Speaks for itself

yoitsericc · 2021-05-22T20:55:38+00:00

Sexual pre-selection is real.

Women would rather bang a man who lives with his wife than a man who lives with his mother.

Aldabruzzo · 2021-05-22T21:16:09+00:00

And what this illustrates is:

1) Preselection - the fact another woman picked him makes him more attractive. Makes other women think "hmm. She picked him. I'd like to find out what's so great about him!" The inimitable Roissy put it: "No woman wants a man that no other woman wants."

2) Women don't care one bit about sleeping with attached men, men in relationships, or married men. They don't care if you're married or in a relationship.

3) Some women like married men because (a) they're less likely to have STDs; and (b) they're much less likely to want anything other than sex, and (c) they're much less likely to be violent or abusive, or have severe substance abuse problems.

Some women don't want relationships. They want to "date" and "have fun", which means they want men to take them out on dates, make them feel "special", and if the mood strikes them, have indiscriminate sex.

Cursedwithknowing · 2021-05-22T20:31:13+00:00

This does not surprise me. However, this could lead to some false rape allegations.

nsfcom · 2021-05-22T21:33:08+00:00

when I was in the Universality , I bought a unique silver ring it has rotating axle , I liked it I did not notice it could be used as a wedding ring, then I noticed the attention from girls they thought I was engaged or married .. it was weird but I kept the lie live just for fun.. back then I didn't know women where this kind of fucked.

SeriousMannequin · 2021-05-22T20:32:42+00:00

I was in the same position.

The ladies flirted with my friend because they felt the pride of having another man’s attention despite him having a wife at home.

The other being the ring is somehow a sign that this man provides. If they can get even the slightest attention from him then they will be rewarded.

Sort of a stamp of approval from another woman folk that this man is either not creepy or will put in the effort to please a woman.

I’ve seen a portion of the ladies on social media have starting to really taken to this lifestyle because they don’t have to be loaded down with housework and be stuck raising the kids at home.

These ladies enjoyed being single, gets showered with gifts with trips, and can safely disengaged with the wife comes calling.

After that they’re free to find another target.

IoSonCalaf · 2021-05-22T21:08:04+00:00

That’s also why women are attracted to widowers

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-05-22T22:03:58+00:00

I'm moving to a massive college town in a few months. I'm definitely doing this.

Necessite · 2021-05-22T21:34:50+00:00

That's fucking hilarious and trashy.

sicrm · 2021-05-22T21:59:16+00:00

confessing was stupid.

houseoftolstoy · 2021-05-23T01:51:16+00:00

If they were indeed outraged, what grounds do they have to be? That he was a liar? Well, that should be considered baked into the cake, as the very implication that he was cheating on his wife shows that he would be a dishonest man (lying goes hand in hand with cheating). Since the wife did not exist, the lie was simply placed on the women willing to sleep with a married man.

Also, it shows a real lack of ethics on the women's part if they are knowingly sleeping with a married man. So I see no standing for their outrage. Rather, it seems that they were mad about the fact that he used their own nature of preferring a preselected man against them, as it turns out the signal of preselection was manufactured. Perhaps those women would do better for themselves to actually vet for character rather than just see a man who other women find attractive as also attractive. But then again, they would not have slept with him in these circumstances in the first place if they had a real moral compass.

HannibleLectureS · 2021-05-22T22:15:36+00:00

Sooo. Get a fake wedding ring and I’ll get laid more often. Gotcha. 😉

JayMeadows · 2021-05-23T00:02:07+00:00

I slept with 2 guy's wives... both of which I didn't know were married at the time.

And they were willing, so if anything; "It takes two to tango."

Some married women like the attention. Don't always put the blame on men.

frog_man_jones · 2021-05-22T19:57:36+00:00

Reupload to redact info

Devilsgun · 2021-05-23T02:37:36+00:00

I've considered this move myself.

If you put a ring on it they'll like it, go fucking figure... I think it has to do with the notion that the 'stealing' lady believes that she has a genuine, certified ChadChecked™ male who is valuable enough to Some Other Bitch for her to tuck away her hoe card, and that if the 'cheating woman' can bag him that means she's better than the wife, in some weird twisted way... It's got nothing to do with 'the prize' she steals, it all has to do with her proving that she's sexy and desirable to hunky ChadChecked™ high-value males. She Still Got It.

yellomachine · 2021-05-22T22:09:19+00:00

Wow. We are a messed up species. I don't know what to say.

DoctorMars81 · 2021-05-23T01:54:40+00:00

Women don't want men that other women don't want. Even normies seem to accept this as fact.

LeBenisFace · 2021-05-23T01:11:08+00:00

This was a Seinfeld episode

redditradishman · 2021-05-23T14:03:39+00:00

They're fine breaking up a marriage, but get pissed if there's no marriage to destroy.

asdf333aza · 2021-05-23T01:52:53+00:00

Yeah, with how touch and go everything is nowadays, he'd probably get hit with a false grape allegation.

