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[–]p3ndulum 86 points87 points88 points 11 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link
The one that I live with likes to say "you're not allowed to talk to me anymore" whenever you tell her something she doesn't like.
Many women think they are above being disagreed with or criticized because of the princess complex.
When you grow up being told that you're pretty, even when you're not, or that it "wasn't your fault", even when it was, or always having white knights stick up for you even when you should be open-hand slapped across the mouth, you probably can't even fathom what being able to take constructive criticism might feel like.
Imagine, then, the levels of narcissistic entitlement you get when you hand out participation ribbons to everybody, institutionalize feminism, demonize and medicate all of the boys, and launch campaigns to reclassify anything a man has to say as "mansplaining". Imagine how thin your skin would be.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 72 points73 points74 points 11 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
No, girls can't take criticism, only her dad can give her any at best. My ex is a rural volunteer fire chief. She started out with 12 people on the department now there are 2, her and her boyfriend nobody likes. She was chief for three years before she eviscerated the department by bringing her loser into it. They hated that kid so much that they all quit after the town meeting where she brought him on. Nobody in five counties around us that works fire/ems can stand that kid, because he is arrogant while being incompetent, and feels entitled to be the boss despite having a low starting position. It would be different if he were capable, knowledgeable, experienced, and competent, but he isn't.
The reality of it was that she handled paperwork and crap like that, and had the chief position because nobody else wanted it, and she is a 90-110lb girl that can't lift much. Most of the actual work was handled by either me (I wasn't in the department) and the assistant chief, and we fixed her screw ups, took care of the big stuff, did the heavy lifting. Etc.
A chimney fire nearly burns down my neighbors rental house, my neighbor is her dads best friend. The reason it had $40,000 damage is because my ex came by when it first started, told the crazy girl that lived there to call her landlord and drove back to be with her boyfriend. The owner comes by, dials 911 and our two person department shoes up, along with the neighboring department who actually put it out, and her and her moron boyfriend try to direct everything only to be ignored and told to leave as they were nothing more than a hindrance.
At a town meeting the house owner brings up that she doesn't have the training, experience, and capabilities to be chief. He doesn't want anyone else in our community to lose their home to her incompetence. The next day the State Police show up and tell him to stop harassing her, they threaten him with arrest and charges if he doesn't. The meeting was the only time he said anything about it, but criticism of a girl is harassment even when it's an accurate assessment of her capabilities and performance. You can't criticize girls, you can only tell them how wonderful they are or you get arrested around here.
[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 18 points19 points20 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Women should never be fire fighters. It's a joke. If I'm trapped under rubble, trapped in a room, injured, and/or passed out during a fire, I want a man to come save me. Girls can't lift shit becuase they don't have the body mass and muscle configuration to do it. In addition, they don't have the societal pressure to perform, she'll just be given a pussy pass for running away and letting me burn.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Fight or flight in girls predominantly results in flight, men rush in and handle shit, in addition to the physical differences between men and girls.
[–]killcat 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But, but, but that's just the patriarchy! /s
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah supposedly they're trained to run away by the system, except the system has been training everyone to be passive and run away, and it still doesn't work.
[–]p3ndulum 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ha, I was reading this like, "where the fuck is this going?" And then I got to the last paragraph and my jaw dropped. Unbelievable.
But there it is, a woman's feelings are her reality.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some stories require some back story for the point to be clear.
[–]Rougepellet 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you shitting me? He calls her incompetent and the fucking police show up? Is the bitch 5 years old? "Mooooommmyyyyyy! Brother is being mean to meeeeeeeee" "apologize to your sister". That's exactly how it played out. Feminists wail about equality then pull this shit? I'll be damned if I ever acknowledge then as equals.
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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's true, they are taught feminine thinking, which includes not standing up for yourself to a bully, and a whole mess of other shit.
[–]heeeeeeeeheeeeeeeeee 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
How is that related to men not taking criticism?
[–]onenifty 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
If people could handle taking criticism, they wouldn't get so pissed off at being called fat.
[+]p3ndulum -10 points-9 points-8 points 11 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
Didn't FPH get banned because members were actually going outside of the sub/offline to harass people in the "real" world? I read that sub members were hassling people at* their jobs n'shit..
[–]Lt_Muffintoes 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I find that difficult at best to believe. Who has time to track down fatties and harass them?
[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's not hard to find fatties. They're everywhere.
Thanks KFC, McDonalds and MatrixTV ads fed to sheeple.
