white, ask one from the Mid-Atlantic and he will say he is Irish or Italian.

Black guys can do well in the region because of media image and forbidden fruit factor. A lot of the girls here come from towns where 99% of the people are white and their families are pretty racist too.

You aren't missing out on much though, of all the women in America, I think the Mid-Atlantic probably has the ugliest ones. Tons of tom boys, entitled feminists, and mostly plain janes. Very confrontational women with no sense of femininity left in them. A 7 from a place like Florida or California would be a 9 in a place like Pennsylvania. The people in general are awful and it is a very depressing place to be if you aren't in NYC or a major city.

2015-10-31T03:32:03+00:00

Open invitation to any Asian dudes: let's get with each other's sisters awwwwww yeah

Invalidity · 2015-10-30T20:51:49+00:00

As an Asian male, it's fucking tougher. There is no denying that. But at the same time, whining about shit isn't going to get things done. And quite frankly, it's less about stereotyping and more about societal norms.

In America, it's going to be stacked against you if you're a minority. That is the reality of it.

What each of us needs to do is express greater hypermasculinity. That's the bottom line. The stereotypes need not apply if you display a greater amount of masculinity than the average male.

If people in society are predisposed to certain prejudices against minorities, it's not going to change. This reality should and will push many male minorities to either drastically fail or drastically succeed.

AdonisHera · 2015-10-30T19:45:47+00:00

I see you mentioned black guys, as I black guy living in the DEEP south I agree. Although it isn't absoluely impossible, it is EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to land an above average white girl or above average southern latina. It boils down to a lot of things, mostly favoritism and some stereotypes.

RPRedhead · 2015-10-30T22:02:08+00:00

As a white guy, I have dated/fucked women of many races and cultures. But never an Indian/pakistani woman. Why is that community so closed/tight? I've been sort of adopted at times by other races/cultures but never those.

I'm into exotics, in case that's not obvious. I find most white women in the USA to be pretentious, entitled, selfish, un-feminine wastes of my time. Sorry OP was dissed by white women, but I find (most) non-white women much more womanly and genuinely feminine than white women.

MooseKingCloud · 2015-10-30T19:23:14+00:00

Location...Location....Location

GullyBanman · 2015-10-30T21:54:19+00:00

Let's take it back to formula guys.

Not that greater socioeconomic factors don't matter, but women dont give a shit in general. They're not checking CNN .com to verify political or social trends before deciding to fuck a guy.

Here's the bottom line: AF/BB .

It's pretty much their basic instinctual OS, hard coded into every female alive of all cultures . One guy for cash, another guy for cum.
So long as Chad and Husband Brad are the same race, all's good in the hood.

Problems arise when Desired Alpha is a different race then Current Beta. Audacious as women are nowadays even they know birthing an Asian baby when the hubby's white isnt a sellable lie. That's why white women avoid ethnic men in general; unless the man has it going on in the bank account and can thus be sold to her family as a "dark Beta " she cant risk getting knocked up, otherwise major scandal.Society hasn't quite gotten so betafied that a Bluepill guy is socially obligated to raise a baby of a totally different race then he is.If you're a dark skinned guy, you can get laid so long as she's as dark as you are. If there's a major difference in melanin....no go, unless you go BB from the jump.

Since birthing a superior kid is the entire point, you get fucked up situations where girls are blatantly attracted to ethnic guys but run for the hills come game time.

Or I should say, "well behaved" girls. Ones with super-beta schlubs will do the exact opposite. Those women WILL chase ethnic dudes because they know Beta boy is so eunichized he would raise her kid regardless of being cucked. I've noticed an interesting correlation: the more Beta the husband, the more likely she's fucking me.

This comes off as bragging now matter how I say it, so here goes: my SMV is high enough that even as a biracial dude white girls shoot off frequent IOIs. They don't initiate or close because of the above reasons, and that's the point. A white dude with my SMV standing would have been locked down or locked up a long time ago. The law doesn't care how Dark Triad you are, theyll garnish your wages just the same. If a woman wants your money she'll get it , provided she knows the right phone number to call. What the PUA dudes never get around to saying is pussy can be like money; more poon, more drama, more problems. If you think one pregnancy scare sucks...try multiple ones at the same general pace of time.

So in my case being ignored on account of AF/BB is a good thing. Downside is I have to be real careful around ethnic women, because they might actually pull off a BB arrangement with me.White girls I can game and its a binary setup. Either they're DTF on the spot or its a bust. A white guy would always have to be on the lookout for a BB con job.

