Today's relationships sub digest

Simon_the_Neckbeard · 2015-10-20T15:27:25+00:00

21 year old girl can't understand why her boyfriend is not happy that beta boys everywhere buy her food and drinks. Why can't she just have the free stuff?

This has always bugged the shit out of me, especially since no one else sees any issue with it.

Girls: Accept free drinks from guy who's flirting with you at the bar? No problem!
Guys: Flirt with other girls while you're at a bar? TOTAL FUCKING SCUMBAG OMG WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU, YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!!!

That's like a girl saying "It's ok for me to keep sucking dicks because I told my boyfriend he can suck as many dicks as he wants too! That's fair, right?"

No, our parts in the dating game are equal but opposite. We throw, you catch. If you get to accept flirtation from other guys, we get to actively flirt with other girls. If you get to have a bunch of friend-zoned beta faggots hovering around you at all times, we get to have a bunch of fuck buddies. That's fair.

TheDreadPill · 2015-10-20T12:15:05+00:00

This reads like a Red Pill Onion, a satire on blue pill thinking as seen through the red pill lens. Good job, keep it up.

max_peenor · 2015-10-20T16:27:48+00:00

Guy comes inside 36 year old woman after she tells him she's on the pill and would get an abortion if she gets pregnant. Guess what happened:

You have to be a spectacular idiot to think a THIRTY-SIX year old is going to abort a baby. It's like the quarterback walking off the field and out of the park with the ball on the 1-yard-line, a second on the clock and they are down by 3 points.

ChrisBenRoy · 2015-10-20T12:29:21+00:00

One of my favorites I've seen there, and I posted a thread about it in here awhile ago, was a story where a guy separated from his wife and moved thousands of miles away. They had two kids and they stayed w/ the mother mostly, and with the father for about a week at a time. Father posts in there that he's had his kids for 3 months and is barely hanging on financially, physically, and emotionally. Meanwhile his wife is going to Vegas to "pop mollys with her co-worker" as he put it. He tells her he's struggling and he still loves her and she responds with "lol bye".

If that wasn't enough, there was some cunt in there hamstring to the guy that his wife "was going through a rough time right now and she needs support" I don't know why, but I was honestly shocked anyone could read that story and come to that conclusion.

MattyAnon · 2015-10-20T13:02:31+00:00

There's no way that women aren't doing this on purpose.

Act like a shit head.
Have the world recognize you as a shit head.
Preach that you're equal.
World has to see you as not a shit head or else they're evil.
Be a bigger shit head.
Rinse and repeat.
Get fat.

floppymammarygland · 2015-10-20T17:04:58+00:00

So let me get this straight... Mods from the relationship sub-reddit monitor TRP and then ban people?

SERIOUSLY?

ItsCold_ItsCold · 2015-10-20T18:34:49+00:00

Beta guy's brother is an "arrogant dick". Guess what beta guy's wife does

Nooooo!

caught my wife cheating on me with my better looking brother

Hoooly shit! I don't care if I sound like the moral police, who fucks their brother's wife?

I'm not even coming from a point of anger, this is hilarious. I'm like a person watching a sitcom right now.

A_DERPING_ULTRALISK · 2015-10-20T13:53:05+00:00

Damn that last one was heavy. I don't even know what to say about it.

_TheRP · 2015-10-20T16:26:47+00:00

Beta guy's brother is an "arrogant dick". Guess what beta guy's wife does

Any self respecting man would put his brother in the hospital for this. I would.

By the same token I would never allow that to happen. I guess it makes sense he hasn't done anything about it. If you read the comments he seems headed down the right path - getting fit, working on himself. Hopefully his mindset changes from I was always worse looking to I'm the fucking man and everyone knows it.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2015-10-20T15:41:52+00:00

that little post just got me banned from posting on the relationships sub

Joke's on them. It's much more fun to post here about /r/relationships than it is to actually post in /r/relationships

More importantly, it's like I always tell people when they think they're "outing" me as a filthy TRPer: I could take two seconds to switch to an alt if I wanted to hide something (and indeed I do switch when I want to discuss something controversial that I'm not certain I can defend). The reason I don't switch to an alt is specifically to give you an opportunity to call me out on any bullshit that I've posted. Seriously, I totally welcome anyone to go through all of my posts and show the world all of the morally reprehensible things I've said.

...they never do.

wiseclockcounter · 2015-10-20T15:06:27+00:00

I'd add two more to that list.

