*** 5 Tips For Flirting With Women***

Flirting is something that DID NOT come natural to me. I was way too shy and uncomfortable around women to do anything close to flirting.

However, over the years I've stepped outside of my comfort zone and I've developed my own style of flirting that works effectively.

Here are some flirting tips that you can use to spice up your interactions with women.

1 Let Her Qualify Herself To You - Asking questions like "can you cook" or "are you a good kisser", are great ways to set a flirtatious vibe and get a woman to qualify herself to you.

When you ask these questions, you should do it in a playful manner so the woman knows you're not being serious, but you're just having a fun and flirtatious conversation.

If she qualifies herself to you then it's a great way to tell if she is interested. If she doesn't qualify herself to you then it means she isn't very interested but, it could also mean she is flirting back.

The best way to gauge if you should continue flirting with a woman is if she is smiling and laughing.

If she is smiling and laughing but she's not qualifying herself, then you can still keep flirting with her because she is probably just testing you to see if you can hold your frame or if you crumble at the first sign of resistance.

2 Let Her Know She's Not Ready For You - Another great way to flirt with women is to tease them about not being able to handle you.

Say things like "I don't think you are ready for me", or "I don't think you can handle this". Women love a man that is a challenge, and when you play that role confidently, she will perceive you to have high value.

I personally love using this form of flirting because it works very well because most men put women on a pedestal.

By framing myself as the challenge in the relationship it allows me to stand out from most guys and attraction is developed more effectively. I highly recommend you use this form of flirting if you want women to respond to you better.

3 Accuse Her Of Being Thirsty For You - This is a form of flirting that women tend to use on men, so it's always fun when you can flip the script and use it against women.

You can say things like, "I know you think I'm hot and stuff but I think we need to take it slow and just be friends first". The key to making this work is to keep a slight smirk on your face. She needs to know that you're just being flirtatious and not serious.

She should be laughing or at least smiling when you make these flirtatious comments. If she is not smiling or laughing during the interaction, then it means you're either coming off as a jerk, or you're not calibrating your comments correctly.

4 Accuse Her Of Being Shy - This form of flirting works best on women who are obviously not shy.

Accusing a woman of being shy around you is another way of saying, "I'm so hot that you can't even express yourself around me". You could say something like, "I know you're shy and all but if you like me and you want to go on a date, it's okay, you can have my number".

Once again, you need to say this with a slight smirk or at least say it in a playful tone where she can tell you're just being playful. The key to effective flirting, is to say something that might be cocky, but say it in a way where it's obvious that you're just teasing, or being flirtatious.

5 Tell Her It's Not Going To Work Out Between The Two Of You - This one is all about flipping the script and making it seem like she is trying to pick you up instead of you trying to pick her up.

When you tell a woman that you don't think it's going to work out between the two of you, you're basically giving her a taste of her own medicine. Women are typically the ones who make comments about how the relationship is not going to work out, which creates the frame that they're the prize and they have the power in the relationship.

So, this form of flirting is about controlling the frame and making it seem like you're the prize and you have the power to determine how the relationship goes.

For example, if she says something you don't approve of, you can respond by saying, "You know I don't think it's going to work out between the two of us, maybe you should ask that guy out over there, he seems like a nice guy".

But remember this is simply a form of flirting and it's not supposed to be serious. Keep it fun and playful. If done correctly, this flirtatious behavior will turn up the sexual tension, which will make you more sexually attractive.