As an ethnic man, Its a relief to know if a white girl is with me there's no BS or games, it is going down for real.

Edit- a postscript . If women aren't closing with you and you're a different race then they are, you'll have to face a decision. You can take the hard road and find a woman down for a one off lay -but the game hours are long and the sexual payoff-to-work ratio blows.

Then there's the "easy" road. Banging girls of your own ethnicity, for whom genetics won't betray her AF/BB strategy. While the raw N count may go up ,so does the risks. Unlike opposite race lays there's an actual concern of her making a move to box you in as a BB Mule.

clam61 · 2015-10-31T20:42:45+00:00

You have to be in the sweet spot.

Either you are in some area where there are tons of your ethnic group and mixing is not a big deal (San Francisco)...or you go to some place where you are the exotic treat (Buttfuck, Missouri).

My friend is Chinese American and has fucked his way all across the country during his residency and fellowships as a doctor across the Midwest and the South. Of course it didn't hurt he was a doctor.

Otherwise if you are in an area where there is just enough of you to be noticed, but not enough to have mixed properly you are fucked (Boston).

There are basically three scenarios with the situation you are talking about:

Asian girls like all other girls are just idiots. Like with a lot else in life, they run their lives via association. An expensive bag makes them high class. A nice leased car makes them rich. Dating someone from a higher social class (like some socially accepted white guy vs. a child of some immigrant) means they made it in life, even if he looks like a bald Mark Zuckerberg with pneumonia. A lot of times these girls are still reeling inside from some sort of inferiority complex as a result of bullying or something as a child for not being white.
An unattractive Asian girl gets no love from Asian guys, so she has to date some other kind of guy who is more forgiving of her weight, or face, and basically gives her +5 just for being exotic to him. He on the other hand is a STEM loser who recently read Roush V, and now is so excited because thinks he is banging a young Lucy Liu.
Some people just have personal preference.

With regards to #2, I recently matched with a girl on Tinder. Cute main picture, which was only of her face. Not until I looked at more of her pics did I discover she was really thick and slightly overweight. Big ass.

I was bored so we talked for a little bit. Despite being an SJW who criticized me for making jokes based on stereotypes, she of course rationalized that Asian guys were intimidated and didn't have the guts to approach her or her friends (totally buying into the weak Asian male stereotype). She says she has never been approached by an Asian guy, just blacks and mexicans and whites.

I really had an urge to just say, "No shit! Because Asian dudes generally aren't into fat chicks". But being a generally nice guy, I of course just said "There could be other reasons than intimidation", to which she replied, "I guess so..."

CowardlyPetrov · 2015-10-31T01:51:24+00:00

the racism is pretty strong there outside of the really big cities

I agree with most of your post and I am happy to share my own pov but I disagree with the use of the word racism. I don't think it's a matter of hatred. Desire is not negotiated.

I tend to like white and asian women because to me they are sexy and feminine. I rarely like black women because they are usually too masculine. There is a spectrum between those things, of course. Preferences don't translate into hatred. I don't kick black women walking down the street. I just don't give them the gift of my dick.

I agree that this sort of thing needs to be considered and can be a big factor. My experience as a brown guy has been that the girls who like me often have a fetish for this sort of thing in that every single previous boyfriend (or 90% of them) has been a foreigner of one kind or another. They want wog boys.

There is a very different stigma for big brown guys (especially black guys) than with Asians and Indians though I think.

Black guys famously have big dicks. I don't see it in pop culture as much, but the big white people (vikings) and big brown people seem like they do too. It just makes sense to me that their bodies are in proportion. My own dick is 6 inches which doesn't look massive to me. It looks like a proportional size with the rest of my body. Unfortunately, I am a short guy. But nothing that I can do about that.

Asians, meaning orientals, and the thin small Indian peoples look like they'd have small dicks. Specifically, Asians have the opposite stereotype to black people and frequently get taunted for this.

I think this is something women think about a lot but don't vocalize, much like most of their thinking. So even a little Asian guy with muscles and a job still just seems like an effeminate small dicked loser. I don't say that to be cruel.

I don't see a lot of dicks except in porn so honestly I don't know these things for sure, but I think these educated guesses make sense to me.