There was another great one on there about a mid twenties pair of siblings who found out that they weren't actually siblings. Turns out the mom had cucked the dad decades ago and had never told anybody. If you're gonna have kids, always get them DNA tested.
A woman brings home a beta as fuck husband from Japan, discovers his true nature, calls him "utterly revolting" in her post. Lots of gems in this one.

I'll see if I can find 'em.

EDIT:

Here they are:

https://archive.is/lisC9 siblings find out their mom cucked their dad.
https://archive.is/MInZx

The second one is really a fucking gem of a post, really a prime example of AWALT. Some woman talks about how this man with all of these kind traits saved her from depression and suicide, only to slowly realize that she is disgusted by his beta behavior. In her own words, calls him "completely disgusting and unbearable." This is a must-read, folks.

fuck_da_haes · 2015-10-20T12:55:23+00:00

We must do something like relatioship weekly digest, because once the tainted glasses are off you see it everywhere ... and its not a nice view.

[deleted] · 2015-10-20T12:54:17+00:00

Good digest dude. I for one would enjoy this as a daily/weekly/whenever feature; it's a good reminder that TRP principles are not taken out of thin air, but based on that little thing called Reality.

[deleted] · 2015-10-20T18:28:21+00:00

Ok which one of you guys wrote up the one about beta guy's brother banging his wife?

It's just too god damn perfect.

RedVillain · 2015-10-20T12:12:18+00:00

We get cross posts from that sub pretty frequently. If you're careful, you can chime in from time to time and drop rp truths and receive positive feedback. You just can't use any of our jargon.

It's easy to judge the guys on there harshly. Many of us have been in some of those situations.

aherne18 · 2015-10-20T18:54:18+00:00

My brother John and I have never been close. He's always been an arrogant shit who has never accomplished anything in life.

Sounds like the definition of an attractive male. And here is the confirmation:

But he got blessed with all the good genes. He's taller, much better looking, tanned, has nice hair, and muscular since he has so much free time to workout. Me on the other hand am shorter, bald, pasty, and just not very attractive.

So: alpha behavior + alpha looks => him dicking the woman of someone with beta behavior + beta looks. Pretty much a no-brainer... Let us continue:

He's always been a partier and has had tons of women. I have never had much success. I'm not as confident as he is and am your typical guy in the bar holding his drink and not talking to anyone. I just focused on my studies and caree

He's not as confident as he is because he's UGLY (yes, looks matter VERY MUCH, especially for women) and chances for someone to fight his fate are always slim. It takes enormous discipline and patience to achieve anything in that area as long as your genes are a huge deterrent. Guys like him have three options:

to remain unfucked and jerk off to internet porn (the least-restance path most take)
to be a BB for a girlfriend that never creams on him and fucks AM to feel "alive"
to learn some game (or hunting strategy) and fight fate EVERY DAY, for the rest of his life. This is because your genes won't tell a different story the next day, so you'll have to put up with a torrent of shit tests triggered by her disbelief of you not being the person you look like.

That is the true "Red Pill"!

Epilogue to a classic BB/AF scenario:

I met my wife Jane in college. Initially she was not attracted to me but we had a class together and ended up doing a project together. I had a lot going for me because I had a job lined up and was graduating with good grades. She is gorgeous and I felt extremely lucky to have her as a gf. She was my first gf. Prior to her meeting John I had mentioned that I had a brother who was an arrogant dick and that we've never been close. After she met him she agreed with me. But I noticed something. He would always say inappropriate shit to her and she would pretend to get upset at it. It became a point of contention between us because I told her I'm not stupid and could tell she was enjoying it. She got upset and accused me of projecting my insecurities on her. We got married 3 years ago.

Sherlock--Holmes · 2015-10-20T19:05:35+00:00

I actually met a woman, we severely suffered from a lack of intimacy, and broke up with her and left her on the night that I met another woman, and posted about it on that nutty sub and got called every scumbag name there is until I removed my post. I am still with that new woman and we are very happy together. I thought I did it right, but apparently to the women over there I should have sacrificed the new relationship and had a grieving time or something..

^{^they're ^fucking ^insane}

nuesuh · 2015-10-20T13:37:19+00:00

It's by far the most cancerous sub on reddit. Entertaining tho

Reddthrown · 2015-10-20T17:58:02+00:00

My favourite is the second one. Love how the "tubby man with a fedora, old leather safari jacket and old school cravat" only has to give the woman a call in the middle of the night, and she comes running.

htbf · 2015-10-20T16:57:37+00:00

Seriously OP, the fuck is wrong with you ? That last submission about the widow is completely irrelevant. It has nothing to do with gender dynamics whatsoever.

