She doesn't understand why her match rate has suddenly gone down after she turned 30.

Overkillengine · 2019-09-28T13:11:00+00:00

Do you think this is because of my age?

Yes. And it will keep getting worse. There is a reason all those icky "misogynists" were telling you to not waste your youth on screwing around with bad boys.

It's so you would not have to go through this and so that we would not have to listen to you whine about the inevitable results of thinking you were too good to listen.

DangZagnut · 2019-09-28T13:20:40+00:00

Poor girl. Apparently she wasn’t aware that 30 looks older than 18.

poetyaright123 · 2019-09-28T13:28:11+00:00

My personal favorite part in the post is the hampstering. "Do you think this is because of my age? Or maybe OLD is just less popular now?" Classic!

thenotoriousdougie · 2019-09-28T13:34:54+00:00

The worm has turned and now men have the upper hand. Hope you enjoyed the last 10 years because it’s all downhill from here. And it gets exponentially worse.

fatherwombat · 2019-09-28T13:28:34+00:00

Maybe it’s because you spent the other decade of your adult life being stuck up about how jaded and edgy you thought you were.

mottsman87 · 2019-09-28T13:39:23+00:00

Women have the upper hand till 30, then men really shine. It's a inverse relationship. Hence it's very important as a women to find a good guy that will commit before that time. After that no one wants used goods with potential other means offspring. Men in there 30s and 40s that are successful can easily smash girls in there early 20s. Welcome to the rest of your life.

skydragonwhore · 2019-09-28T13:38:26+00:00

It's like being a 5'5" male on a dating app. Which is why I don't see the point?

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-09-28T13:46:03+00:00

29 and 31

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-09-28T13:47:34+00:00

She looks better now? Crows feet, saggy tits, and middle-age spread from a decade of decadence does not look good. The market is responding accordingly.

krusty_fat · 2019-09-28T13:39:47+00:00

Bitch how many OLD apps are you using? Don’t you know that you only have one snatch?

Fhaze1117 · 2019-09-28T13:53:51+00:00

Don't be bitter. Its the Same way a guy is rejected because he's 5'11.999999999" and another guy gets some action just because he's 6'0".

But then again she's still getting matches so if shes attractive as she says she is, and she gets let's say 30 matches a day(average for an attractive female) and it's now 10% less, that means she's getting 3 less matches!

The entitlement force reeks with this one!

Please_Be_My_Friend · 2019-09-28T15:45:58+00:00

Jokes on her, I have my bumble age limit at 27 😂

Who the fuck wants a 28+ year old millennial woman? They are the most entitled, disloyal, masculine, and self righteous soul crushers to have existed. I don’t think modern women understand, men know millennial women are fucking WORTHLESS. The mere fact that they belong to a certain disdained generational group heavily stacks the odds against them. If there was a worm hole pumping in 29 year old women from 1944 in to major cities, their old asses would get wifed up immediately. They cook, clean, and serve. Millennial women are considered mythical legends if they can even be bothered to swipe their debit cards on a date. A millennial women who knows how to cook? I’m lucky if I meet a guy my age that has even changed their own oil once 😂

JerryNewton7 · 2019-09-28T14:44:55+00:00

The Wall strikes again.

Men looking for sex are going to prefer younger gals (in most cases), sorry. And men looking for a long relationship are going to prefer younger women too over worn out old single moms (I know the chick in the OP probably isn't a mother). It's common sense.

Young women usually get a lot of attention. They feel they are amazing and think the line of men wanting her is going to last forever. Then the reality of age hits them......

Sensei_Hensei · 2019-09-28T13:36:06+00:00

Hamster going at warp speed. "Is old not popular anymore because I a decent looking 31 year old is no longer getting matches".

anti-hypergamist · 2019-09-28T14:18:50+00:00

That old saying "Youth is wasted on the young"? Yeah, that applies here.

Westernhagen · 2019-09-28T16:45:43+00:00

31F: "Do men have age 29 or 30 as their cutoff?"

50M: "No, sweet thing, I'll date you even though you're 31."

31F: "Ewwww get lost old man I don't want your saggy balls!"

voiceofpersonality · 2019-09-28T14:51:14+00:00

Still higher than the average guy. Cry me a river.

Chad1Stevens · 2019-09-28T18:04:10+00:00

I was dating much, much younger than me and when that ended I ended up with a woman old enough to be my daughter (if I was a teen dad). I knew there was no future for it but I wanted to have fun.

The difference was night and day. My ex was a lot more balanced than most women but still went crazy when she went past thirty. The girl that just finished college just wanted sex, someone to go out with, someone to be there for her and everything was perfect. There is a huge difference when they hit thirty.

Thetrvler · 2019-09-28T14:24:23+00:00

I’m surprised it took this long. She must not live in a major city. Usually, worldwide, in any decent size city the cut-off is 25.

I say this all the time- a woman’s light burns twice as bright but only half as long.

WereNotGonnaFakeIt · 2019-09-28T16:59:26+00:00

I wonder if men feel the same way when they take their stats from 6' to 5'11

Kwen_Oellogg · 2019-09-28T14:15:17+00:00

Someone needs to tell that at her age she needs to use POF...