It's summer now and I went to a girl's place. When we hugged she said, "Wow! You don't smell!" It was funny, she said it very reflexively and immediately tried to bite her tongue. But while it is embarrassing for me I actually really appreciated it because it confirmed a few things for me. I've been conscious of my body odor (from sweating) for awhile but nobody ever tells you the truth about anything so I wasn't sure if it was just in my head.

This means a few things. First, it must mean that I usually do smell from sweating and therefore the steps I am taking to deal with it are worthwhile. Second, it is also worth remarking because everyone else smells right now and finally I am the one who doesn't. We are having heat waves that are breaking records, but I'm native to the desert so for me this is my climate. I am not sweating, I am completely comfortable. I smell good after I shower and it stays that way all day long instead of immediately turning to the smell of sweat 5 minutes later. All the white people are dying. They sweat up a storm, they get dizzy, they get red and burnt, etc. For me, in winter, I am freezing my ass off because I just can't handle the cold. I wear so many layers I end up sweating from all the clothes (and thus smelling) and I'm still fucking cold!

Why do I bring this up? Well, I see this as a parallel. There is something about me which sets me apart from the "normal" (read: average) male in my society. White guys are native to cold environments. It's unattractive to see my weakness in the cold, and obviously sweat smell is gross as hell. I've mostly fixed it by just using a really strong antiperspirant and being careful about exerting myself, but it's something I'll always have to make considerations for. And it kind of works in my favor during summer when everyone is out in the sun. Everyone else gets sweaty and gross. I turn into a bronze god.

Now, of course, there is no upside to people thinking you have a small dick and certainly no upside if it's true. So it's not a perfect comparison. But they don't need to be congruent to be similar. The point is that guys of various races will face various things and I think we should discuss them the same way we discuss most things on TRP, in an amoral way.

And moreover, the moral issue is simple. Racism exists, it's in our society and I see it here sometimes expressed by some people, but it's not like the nonsense that libtards espouse. Desire is not negotiable. Not on anything. You cannot negotiate a woman into being attracted to beta losers or into being attracted to men whose physicality doesn't attract them.

Maybe I do not know the place where you live. I freely admit I have never been there. My own experience has been such that I think I have seen similar things and I think I made the mistake of labeling "racism" when I was younger. I don't think it is though.

Linziong · 2015-10-31T04:36:37+00:00

Does not just end at getting white girls either, just wanted to mention this.

If white girls in a given area are that against dating a certain minority group to where even the high SMV men of that race are struggling, you can bet that the racism goes beyond just that. Chances are that the white guys in that area are more racist towards that race and so is the society in general. Guys of that race will struggle socially in terms of making friends and getting respect from others because they will always be viewed by race and nothing else. Eventually this will cause girls of their own race to hate them and refuse to date them as well if they're there long enough.

So even if your goal as a minority is not to get white girls, it should be relevant for you nonetheless. White girls in a given area are rejecting higher value guys of certain minority groups because those minority groups are hated that much.

Scott_WWS · 2015-10-31T02:42:43+00:00

As a white Viking descended Male, I can't really comment to this article as I haven't walked in the shoes of a Brown Man.

What I can say is this:

One of the wisest RP Men I ever worked with, "Joey P. (insert Italian name that starts with a P)" once said with great fanfare:

"Make a woman laugh and she will sleep with you."

I have another work colleauge, Cole, from Korea who was adopted by White parents when he was an infant. On the phone, you would think he is from Iowa. Looking at him, he looks like every Asian-American kid. But God is he funny. I mean, always had us in stitches.

And guess what? Never had trouble landing the women.

I received an invitation to his marriage - hot blonde with blue eyes and then an announcement of the birth of their first kid.

Keep 'em laughing, I say!

2015-10-31T04:52:47+00:00

This is very true. What's even worse is when you take care of yourself and are better looking then many men but because of both your race and your height women won't even look at you. 5'2" for anyone wondering. I have no chance in the SMP.

DonkeyDrama · 2015-10-31T05:21:39+00:00

As an Asian American I can totally agree with this.

For an Asian guy I'm pretty tall, fit, decent looking, stylish, socialized, have a good paying job and just love to go out and have fun and people can see that. I get compliments on my character, personality and style frequently.

Being born and raised in a tough part of Southern CA, it helped me develop into a cool, open minded guy. I didn't have a problems with girls of any race when I lived there and race was never even a thing to me at the time. I never understood why I always saw Asian men bitching about it online when I never saw it as a problem in CA. Then I decided to move to a small hipster town in good ol' Texas!