D-stroyer · 2015-10-20T15:41:31+00:00

That first one - about the guy's brother - really burns me the fuck up.

"My brother was blessed with good genetics, he's tall, handsome, muscular because he has so much free time to work out..."

You can just feel the jealousy and the ignorance in this one. Hooooooly fuck. People are so goddamn dumb.

[deleted] · 2015-10-20T15:46:51+00:00

Banned from the relationships sub because I told a chick that she was a selfish person for getting upset that she didn't get the "right" birthday gift from her 5 year relationship even though she admits that he used to get her nothing the first couple years.

Just goes to show you that you are damned if you do, damned if you don't. So, might as well save your money and not buy anything for the "princesses".

redadactyl · 2015-10-20T12:32:16+00:00

The Free Food Gamer Girl comes across as a high functioning aspie. I genuinely think she has no idea if its socially OK, whereas a normal girl would totally know.

my_redpill_account · 2015-10-20T17:39:52+00:00

There should be a weekly relationships sub analyzing thread. It would contain all the posts about one thread in one consolidated area, freeing up spaces for other quality posts.

Not sure if that breaks any rules.

vezokpiraka · 2015-10-20T19:26:19+00:00

I laughed out loud at the guess what happened.

I feel sad for people who say TRP makes you a bad person who can't have a relationship.

[deleted] · 2015-10-20T21:50:06+00:00

It's amazing how you live your life blind to the world for 18, 21, 26, 35, 40... years with your whole accumulated knowledge, life experiences then you get introduced to a simple concept called the red pill which in comparision to all your knowledge is almost a speck of dust yet it changes everything so drastically like your whole mind was dirtied, black water a ocean of waste, suddenly purified crystal clear by a single red drop.

RealRational · 2015-10-20T23:02:56+00:00

wow, the thread about the girl letting guys buy her free shit: I didn't' expect those to be the comments AT ALL!

Holy shit, reddit is actually learning! It wasn't that way 3ish years ago when I abandoned those subs.

defiantbastard666 · 2015-10-21T18:19:45+00:00

Am I the only one getting a real kick out of the Italian guy wearing a fedora, being charming in an odd way, and getting flowers ?

Tom_The_Human · 2015-10-20T13:57:34+00:00

21 year old girl can't understand why her boyfriend is not happy that beta boys everywhere buy her food and drinks. Why can't she just have the free stuff?

What would you guys do if your LTR was being bought things by guys? Just laugh it off and thank the guys for paying for your girlfriend's shit so you don't have to/tell the girlfriend to share it with you?

mismm · 2015-10-20T17:39:21+00:00

Take these stories with a grain of salt, most of the stuff in that subreddit is made up.

GuruDev1000 · 2015-10-20T17:52:49+00:00

For all the hate that TRP gives to Relationships, the comments to the first link were pretty decent. Unlike how its made out to be here about the man being shamed into letting his woman have another chance, most of the top comments were very clear about not giving the woman another chance even if she wants to be back in the marriage.

Of course, no one in the top comments tells the man to get a better body for the future's sake--that's one of the things that his asshole bro has going for him.

XofBlack · 2015-10-20T20:39:20+00:00

So old Italian dudes get to be gentlemen, holding doors for girls etc but when we do it it's beta? What an unfair world we live in!

Ferguson_Curly · 2015-10-20T23:06:23+00:00

I almost want to check out the blue pill sub to see how they rationalize this, but I can't even

Redasshole · 2015-10-21T07:53:39+00:00

trp made me understand why my mother leave forone week holidays with her girlfriends. but...how could anyone want to bang her at 70?

triperfecta · 2015-10-21T09:26:52+00:00

I love the idea of your post. Keep it up! Simultaneously informative and entertaining.

prodigyx · 2015-10-20T16:50:32+00:00

If you're spending your time reading BP relationship subs, then you've got some more learning to do. There about a million other things that would be a better use of your time as an RP man.

I'm really getting sick of seeing these threads. Nothing new to be learned from them, and the comments here are just a circlejerk about AWALT and hamstering. We get it, there are BP examples everywhere.

brokenshelf · 2015-10-20T16:12:59+00:00

The first two and the fourth one are great examples. The second one (about food) is stupid and not really that relevant, and the last one is just....tragic. I don't think there's much of a red pill example in someone having their family annihilated by a dumb ass and just wanting to have some semblance of a normal life.