Just sayin

edgysecularist · 2019-09-28T15:39:15+00:00

They have no self awareness at all, its hilarious- THE WALL IS UNDEFEATED

houseoftolstoy · 2019-09-28T16:07:44+00:00

She certainly does not demonstrate wanting a relationship, since she seems more concerned about getting swaths of men wanting her rather than wanting one man. 10 percent of what you had is a lot less than she had, but it is not nothing. She is upset that she cannot use online dating as a form of validation rather than looking for a relationship. And I would guess those remaining 10 percent are not the studs she really wants.

Tough luck, she found out that male attention is not unconditional and wanes as you age. This could be a moment to become more humble and give some of these remaining guys a shot, but she is going to lose even that last 10 percent if she cannot be realistic.

spaceman_spliff777 · 2019-09-28T15:43:34+00:00

Don’t worry, baby, that’s just everyones favorite super hero—THE WALL!

Brickles09 · 2019-09-28T18:52:53+00:00

When you find out that life on tutorial mode is not forever.

theoracleofosiris · 2019-09-28T21:16:21+00:00

Filters.

Then they will make a new account, place themselves at the age they think the men they want, want. Then put in their description “I’m 33, idk why it’s says 23.” Like bitch you have to state your age everyone who has a profile knows that, who you think you’re kidding with that?

JanjaRobert · 2019-09-29T01:50:44+00:00

Is it common for men to have 29 or 30 as their cutoff?

Lol, should we tell her?

DiddyOrDiddyNot · 2019-09-30T11:20:52+00:00

I'm sure we've all seen the when his height starts with 5' meme. Maybe there should be a "when her age starts with 3 or higher" meme.

FoxIslander · 2019-09-28T16:10:38+00:00

Is it your age? YES...or is it that you are "bitter and jaded" YES.

Cats...lots of cats.

WhiskeyAndSunsets · 2019-09-28T16:37:00+00:00

"Hey guys, do you think my latent narcissism has anything to do with me being unable to get attention from men?" Said no woman ever.

The first one that does it will finally be touching the truth, albeit blindly.

fourthwallmotionless · 2019-09-28T17:47:02+00:00

I don't like to give women much control during sex, I'm more then happy to do 90% of the work, all she has to do is enjoy being fucked hard in the positions I want to fuck in, and keep me turned on and well stimulated when I take breaks. Other factors include a willingness and ability to give a good blowjob or get me off and make me happy however I want. If she's very animated, verbal, naturally submissive, can orgasm easily from penetration, those are great things in my book. Fantastic hygiene, smooth soft skin, smelling good, being well groomed are all a must.

xkulp8 · 2019-09-28T20:40:50+00:00

Meow meow

x6x6x61982 · 2019-09-28T16:53:54+00:00

Damn what a drop! Only 10% and she is already crying LOL

Imagine dropping from 100 men giving you attention to 90 now, ohh the horrors!

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2019-09-28T19:21:35+00:00

Bitch doesn't know Wall™.

heyheyitsdatboi · 2019-09-28T19:55:44+00:00

They STILL don’t get it

binrobinro · 2019-09-28T21:37:46+00:00

Try Grindr.

tamb2 · 2019-09-28T22:00:55+00:00

World priority one: invent completely realistic looking RealDolls.

onbakeplatinum · 2019-09-29T09:51:43+00:00

I'm so glad I have never been interested in dating and don't have to participate in these games

poetyaright123 · 2019-09-29T14:43:06+00:00

Update on the OP's story. Some one on the subreddit tried to give her solid advice of lowering her standards. Her response is as typical as you might think

"Basic supply and demand principles. It applies to dating market as well.

If what you're offering on the dating market isn't yielding the potential mate you're desiring, you have three options.

Increase your value

Decrease your demands

Stay single

You said you were attractive, you seemingly have your shit together, and there's no way to change age so based on my limited knowledge of you, I'm not sure how much more improvement you can do to materially increase your dating market value.

So that leaves 2 or 3. Life isn't a fairytale where everyone winds up with Prince or Princess Charming.

Just being real. Again, I wish you the best and hope you find someone you like some day."

Her repsonse was,

"I'm so confused. I've written in my op as well as all over these comments, and to you personally, that I am happy being single. I have a ton of relationship experience, I've never been dumped, I've broken up with all five of my exes... And you continue to act like I'm this desperate person who's getting hysterical that she'll be left on the shelf. I'm really sorry that I don't fit into your societal narrative, but I will never lower my standards."

robbirdin · 2019-09-29T09:08:36+00:00

ConradHensley · 2019-09-28T14:05:55+00:00

Because a woman's sexual value decreases and starts lowering exponentially after the age of sixteen.

A man's sexual value increases exponentially as he ages. This is why 60 year old men can bang 20 year olds.

Title	She doesn't understand why her match rate has suddenly gone down after she turned 30.
Author	poetyaright123
Upvotes	617
Comments	148
Date	September 28, 2019 12:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/daflcc/she_doesnt_understand_why_her_match_rate_has/
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