[–]Lt_Muffintoes 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Haha find the specific fatties from the internet
[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
so, google image search? Why? I meant in-person it's not hard to find. Few people have any sense of eating what's healthy and finding a gross taste in what isn't. I automatically find food to be disgusting that is fast food. It's the wrong taste, texture, fat content, sugar content, and I can tell immediately on first taste. if I try to eat it I want to vomit.
[–]Lt_Muffintoes1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Dude. What I mean is, I find the story that hambeasts got harassed in real life for posts they made on the Internet to be unlikely at best, because that would involve tracking them down and travelling to them. That's some weapons-grade autism shit right there.
It's far more likely to be like that campus whale who smeared conservatives using her own fucked up rape fetish. "Hey rabbi, whatcha doin'?"
[–]stonepimpletilists 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's what everyone who has been doxxed says
There good examples, that wasnt one of them
[–]FatStig1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
5 years ago I got doxxed by some SRS people and had to create a new account and thoroughly delete my old one.
[–]ArkhamSnake 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
False flag and propaganda. Unless there is evidence of it happening I wouldn't believe it.
[–]curiousthis 15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it was because that was the only subreddit whose posts got popular enough to end up on the front page where people who had not subscribed to it could see them. That would have hurt advertising revenue and had to stop.
[–]ILoveSunflowers 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the answer is always money
[–]Sarah_Connor_Is_Fab 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, that is totally false. I was a member on another account and actions like that would get you banned. Everyone wanted to keep fph, so we kept that contained in our own subreddit.
[–]1mojo_juju 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf are you talking about? can you show evidence?
[–]rpreader 20 points21 points22 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh my goodness the stone wall defense. I hate that. Even in arguments of debates, the end is "shut up", "I'm done talking", "I'm not going to waste my time".
All dismissive.
[–]Diddmund 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have to try hard not to erect a stone wall defense strategy of my own when I have had to deal with it from others.
It's so hopelessly frustrating to try and make a case for something reasonable and they don't even take the time and effort to pick it apart and criticize it.
Just... banana ears and dismissal...
[–]TheWindyCity 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Men are valued based on what they do. A man who can't "do" is useless in societies eyes. Women are accustomed to being valued simply for being a female. When you place them in an occupation in which their value is in their ability to "do" they don't handle criticism well. They're accustomed to having value for existing. Also mind you it's only in the last few hundred years that women have had to work in the same capacity as men. Evolution hasn't caught up yet
[–]BurgundyCarpet 65 points66 points67 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Male thought: "There is no failure, only feedback."
Female thought: "There is no feedback, only threats to my emotionz."
[–]Solitary_Wolf5 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
"There is no failure, only feedback."
im going to adopt that mantra.
[–]BurgundyCarpet 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is true. The idea of 'failure' presupposes outcome dependence. If you are more concerned with how you act than how others are responding to your actions, you can't fail. You can only receive feedback.
[–]1grubek 39 points40 points41 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Men are less bound to hierarchy than women. A man can take a hint from a subordinate easier than a woman. She probably felt you both had not enough status to tell her anything hence the constant fighting of your suggestions. She was not gauging your answers she was feeling attacked that two low value (professionally) guys were telling her shit. In her mind getting advice from someone with higher professional status makes sense and probably helped because she was willing to listen as she felt beneath him.
It sounds bananas for a guy, it does for me, but it probably makes all the sense in her mind.
[–]SexistFlyingPig 23 points24 points25 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're probably right. The two guys were focused on the job and subsumed their egos completely to that end. She was entirely focused on status. For the two men, every bit of criticism was seen as an opportunity to improve. For the woman, every bit of criticism was seen as an attempt to tear her down. Everything that happened was entirely about her ego.
[–]waylandertheslayer 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've noticed this too, and not just with women. Essentially, they treat it politically ("how does admitting I'm wrong reflect on me", "what political motivation do they have for attacking me" etc) because they aren't used to not treating people like backstabbing cunts.
An inability to analyze the actual content of a message is a huge weakness. One of the reasons why many people (especially women) fail in STEM is because they treat everything - even objective stuff like programming or running experiments - as a feelfest where they try to maximise their emotional gain and social standing, rather than produce something that works.
[–]HappyNacho 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God, I love being a programmer. You can't make something compile because of feelz, you have to work on it until you make it right.
[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 20 points21 points22 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
As /u/CisWhiteMaelstrom beautifully put it here, women are intrinsically valuable, but that very trait makes them replaceable. Any other woman can be used to make babies and do assistant tasks for men.