How dare you trick these women into thinking they were stealing another woman's man.

SombreNote · 2021-05-24T19:56:20+00:00

You ever hear the idea that it is easier to get a job when you already have a job? Weird that it works for sex as well.

sigh1961 · 2021-05-24T13:02:25+00:00

Long time reader, first time poster. I was blue-pilled for most of my youth, through two marriages, and when I finally took the red pill, I met the love of my life.

What I wanted to add to this conversation is my own experience with becoming a HVM once I had a ring on my finger. In high school, I was easily overlooked by girls. Tall, very thin, wore glasses and a good student. There was one girl in my class that everyone (males) considered to be the hottest girl in the entire school. As far as I recall, we never spoke, and I am certain she didn't know my name.

We held a five year reunion, and I went with my first wife, who had also been in my class. It seems that this girl and my wife had once worked at the same retail store during high school, so they were acquainted. When we walked into the venue, she came over to speak to my wife, I think mostly to see who she was with. She then proceeded to hit on me the rest of the evening, right in front of my wife!

I was still the same guy from high school, other than filling out a bit from loading trucks for UPS. She proceeded to tell me that I couldn't have graduated in her class, because she is sure she would have remembered me, etc. Touching my arm, fluttering her eyelashes at me.
It was so blatant and and disingenuous that it made me feel ill.

I shook her off and had a great time with my wife, laughing at her attempt to seduce me. We both decided that she was of the opinion that she was much higher value than my wife, and that she was going to show her that she could take away what she had any time she wanted. It didn't work, and I took my marriage vows seriously. But I think that experience, and a couple more that I had during that time, is what started me seeing women as they truly are.

My first marriage didn't work out, because you can't fix crazy, no matter how much you love someone.

Phillipsluke · 2021-05-25T00:08:51+00:00

I've tried this for about a week to see if it would work.

I got a few girls numbers, but because I don't like to lie ( never mentioned a wife or anything besides just wearing a ring on my ring finger) and felt uncomfortable so I took off the ring. The few girls I ended up exchanging numbers with noticed I wasn't wearing a ring anymore and asked if I was married. I told them I'm not and after that day they stopped talking to me ( all while in college). Girls only want what they can't have. It doesn't matter if you're attractive or not. If you're funny or taken they will be attracted to you.

Packerphan66 · 2021-05-22T22:34:54+00:00

Ok, so how does one size themselves for a ring?

Taint-Punch · 2021-05-23T16:30:17+00:00

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Alturius · 2021-05-25T09:25:17+00:00

The ring speaks to their subconscious cavewoman programming - that another woman has already validated him to be of some worth, which makes women skip their subconscious checklists as another woman has done all the hard work for them. The path of least resistance doesn't only apply to electrical circuits - anything for an easy ride and some women take it - like these women did.

jarod_what · 2021-05-22T21:50:31+00:00

I've been considering doing this. Haven't had the time.

EastEndMontrealer1 · 2021-05-23T00:36:00+00:00

This sounds like it could work, but also sounds extremely messed up

Darth_Horseman · 2021-05-23T02:13:08+00:00

Been there, done that.

NickTesla2018 · 2021-05-23T07:28:01+00:00

Like a boss lol

PaulMurrayCbr · 2021-05-23T08:02:02+00:00

Also known as wearing a "Costanza".

SCCock · 2021-05-23T14:36:28+00:00

What can I say, when I was 23 I used to take my friend's kids to the zoo.

See_Carolus_Rise · 2021-05-24T05:27:20+00:00

The first thing I'm going to do when I get to the West for my Master's is buy a wedding like fake ring. Thanks for the tip.

Harry_Teak · 2021-05-24T23:35:10+00:00

It does work. It's a simplified version of showing up at the watering hole with an attractive chick one weekend and showing up solo the next. Never been a fan of the trick though. A wedding ring shows weakness or at least lends itself to financial screening.

GundamZero83 · 2021-06-09T18:21:38+00:00

Women want what they can’t have.

Hall0wsEve666 · 2021-05-31T11:49:49+00:00

They are all the type of women who will never be a wife.

letmereaddamnit · 2021-06-02T03:20:20+00:00

I'll have to try that

throwdowntown69 · 2021-06-02T15:15:18+00:00

/r/thathappened

DownOnTheLow · 2021-06-06T19:56:39+00:00

Might just buy a few fake rings bling bling

CartNip · 2021-05-23T13:35:44+00:00

Sounds like a great way to get a false rape accusations

Gefan27 · 2021-05-23T14:25:50+00:00

Guy has to be out of his mind. If he hasn't been hit with a false allegation he's incredibly lucky.

Title	Speaks for itself
Author	frog_man_jones
Upvotes	1367
Comments	144
Date	May 22, 2021 7:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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