I made a few friends and we started a little group. Black guy, white guy, middle eastern guy, mexican guy, and myself. I consider us as average to above average looking guys. White guy being the least physically attractive, stick skinny, no style, bad posture, and weird. Whenever we go out to a bar or to parties or just anywhere, people(especially women) would always go up to them first, sometimes I would just be completely ignored. They just seem to have a much easier time than me. If I don't make myself present, I will get completely ignored. I'm not bad in social situations at all, it's just that if I don't present myself, it's like I'm not even there. My friends don't even have to try. After a while it gets exhausting to always have to put forth the extra effort to socialize and game when all they have to do is just be there. Even the weird white dude could cold approach and talk about the dumbest shit and girls would at least give him their time. As for me, about half of the girls would give me cold shoulders or start acting awkward as to try to get me to leave already and you can sense it even when my game is good. But when I have the black guy wing me, girls would practically give me their numbers and all he would do is introduce himself then stay quiet.

After being in Texas for a few years, I took a short trip to CA to see my cousin and WTF. I had NO problems socializing and integrating with groups and girls were so much easier to talk to. Race stopped mattering to me and everything was normal again so I know for a fact that it wasn't just all in my head. My friends noticed it too once I acknowledged the problem. I don't have a problem getting lays or socializing in Texas. I just have to try extra hard just to fit in or have high SMV.

Primemale · 2015-10-30T20:06:20+00:00

BTW it is not "racism" for white women to not be interested in guys of other races. Admittedly women for the most part will go with a man of high value regardless of race but it is completely NORMAL for someone to prefer people of their own race overall. And you calling it racism just adds to the progressive, pc, liberal narrative, so if anything I think you are the "brainwashed" one.

westcoaster11 · 2015-10-30T19:53:02+00:00

Adding perspective from UK, similar experience. Out of all the places I could goto uni, I picked god Damn OXFORD! It doesnt get more elitist than this. I personally know Indians and American Indians of much higher SMV than me (I am pakistani, working on my body and improving, bf% around 12-14%) and they struggle badly. I actually have it slightly better because my social circle is huge and I actively avoid hanging out with brown guys and girls (indian/pakistani etc, sorry). Still in 2 years, I only really got to date one girl who was hb7-8, from germany. White girls (as in british), specifically in Oxford avoid us usually. Also supply and demand

westcoaster11 · 2015-10-31T13:56:21+00:00

WHITE PRIVELEDGE MOTHERFUCKER!

In all seriousness you make a solid point. I'm in northeast Canada and Asian guys are sort of exotic here to the point where white women will seek them out as something different.

Meanwhile there are so many native girls here that 90% of white guys won't touch them because in general they're drunk, ugly, fat and have 18 children. If not they are ratchet and riff-raff as fuck usually. The only hot Native girls are the ones that look more Asian than Native, which tend to be uni students.

Being white and 6'3" I am oblivious to the problems of minorities. Just wear a mask tonight and the whities will all think you're one of them.

InscrutablePUA · 2015-11-01T01:05:53+00:00

Given that Asian Masculinity has turned into some nationalistic sub that rarely allows decent discussions and always talks about how awful whites are and blames them for all of their issues in life, I feel like we need a sub that gets it right. If you would be interested in being a part of such a sub, PM me and let me know!

I'm glad I'm not the only one who is disappointed in the direction AM has taken. So many of the posts have no connection with masculinity whatsoever. Sign me up for the new one, it will require strong moderation and a clear mission statement or set of core principles to avoid going down the same road.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-10-31T16:09:01+00:00

Probably the main thing to remember is that Europeans are only 10% of the world population.

So when you exist within those few places with significant Europeans that they have an extinction problem taking place.

The world has plenty of Asians.

The world has plenty of Africans.

...so the "true minority" is actually the European and you might just adjust your subjective emotional thinking to the objective reality.

Europeans aren't doing well.

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plein_old · 2015-10-31T01:02:43+00:00

I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing for women to want to date men of the same ethnicity.

Maybe the whole "melting pot" thing of interracial dating is related to the rise of feminism, fatherless families, etc.? Where there's no culture, no male leaders in the girl's family, etc.?

Whereas I think cultures with strong male leadership often have their love relationships take place internally. Like I heard a black Christian guy once and he was saying that the bible says not to date people from other races. I don't know if that's true but I was like, okay, I can respect that.