What you are witnessing is a woman's fear of ostricization. To prevent this, she'll feign a smile with everyone she meets, apollogize more than necessary, 'play nice' as to not cause any trouble because she is very replaceable. When 'trouble' to her image occurs, her first reaction is to deflect responsibility. When an unnecessary, replaceable member starts causing problems, and looked upon in a logical light, that member is subject to eviction. This is her ultimate fear. Women are not built to take care of themselves, especially when pregnant. This 'play nice' and deflection of responsibility is an attempt to make herself look valuable to the tribe at all times despite evidence to the contrary. But to do that, logic doesn't help her cause at all, so she'll use shaming tactics and cry to provoke your primal sympathetic tendencies for women, to put her on a pedestal, make you perceive her as more valuable than she really is.
[–]Traz_Onmale 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
If women are the bottleneck of offspring, every woman is valuable to the tribe. Besides, a woman could raise her value through crafting, cooking, gathering or raising her kids well.
See for example the description of a virtuous wife in Proverbs 31.
[–]markyLEpirate 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah tell my girlfriend something about her driving and she takes it up the ass. I stopped letting her drive because I actually fear for my life when she drives
[–]Trpdoc 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As a physician who just finished residency (finally. 5 years) I can vouch for this. It's a sad state of affairs now in the medical community that is coming up. So many losers and betas in medicine, I mean you have to be to get through that much schooling and be blind that the finances only work out for very few specialists. The girls tho, I've seen at least 50% of the chicks in my classes crying at some point and it generally involves when they are getting feedback.
[–]slimcoat12 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
One of the follow-up Kitchen Nightmares episodes gives a lot of insight, too:
Ramsay: You don't have any men chefs? Why is that?
Spawn of Satan: I don't like to bump into men. I'm only comfortable working with girls because the kitchen is so tiny...the males chefs, their ego is too big, and so they leave, I show them the door. And they don't have my standards, so they're doing me a favor. I work meticulously because my customers deserve it.
No, you wanted to fill your kitchen with a bunch of people who are too timid to call you into question.
This woman probably doesn't call herself a feminist but she's indistinguishable from them. Nothing can sate her lust for power and destruction.
[–]1R_E_D_1 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I thought you were gonna post the video where some chick tried to slap him: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_XDW6xo5scU
Ramsey is awesome at maintaining frame in this situation even after that daffy broad tried to assault him.
[–]kingnutter 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My soon-to-be-ex wife would always say "Do you want to have an argument?" when criticised. Originally this would put an end to it. It was only when I found the red pill that I responded with "No, but that doesn't make you right"
[–]herewehoagain 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It always sends me into a fucking rage when I witness this. Especially when they ask for feedback. Bitch if you want me to stroke your ego you can go fuck yourself.
[–]Dr_Red_97 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahaha, Amy's Baking Company! That shithole's like 15 minutes from my house. If I wasn't so busy, I'd probably go there sometime just to troll the shit out of psycho Miss Catlady and the greek Oompa Loompa
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 29 points30 points31 points 11 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Women shouldn't be doctors anyway. Not that there are not those who are smart enough, etc., but when you look at the costs to society of educating doctors and then how many women leave practice or return only part-time after kids, it's not particularly worth it.
Women suck at taking criticism, and they can never be "wrong" or "at fault" which is what happened in your example. The Hamster will find a way to ham its way out of it.
[–]rpreader 23 points24 points25 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Request a male doctor.
Hey if it's totally ok and not sexist for women to request female doctors the inverse should also be true.
[–]Blake55[S] 21 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TBH. You won't be doing yourself any favours in a major hosp. You'll delay treatment and when the male doc does get to you he will already dislike you pissing off other staff and adding to his workload... On the other hand, it's a general doc you should be selective and get someone you're confident in.
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[–]hebola4lyfe 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Women are mostly incompetent at high professions . If they were competent , we wouldnt need female quotas .
You dont give out "respect" to anybody like kleenex . Respect is only earned and deserved through merit . Be a fucking person. Stop putting women on pedestal because of their vagina.
simp boy
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[–]1mojo_juju 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many female engineers with 30 years experience have you met?
Probably zero. For good reason: pushing kids out and quitting early to be a mom.
Women shouldn't be allowed to have preferrential quotas in STEM education or work for this reason.
[–]ColonelMitchell 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you a troll? Or do you just lurk around here waiting for an opportunity to enlighten us?
[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
women who fail and cry are putting themselves down.
We're simply noticing out loud that we know it's a real thing.
[–]Equality_is_a_Myth 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men and women need to do their part to be better human beings and create a world where our children can be at peace and able to make new discoveries.
