Belated realisations.

ahmad91201 · 2021-08-06T19:38:33+00:00

Plenty of cat ladies have done this. They think they are all that and that men are “ew” then when they’re alone with the boxed wine it’s 😢😭.

NuclearTheology · 2021-08-06T19:51:18+00:00

I’ve never understood why women on dating apps think being harsh and abrasive is a quality good men seek

plainnsimpleforever · 2021-08-06T21:07:55+00:00

"soulmate". They will live with the Disney dream until their dying breath. A soulmate is only possible if you marry young and grow with that person, and basically morph yourself around that person. Finding a soulmate if you have a kid or are over 30 is next to impossible. Yet these girls hold on to that dream; that finding a soulmate is as easy as swiping on a phone app.

Partnerships today have become just like any other consumer product; made to last a couple of years before breaking down.

theLOLbird · 2021-08-06T20:08:13+00:00

That's some true cat lady wisdom

shivshenko · 2021-08-06T20:42:16+00:00

Because.... back then your so called 'soulmate' didn't give you any tingles? A large chunk of you women in the west have become depraved charlatans. And that is not an attractive prospect for a marriage minded man.

yellomachine · 2021-08-06T20:56:21+00:00

Boohoo, Carol.

You had plenty of warning and you burned every opportunity you had. Most men don't even have opportunity.

Poor you 😢

HLFML · 2021-08-07T00:16:37+00:00

I was with a girl almost 20 years ago and she pushed me away. Since then I got a wife, two kids, house, life squared away.

She has a fuck ton of cats and the most depressing Facebook feed I’ve ever seen. It’s not men who are scared of commitment.

coloradocaniac · 2021-08-06T21:37:31+00:00

Shoutout to the jerk who retorted "fuck off, creep" after I told her I loved her hair. In all actuality her hair is faker than her personality.

houseoftolstoy · 2021-08-06T23:45:52+00:00

Not that I buy much into the "soul mate" theory, but indeed women will ignore, overlook, and outright reject men who have the makings for being a quality husband and father. The problem is that women who want to have things both ways by delaying marriage to "find herself" but still expect to be able to settle down once she has "had her fun" find out that those men are choosing less and less to wait for such women to start getting serious. Many of those men would much prefer to meet his wife and marry her when they are both in their 20s. That way they have the greatest number of years to spend together, including her best years. Not only that it makes for having children much easier when she is young.

If a woman wants to claim she has marriage as one of her most important goals in life, you would think she would make that a priority and not delay marriage for frivolous reasons. Especially if that delay is for her to give out sex to men other than her future husband. Women who say that but willfully push back the window when she gets married shows that it is all talk. She is not marriage minded in the slightest if she operates like this.

lorenzo156 · 2021-08-06T19:37:39+00:00

Bolde article I bet. Who here is surprised? No one in the whole world with two braincells is surprised that this woman has made a mistake and she is realizing the bill has come due.

cbgoon · 2021-08-06T20:42:11+00:00

I've seen that exact same quote on some other girl's profile. This means this quote is what they use to appear "quirky" and funny.

YesYesYesVeryGood · 2021-08-06T22:23:48+00:00

Does she even remember his name? Put all the guys she's been with in a room... could she pick out the soulmate?

SCCock · 2021-08-06T19:39:39+00:00

May I recommend a nice box of Ernest and Julio Gallo?

SCCock · 2021-08-06T19:46:52+00:00

Fallen tears flow on

Like wild-fires on my wet face

As I sit waiting

(Stolen from the internet)

Hy3w_mong0u5 · 2021-08-06T23:02:07+00:00

Nelson Muntz haha

DaddySkrags · 2021-08-06T22:09:02+00:00

Dont worry sweetheart there is still plenty of cats and cheap wine out there for you.

ronoda12 · 2021-08-06T22:16:08+00:00

And if she tries to reach out again he should just use for casual sex and then tell her to fuck off 😂

Joaquino7997 · 2021-08-06T23:05:44+00:00

She doesn't have enough fingers and toes to count all the men in this thread alone who've thought about saying the exact same thing to her.

AlextheHun24 · 2021-08-06T23:25:30+00:00

Too little too late. You can’t what’s done, you can only move on.

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2021-08-07T00:40:09+00:00

She had to be close to 40 or older to confess that one.

ayhme · 2021-08-07T06:53:03+00:00

They swiped left.

2021-08-07T07:14:13+00:00

Gentlemen, Exhibit F - A pompous bitch who deserves nothing but the best outcome because of her considerate attitude and actions: To Die Alone.

Oh she'll get it, she'll get it good.

PopularBug5 · 2021-08-08T04:08:45+00:00

Soulmate = men with bucks.

Good lord, it's like men who focus on their jobs instead of doing cool bad boy stuff day in day out actually are financially stable.

Oh how she wishes she could turn back time and go love - ahem, marry him, put up with not being attracted to him, close her eyes and drink herself stupid before starfishing so that she can then put his atm card in her wallet in return!

MrNeurotypical · 2021-08-09T01:15:24+00:00

Like the hot chick who rejected me in high school by saying "I'm not attracted to you", at least she's honest. All I can remember is her name, face, and that she rejected me because I wasn't attractive enough. How's that working out for you now N*kki? Did the attractive guy come through for you? Didn't think so. Enjoy your lonely life.

slver6 · 2021-08-06T23:09:45+00:00

at least she is admiting she fucked up?

Phallconn · 2021-08-07T03:31:41+00:00

Oh she must be related to my ex.

alexaxl · 2021-08-07T06:20:24+00:00

Them giving the sole to the soul mates.

Ps: Lost so many funny ones I’d bookmarked, to the Miggy flush. Any way to get them? Links/ archives?

Harry_Teak · 2021-08-07T23:31:36+00:00

Or she used the term "soul mate" in a non-ironic manner and they wisely fled at roughly half the speed of sound.

Hi_El_Pu_Ba · 2021-08-07T01:33:52+00:00

Well, that person DEFINITELY wasn't raised by a pair of pigs in a barn....

supplecodex9000 · 2021-08-07T17:05:32+00:00

At least she’s self aware

Detail_Mission · 2021-08-08T00:10:51+00:00

This is the new norm.

datboi3637 · 2021-09-02T12:19:27+00:00

Statistically this is likely

Title	Belated realisations.
Author	bang_the_bongo
Upvotes	650
Comments	172
Date	August 6, 2021 7:01 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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