Alqahid · 2015-10-30T22:10:53+00:00

I don't like to call it racism. Rather cultural favoritism. I mean, it isn't their fault they have been told since a young age Asian guys have a small cock, are nerds and other stereotypes.

Purecorrupt · 2015-10-30T19:59:31+00:00

I'm in the south -Texas - I'm Black / Asian.

Living in Dallas/Fort Worth area. I haven't really done much day game - but aI can still attest to location via online.

I've been more successful recently with online. All anecdotal, but I seem to have higher success with all sorts of girls from Arlington (pretty diverse area). A decent amount in Dallas and Fort Worth the least. I live in Fort Worth which kind of leads to any girl in Dallas not coming to fruition.

My theory is the attribution being to the area's low-high diverse range of available people to fit in social circles.

Arlington is pretty diverse so I assume a lot of people there are used to other cultures. If a white girl from a small hick town moves to Fort Worth for or after college - a professional anything non-white guy might be more appealing than an average redneck, but there may be less comfort. It takes more time to get unfamiliar people to see someone new and different as First & Last name versus that smart brown guy or that funny brown guy or whatever.

Anyways online dating is hard for guys down south unless you are 6 foot, White, Christian, and have a decent job and/or interesting hobbies.

tuxidomasx · 2015-10-30T21:46:32+00:00

black women LOVE black men. and as a black guy, I love them back. It's win-win for us.

it blows my mind how non-black minorities have this race-traitor problem. wtf is wrong with yall's women? smh

Primemale · 2015-10-30T20:06:20+00:00

BTW it is not "racism" for white women to not be interested in guys of other races. Admittedly women for the most part will go with a man of high value regardless of race but it is completely NORMAL for someone to prefer people of their own race overall. And you calling it racism just adds to the progressive, pc, liberal narrative, so if anything I think you are the "brainwashed" one.

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tb87670 · 2015-10-30T20:35:44+00:00

It's not always racism. I just find certain women more attractive than others and in general they tend to be a few specific colors. It's personal preference, not everyone thinks the same. Yes, I've seen women I'm attracted to of each color and ethnicity, but the vast majority belongs to a few specific groups. It's not unreasonable to believe women have a similar tendency to lean to specific ethnic groups too, although hypergamy and tingles will lead them astray way more easily and they might pick a color just for revenge factor or something like that.

Profdiddy · 2015-10-31T01:38:37+00:00

This is not my experience in this same area though I only have 1/4 Japanese blood. That may factor and I am six feet tall.

2015-10-31T01:52:48+00:00

So you are a man of visible ethnicity, and you are attracted to White Girls/Girls of Dif Race than you, but you find that it is discriminatory on their part to be attracted mostly to their own race?

Yes, in Smaller Cities/Towns / Non-Metropolitan Areas - FAMILIARITY - people like what they know and are familiar with.

It's not always about Hate, it's about what they are Familiar With in Looks, Behavior, Values, Attitudes.

empatheticapathetic · 2015-10-31T02:55:32+00:00

I'm from the UK and grew up in the North (the equivalent to the American South) and it's pretty much the reason I have so many self esteem issues. I left in 2008 and now I'm back and Jesus Christ I'll always be an incel here. It's just how it is. You're not even considered a real human being really. Need to get out of here asap.

Fafner2 · 2015-10-31T12:23:48+00:00

This is pretty true-- grew up in one of the states you mentioned and white girls would mainly stick to white men and not venture outward into other races. Truthfully, idgaf-- my goal is self-improvement, and I'm not so concerned about a white girl's pussy that I'd lose my mind about the prospects of not fucking one because she was taught not to date brown dudes.

concerningvalidity · 2015-10-31T14:42:56+00:00

With some notable exceptions, you should generally avoid the entire mid west, mid east, and "the south" of the USSA. Racist, small minded, backwoods bible belt, low opportunity. West coast, Texas, Colorado, upper east coast, and a couple cities in FL are where it's at. Altho FL prob not the best opportunity for Asian men.

InscrutablePUA · 2015-11-01T01:08:13+00:00

Your comments about Mid-Atlantic states are pretty spot on, now that I think about it. Black girls are relatively easy since they are the generally the lowest on the SMV scale. Indian girls need a high degree of in-group comfort if you're not a Brad Pitt type.