And forcing incompetent and undeserving women into positions they don't deserve, through a quota system, all the while denying positions to competent and innovative men, is going to help us achieve this is it?
Actual capable women out there should of course be encouraged, but that isn't the current status quo. The current system we have is one of putting appearance of diversity before actual results. Hence an incompetent woman or a negro will get the job before a man.
[–]Rokig 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't use a shame tactic here, the only things that make a man a man are strength, courage, mastery, and Honor. Your morals of what makes a 'good man' have no place here. He's simply stating in accordance with AWALT
[–][deleted] 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to read the sidebar. Clearly you're still in anger phase lol :P
[–]evileddy 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
They do the same thing online but less transparent.
Woman: "The pay gap must be stopped! women making 77 cents for every dollar man gets is horrible!!"
Me: "That's a myth.. here's why posts links to videos and studies"
Woman: "OMG Nobody asked you! What's your problem you loser.. stop posting here!"
lol
For me personally.. when I start a job I look my boss in the eye and say "At any time if I mess up or you think I could improve.. tell me right away.. I will be HAPPY that you take time to help me improve"
I mess up occasionally, hell I'm human, I may not realize I have and my boss telling me that isn't a stab at my personality.. he just wants competent workers like I would in his position. Most times after he points something out I missed we start laughing about it and I fix it with a smile on my face.
Easy!
Why do most women feel that you have basically killed their kitten in front of them when you point out they fucked up? It really is FEELZ > REELZ
[–]redditarcm89 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Flip around your inequality sign. Feels > reals
[–]greyenlightenment 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's easier to take a enema than take feedback
[–]1oldredder 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some women can handle it - those who are intellectual and skilled. They are few but they exist. If they were raised right, by a strict but loving father to push down those emotions and deal with the truth and the job to be done, even little girls cleaning up their toys at age 2 or 3, it becomes a new life instinct.
Bad women today are the product of missing fathers 20 years ago.
[–]laughkisskill 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's shocking. The second Ramsay video I've ever watched, shocking. How can that cook "Amy" be so obtuse and controlling? How are they in business, outright subterfuge? How can she argue with someone internationally recognized for their skill set, who is TRYING to HELP!
Dear God. Thank you op I think i'll be watching him again soon.
On the flip side, I've employed and worked with plenty of women, they take criticism well, we have biweekly releases, one complaint, it's fixed by the off week.
I've never had an issue even close to this in a relationship. Holy freaking crap, I can't blame you, but Damn. Date better girls!
[–]reigorius 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trying to help while making a juicy TV-production at the same time. I sense a little contradiction here. But in the end, everything and everybody is stone crazy. Enjoy the ride I suppose.
[–]NidStyles 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I think the CC voids their sense of empathy due to it's reinforcement of their innate sense of worth through "cock validation", which artificially numbs their ability to 'give a damn' for anyone else...
I say this as I think honestly that sex is merely another form of validation for women. Which is why it distorts them so much when they have it in excess or in deranged forms.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
They don't have to fuck to not have not give a fuck about anyone else, that's how they are. They run on solipsism, it's all about them.
[+]NidStyles -9 points-8 points-7 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Who in the hell said anything about them "having" to do anything?
I think a lot of you could spend some time taking your own advice about improving yourselves. Especially the reading comprehension and objective analysis stuff. I typically suggest a course on formal logic.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Reading and writing comprehension isn't your strength is it? Riding the cc is not a pre requisite. Forgive me if I assume people can grasp the concept of two comments and the unspoken yet relevant bits between them. I assume some things are understood, but apparently not. I'll use smaller words and simpler concepts next time I reply.
[+]NidStyles -11 points-10 points-9 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I understood what you said perfectly fine, it just doesn't have shit to do with my comment, and it reeks of weakness. As does this most recent reply.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are we talking about the same thing?
[–]1oldredder -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You didn't. Many -1's for you and all well-deserved.
[–]NidStyles -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes, because one of my goals in life is please everyone...
[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it's the opposite. Lack of empathy, learned before age 6, leads to the cock carousel. All a girl will ever know about morals is hard-coded by age 6 by the parents.
[–]reigorius 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Holy fucking hell. Who in his right mind marry that?? I mean, something that vicious and totally out of touch with reality is bound to attract the same kind.
With that said...a sudden realization: all those horrible stories we read here, how many of the OP's actually have the bravery to look at themselves and own their part? She must be either extremely skilled in hiding here evil demeanor or the guy just never learns to put up boundaries and guard them. Or either you are just like them.