Govedo13 · 2015-10-20T16:58:04+00:00

All great examples of TRP theory except for the last one...I don't get it. That girl is just wondering if she should reveal to her friends about a huge tragedy that changed her life...did I miss something? That one seemed like an anomaly and not relevant at all, just a sad story.

[deleted] · 2015-10-21T02:13:45+00:00

Uhhhh there's nothing at all RP about that last story. Give the girl a break you fucking dickhead.

Sherlock--Holmes · 2015-10-20T13:35:53+00:00

If you have a brother who fucks your wife, then you must suck really bad.

IamGale · 2015-10-20T14:21:32+00:00

These are great. For the last one I don't know if she's necessarily not getting enough attention. I see it that she wants to share something close and personal with her new friends. Something that had a dramatic impact on her life.

SanchitoQ · 2015-10-20T21:34:38+00:00

I do love the fact that the one response to the first guy who said "they're just trying to get in your pants" has exactly zero points. That response made me cringe reading it.

deathsnuggle · 2015-10-21T07:19:31+00:00

"You can say "Oh I don't hide that I have a boyfriend" all you want OP, but I think deep down you enjoy the attention."

They are learning, or was that one of you guys?

MeltzerDriver · 2015-10-21T11:21:00+00:00

Holy fukk..that dude who got cheated on by his GF with his brother. At least he recognized the obvious signs like his wifes ''fake'' hatred towards him actually being lust/tingles. I think that guy's has TRP potential, he saw through her female powertalk communicative bullshit.

JumpXVI · 2015-10-21T18:04:23+00:00

During our session she just said yeah, I know I said I was going to get an abortion, but I also know I’m narcissistic and self-centered and now I have an opportunity to do something for someone else (baby).

Look no further than this to see why men often have a hard time placing their full trust in women. She not only hamsters away her admission that she would abort, but she actually uses two of her character flaws to justify it.

Like, the actual act of having this baby is going to make her less of a shithead and address her self-centeredness and narcissism (things OP may not even have been aware of to the extent they would impact any issues with abortion), so can't you see that and realize that's why I want to have the baby? I mean duh!

The girl doesn't even bother floating some "I felt pressure" or "I feel conflicted now that I'm actually pregnant" line. It's actually kind of beautiful, in a completely fucked up and twisted sort of way.

Would any reasonable man actually believe that she was actually taking BC as diligently as she stated? No. And there's no excuse for lying about a literally life-changing event like this.

I'm not saying that women are less trustworthy than men, at all. But a man caught cheating or whatever would at least lie about it or beg for forgiveness, not say "Well, I know what we said about monogamy, but I also get really horny sometimes and at that party Jessica sat on my lap and I wasn't going to waste a perfectly good boner." (Implying being horny is even as bad as being narcissistic.)

[deleted] · 2015-10-20T23:17:19+00:00

I think the last one regarding the woman who lost her entire family in a car accident is just something any person would feel. You don't let go of tragedies like that and it's only reasonable that she would eventually want to let her new friends in on that information as they get closer, since it's a huge part of who you are. I can't see myself acting any differently to this woman in this context.

brokenshelf · 2015-10-20T15:45:06+00:00

From the last one

...Every idea of mine is the greatest, every joke I tell is the best. When I walk into rooms people stop talking and focus on me, everyone wants to share my workload and help me out.

Wow that sounds just like a Beta Orbiter !!!

And of course she completely fell in love with each and everyone of her co-workers she had sex with each and every...Oh wait no, she was disgusted by them , loathed them and moved Six states away and never spoke to any of them again.

Now Brenda has been dating someone seriously and they just got engaged, and is leaning heavily on Kelly and Donna since they've both been married and want advice

Now she sees all the other women in the group begin to get more attention and status because of "marriage and children" the previous experiences of such and her own attention slipping away.

So she wants to turn them in to Beta Orbiters like her previous co-workers ( because what does she think will happen ? The girls will ask about her and her dead husbands sex life ? What romantic things they did together ? How she disciplined her dead child ? )

I guess because attention that you loath is better to a woman than diminished or no attention at all.

draketton · 2015-10-20T19:47:07+00:00

fuck you and your guess what happened bullshit

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Title	Today's relationships sub digest
Author	Reddthrown
Upvotes	349
Comments	207
Date	October 20, 2015 11:22 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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