Hotblack_Desiato_ · 2015-11-01T16:35:38+00:00

It's a social imprinting thing. You end up being attracted to what you see the most of. If you grow up in So-Cal, and see some of just about every ethnic group on the planet while growing up, you are going to be more open in your preferences. If you grow up in some backwoods town in Massachusetts where everyone is white, you are going to tend to prefer white.

This does not necessarily account for the "foreigner fetish," which is a separate phenomenon.

2016-03-29T22:04:31+00:00

In Europe, even in the big cities, I have never seen an attractive girl go out with an Asian.

Minorities are seen as a last resort and the perfect beta buck candidate.

RP15 · 2015-10-30T21:15:14+00:00

now this was a little before Obama became president

You mean before the magic black messiah came down and forgave us for all our racial sins!!?!?!

SW9876 · 2015-10-31T07:02:41+00:00

In New York City it has been my impression that minorities have it better than whites do. Not the same in Philadelphia, though.

JohnnyRaz · 2015-10-30T20:22:36+00:00

Seems like so many of these minority guys are brainwashed into believing that white pussy is the holiest of holy. Can't really blame them as the media has been pounding it into them since birth even more so in recent years. We all know who controls the media. A lot of men here who claim to be awoken have a lot more "waking up" to do.

2015-10-30T21:43:04+00:00

It's true. I've noticed it on my local college campus: the only interracial couples you regularly see are east asian/indian/black girls with white guys, and less commonly white girls and black guys.

It's really unfortunate, these great guys put in a lot of work but get shat on because of their location (southeast coast).

bonerfleximus · 2015-10-31T02:06:57+00:00

Fuck man, I love being white with a splash of pacific islander

BeefNellington · Sat Oct 31 4:21:04 2015 UTC

This might not apply to black guys but

As a black guy I laughed. It applies to us too, man.

SunshineBlotters · 2015-10-31T06:11:52+00:00

Im black and do a lot of traveling. I can tell you the same goes for black guys. Like you said in your OP be rational and you can tell where you stand. If you are still unsure a good way to gauge is by looking up interracial marriage rates in your area.

For instance you will see that interracial marriage between black males and non black females are high in the south and west coast so you know you will have an easier time there than in the midwest.

prodigy2throw · 2015-10-30T20:03:27+00:00

If you want to get with white women, act and look as white as you can. At the minimum, try pulling off half white -half whatever the fuck. You will slay if you pull this off.

GullyBanman · 2015-10-30T20:51:16+00:00

LOL poor Usa.

We in Europe enjoy much more, it's interracial fuckfest here.

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caviarpropulsion · 2015-10-30T23:42:59+00:00

White privilege status: checked

hogedegbe · 2015-10-31T19:27:41+00:00

Wholeheartedly agree, but even as a black guy in nj, the racism is thick as ever. Girls only want stereotypical black guys, if ur not hood or a dope dealer or a party promoter, ur seen as lame. I've had a cpl interracial relationships but there were very few and far between, and I'm shooting a lot. The northeast is very racist, I can only imagine the struggle for Asians/middle eastern men.

IGoYouStayTwoAutumns · 2015-10-31T23:21:26+00:00

Los Angeles checking in here: you get a +3 to your SMV as a black man (alpha game), +2 for being middle-eastern (beta game); white is neutral; Asian is -2, Indian is -3. So basically most of LA is women going out to hotspots, getting the middle-eastern guys to buy them drinks / bottles etc, and then going home with the black men who swoop in and snap them up right at the end of the night.

Thing to keep in mind here is that the female hive mind very much operates off of cultural stereotypes (the black man as the angry black warrior who will dominate you in bed, the middle-eastern man as the oil tycoon who'll shower you with presents and trips to exotic locations etc)--and as such this can actually be used to your advantage... If you're Asian or Indian congrats: now when you're out meeting girls your bio is you're working on the new Facebook (with the original team no less, they all jumped ship for you) and it's awesome, gonna change the world. Just raised your A round at $15M and you're looking at taking over a building downtown, so cool to know that you can work at doing something you love AND change the world at the same time, right? Oh and your net worth is already north of a billion, and you're not even going public for a year! Craziness...