Also, no fucking wonder that restaurant needs a Gordon Ramsy intervention to safe it, the incompetence being solely fueled by the humongous inflated ego's, ego's unable to take any kind or form of criticism. I know, because I suck at it, but this is another level. Like level 1.000.
sadly most of my girlfriends were like this crazy bitch.
I just decided too few out there are better than this so I stopped dating.
[–]johnnywahd 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I don't allow people that have an attitude in my restaurant."
So what is Amy doing there?
[–]zuperfly2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The woman in that video is not a woman.
[–]RWDMARS 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh god I've been to ABC's. She attacked me for going to the bathroom. But in women's defense, her husband was just like her in the end, and she's an extreme example.
[–]reigorius 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Opposite attracts. I call that bullshit. You attract what you are. Simple as that.
[–]RWDMARS 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's true too, but I think it's both. Because my gf and I are like the same in some important ways, but have some opposite personality traits.
[–]asianmasaccount 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I definitely see what you're saying with girls in general. But I've found the girls I have met on rotation have been a cut above.
I mean by definition they chose to go to med school with us instead of doing some stupid mid twenties girl thing instead. Some might argue they have an easier time, but med school at 80% difficulty is still tough.
Maybe you just got a bad draw?
Btw I think there are a lot of other issues on rotation that women introduce, but I just haven't found this to be one of them. Not really white knighting, but I do want to add a bit of realism to the discussion.
[–]americnleprchaun 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh man, that last bit about "I don't let people with poisonous personalities in my restaurant" BITCH! That has you written all over it.
[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a very frank conversation with a friend at his wedding, of all places.
The guy was in his final year of medical residency, and I asked him about the gender breakdown of his resident group. It was about 25% female. I asked him, how do they perform relative to the men?
At this point he leaned in, looked around, and lowered his voice. "As far as skills, they're alright. They're never the best, but they're competent enough. But the attitude? Jesus, man... Every single woman in my program has a massive chip on her shoulder. It's like they spend all day trying to justify the fact that they're in the program. And worst of all -- they can't take any criticism. They always make fucking excuses. It's infuriating, especially when I have to work sight them. God."
I nodded. "Sounds about right."
[–]HelloJapan1 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
is crazy amy really the best example to show though ahaha she's a nutter :D
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's a really positive redpill trend towards thinning the herd of women who have access to medical school. I participated in a clinical premed internship in California which is integral for gaining acceptance to SoCal med schools. Redpill men have infiltrated all of the recruiting positions and we all made the decision to ensure the program never exceeds 1/5 female participation rate. For every 25 men we only allow 5 girls to slip through the cracks. I foreshadow this becoming the norm nation wide as more men swallow the pill and start reclaiming what's rightfully theirs.
[–]colombia40 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many times have you heard, "Don't talk to me again"...just for calling them out on their bullshit
A soft next is my way of handling things now but before I would call them out and 99% of the time got some form of this answer
[–]lutilisateurx0 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree with you when you say women can't take feedback and hate it when you critic. It's the Ramsay example that I don't agree with, he's a douche.
[–]Blake55[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, he definitely antagonises people. What about the example do you disagree with? I was mainly getting at Amy's selective deafness to criticism.
[+]AgeofEmpathy -33 points-32 points-31 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
"Women can't take feedback" You are generalizing, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hasty_generalization also gordon ramsey sometimes behaves like a cunt when he gives criticism. I am reading a book now written by a psychologist called difficult conversations.. Everything depends on how you deliver it. You can deliver criticism without anyone becoming defensive..
[–]TheGillos 20 points21 points22 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Generalizations are a great time saver. I refuse to water down a point by prefacing it with a million qualifiers, contexts, and exceptions.
As far as delivering criticism without anyone becoming defensive; how do you go about telling a girl she's getting fat?
[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I haven't found a way to do that in 30 years. I don't suppose a way exists.
I got it down pat. If her weight is my problem I tell her "you're too heavy, come on, this is not working"
if it's not my problem I say nothing because I give no fucks.
In fact I only ever had 1 fat girl as a plate and I never had to tell her. It was obvious, she knew and she's not stupid so she doesn't need to be told.
[–]getomc 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Generally, we all assume that generalizations are not universal but still representative of the majority. So, so what if he made a generalization? Nothing wrong with that.
[–]hebola4lyfe 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Generalizations are not false .
Just because you use the word " generalizing" doesnt mean the concept in question is a lie.
In fact, a generalization is 95% true . That 5% makes it a generaliztion because we can't call it a complete "fact" .
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