should I only approach girls that give clear iois?

Motoreducteur · 2022-10-01T21:36:03+00:00

There are 100 girls. 10 seem to look at you.

Do you have higher chances to get something by talking to only the 10 who look at you, or by talking to the 100 girls?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-10-01T22:16:20+00:00

Nope, Dont wait for an ioi. You never know when a girl is too shy to give a green light or she is playing hard to get, plus you never know when the very act of approaching can make her become interested when she previously wasnt.. since the dawn of time it was the man's job to court the woman,, and despite woke society this is biologically hardwired, you should be the one giving the first ioi if anything..This does not mean ignore red lights, if u approach or try to talk and she gives u the r.b.f. or she's mad rude turn right around and walk.

NOVAcaledonia268 · 2022-10-02T02:24:22+00:00

If men started only pursuing women who gave them clear indicators of sexual interest, the human species would become extinct.

Women usually only give IOIs to guys they find really attractive, which happens to be rare. And when they do, is something vague and indirect like being in your vicinity for a longer period of time or looking at you for a bit longer. Women are extremely passive in this regard and will continue to be for the foreseeable future.

If you wait for a clear IOI from women to approach, you're probably depriving yourself of getting to know and possibly hooking up/having a sexual relationship with many women.

V-Future · 2022-10-02T06:31:46+00:00

I only approach girls who send me IOI's. It's a lot better than forcing conversations with women who don't notice me. Just hang out with girls who are really into you if you want to avoid boring dates and frustrating, awkward and forced relationships with women.

Some women are naturally attracted to you, they are a blessing, they are wonderful to be around. They make the life worth living. Remember, attraction is not a choice, is not negotiable. It just happens, just be sure to know what you are doing.

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-01T21:36:20+00:00

dude, what do you think is right? that's the only correct answer. plenty of dudes will say 'you miss 100% of the shots etc' and advise marching up to random women but personally i leave people alone unless there is a natural way to begin a conversation. don't go against what you feel is wrong.

Senior-Dot387 · 2022-10-01T22:41:36+00:00

ioi??

MeanYeti · 2022-10-01T21:37:53+00:00

I would only approach girls that give ioi's, but they literally never do. So all I can do is approach everyone and hope I don't get reported for harassment and expelled.

5_7pickup · 2022-10-02T05:39:03+00:00

Just approach regardless of IOIs. IOI is a made up concept by men who are afraid of rejection. It’s just a buffer to rejection. Who knows if she’s giving you IOIs or she’s just staring into space. Who knows if she’s smiling intentionally at you vs she just thought of something funny.

If you only approach when you get IOIs then you’ll miss out on countless opportunities.

This isn’t theory btw. This is field tested. Guess how many girls I would have hooked up with in the last year if i relied on IOIs? 0. But instead, I just approach when I want to approach and that’s resulted in me hooking up with dozens of girls in 13 months. Refer to my field reports to see for yourself.

revente · 2022-10-01T22:37:57+00:00

No.

Approach the girls you like the most.

Remote_Transition_34 · 2022-10-02T11:41:54+00:00

I have seen a friend consistently turn “go away” into “wait aren’t you going to take my phone number”

Perfect_War5446 · 2022-10-02T01:58:35+00:00

Yes, always wait for choosing signals

Woujo · 2022-10-02T02:58:01+00:00

No. Approach anybody you want. If they are not interested they will make it clear.

2022-10-02T05:35:46+00:00

I'm just curious on what guys do when no girl gives them IOIs, are they just screwed then?

incognito3107 · 2022-10-02T07:43:30+00:00

Not necessarily. But you should stay aware of your emotions and mood around.

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-10-02T16:11:22+00:00

Yeah. IOI are so obvious.

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-10-02T17:05:24+00:00

Fuck no. Don't wait for an IOI to approach.

I think that out of the girls I have had sex with (some 20+ number), it may have been 1 or 2 or a handful that gave me an IOI first.

What if she hasn't seen you yet? You want to wait around until she looks at you to approach? And if you don't read an IOI that means there's no chance? Hell no. Just go in.

Reasonable-Pea-2772 · 2022-10-02T21:22:31+00:00

Yes. Approaching girls not giving you signals is a sign of poor emotional intelligence. Women wanting approached always give clear signals. Most men don't or can't read them though.

montanalombardy · 2022-10-03T06:41:56+00:00

I'd say yes but IOIs are usually so subtle and men are so oblivious that you will probably lose a lot of chances if you wait until you see an IOI.

Ozy13 · 2022-10-03T15:59:12+00:00

Title	should I only approach girls that give clear iois?
Author	qurfy
Upvotes	5
Comments	32
Date	October 1, 2022 9:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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