One other thing to point out: fame will always trump cultural stereotypes every single time. I was out with some friends in West Hollywood a few nights ago, super cute female friend of mine (a comedian) was chatting up some random Asian guy a few feet away, nothing special about him, dude was wearing a hoodie and staring off into space, they talk for 5 min and then she comes back over to us angry as hell. Apparently she asked him to hang out sometime and he shot her down (gave her the hard neg) with "I don't date comedians." I shrugged, "So? Who cares?" She says "Don't you GET IT??!! That's (semi-famous Asian actor / comedian so-and-so)..." Me: "Yeah never heard of him." She looks back: "Oh my God I'M DYING TO FUCK HIM NOW." (No lie, actual quote.)

So yeah guys, if you're bummed about your SMV due to the female hive mind's current set of racial preferences, just work on your fame--it really is like the playing the game with God mode turned on.

pedler · 2015-10-31T00:56:34+00:00

If you're not living in a big city and you are not being paid a lot of money so you can leave on the weekend and go to the city you are doing it wrong

2015-10-31T03:54:21+00:00

can you make an actual summary instead of just re-phrasing your clickbait title?

2015-11-01T19:00:35+00:00

Hold fast OP.

The power dynamic in the world is flipping.

Soon it will be Asians with the highest natural SMV followed by white guys tied with Inidans.

Transmigratory · 2015-11-01T22:13:56+00:00

I'm an Indian guy: I have never faced any of these issues that I've seen people here talk about regarding race.

The way I see it -- not considering personal preference -- I noticed that rather than have a honest look at themselves, minorities will readily play the race card and call it a day.

Let's be honest about factors which could be working against minorities in the West:

Height: if you're not at least in the 5'9-5'10 range (average height for white guys)... perhaps 5'8 then that could be something. Especially as a good deal of girls are about 5'5.
Nice aesthetic facial features. If you're a white guy with an ugly face, you will struggle, period. If you've got an "average" face, you're good. Minorities will find the same... but sometimes your skin tone can accentuate any bad features. From what I've seen, a guy with very nice facial features seems to slay, regardless of race.
Body... boys, boys, boys. Read the book of pook. Your body alone is capable of doing attracting... a body you can make in the gym. The better your body, naturally the girls you get attention from (7+) will increase. If you have a body of a 4, don't expect 7+s to give you attention.
Is your game right for the group you approach? Much like how a game for getting a 4 is different to game for getting a 8... it works in social settings too. Rural areas, if you're a minority you can try your luck. But don't expect much. You'll need a wingman from the same race [as the chicks you're trying to chat up] to talk you up big... which will fuck up if you don't have the next item on the list.
Frame: be honest with yourself. If you over think race, I know for a fact a lot of you here do. Then that fault in your "inner game" will bleed into your "outer game". The game you use while approaching will suffer because you're soiling it with your lack of solid frame. Your frame will never be solid if you think race is lurking around the corner to fuck you up.
Personality... think about it. I'll say this much: how do you come across? If you think about race a lot, you're going to give people a strange "gut feeling" about you.

Before you jump and play the race card. Have a honest think about the above factors. More times than not, people will like to use an excuse they can pin on others than admit some fault in themselves. I.E. it is probably more consoling to say a society's racial attitudes are to blame than say your lack of game or looks.

Yes some will have their preferences for no minorities and that is fine. However I suspect a good deal of minorities over think this issue and overlook the real cause of their failures with women in the west.

Remember the red pill is a fucking journey to self improvement. If poon is REALLY that important to you, then improve those for poon... but then that obviously says you have a lot of hang ups.

For those keen RPers and seasoned RPers, you'll note that a improvement in one or all of the attributes I listed mean improving SMV. SMV increasing naturally increases your luck.

Oh a bonus point:

Your area can fuck you up. Let me explain. If you were an incel in one city. Moved to another and slayed like a boss. Then came back to your original city only to become an incel again. That's not the area, necessarily. It could be the effect the area has on you which makes you revert aspects of yourself which lowers your SMV. Frame, notably.

diversity_is_racism · 2015-10-31T20:13:51+00:00

No decent and honorable person dates outside of their race and class.

username5150 · 2015-10-30T21:27:24+00:00

Actually your comment about middle eastern is dead wrong, well at least if you are Iranian/Persian some consider us middle eastern but technically we are white and a lot of chicks dig Persian guys

foreverconfused · 2015-10-31T01:15:48+00:00

tl;dr: "where da white wimmen at???"

Title	The one harsh red pill truth every single guy that isn't white has to be aware of.
Author	concerningvalidity
Upvotes	142
Comments	318
Date	October 30, 2015 6:59 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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