A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)

SenorAlfredo · 2011-10-04T17:42:00+00:00

That's also what I do when I've forgotten her name.

I think the most important thing about this is that you had a good conversation with him, felt comfortable, and then he told you to give him the number rather than asking for it. Good man :)

govnah · 2011-10-05T01:15:51+00:00

ive done this. except i threw the phone at her while drunk. she was ready for it though and a good sport in catching it.

words: me - hey.. youre cool. put you're thing in that. her - catch ::laughing::

good stuff.

WolfInTheField · 2011-10-04T19:04:29+00:00

This is basically the first thing most of us learned :P But if some newby picks this up, it's good advice.

I also like this one: Man up and fucking tell her that you think she's hot/cool/awesome, and you want her number, like james bond on acid. :D

t0dk0n · 2011-10-04T19:46:31+00:00

I pretty much do this with most of the girls I get numbers from. We talk for a good bit, while she's talking about something; I'll put her name in my phone and just hand it over without saying anything and instead look straight into her eyes and listen attentively, commenting/buzzing into convo when it's my cue. After we finish the thought, I then try to arrange some immediate 'date' where I proclaim how I couldn't forgive myself if I didn't get to know them more. Anyway, most girls seem to like my style lol. Only time it didn't work was when I was way tired in the AM taking a night owl bus home where I hadn't built enough rapport and the girl tried to give me her facebook (which I don't fuck with) hahaha.

porphyry3 · 2011-10-04T18:18:19+00:00

I guess it's a common technique used by sedditors

gui77 · 2011-10-04T22:15:12+00:00

a good convo that you'd like to continue

This is key. You want to ask her for her number at the peak, the apex, the best part (or a very good point) of your conversation. You do not want to ask for her number as a way to "salvage" the conversation once it goes south.

_aserettt · 2011-10-04T18:29:23+00:00

I almost NEVER give out my number. EVER.

What do you say when guys ask? I never figured out this one :S

2011-10-04T19:49:51+00:00

That's called confidence. Instead of giving his number to you and hope he calls, or texting you hoping you text back, he gets straight to the pont.

barnesa90 · 2011-10-05T17:01:10+00:00

Girl here. This has happened to me and it's super awkward so even if you don't like the guy, you feel compelled to give him your number. Sometimes, if I don't have my phone in my hand, I'll give him a fake number; that clearly doesn't work if he proceeds to call you right after while you're still in his presence. But if I do give him my number out of pity, I'll probably ignore his texts and calls until he gets the hint.

Paramorgue · 2011-10-04T21:09:38+00:00

Yup thats how i always do it too...works like a charm :)

ialsolovebees · 2011-10-05T01:52:24+00:00

Was he handsome and/or attractive?

nextAccount · 2011-10-05T05:20:34+00:00

Thanks for sharing this - I for one appreciate the female perspective on something like this working.

sirolf · 2011-10-04T18:41:34+00:00

^{_^}

I liked it until this part

JacksInflatedEgo · 2011-10-04T18:10:36+00:00

Apply the Wadsworth Constant.

nojoebe · 2011-10-04T20:05:12+00:00

Also the whole prerequisite of him probably being attractive and fit... You forgot that part.

RedErin · 2011-10-04T19:09:43+00:00

Yep, this is common Seddit advice. Sounds like you got picked up by a pua. :)

They're much more fun than regular guys amirite?

cody_au · 2011-10-05T02:42:22+00:00

Basic advice. If you're not doing this, you're an idiot.

blit · 2011-10-04T22:58:29+00:00

When handing it to her, maybe add for humor "If it starts with 555 that's okay..."

TENAXIS · 2011-10-04T23:48:41+00:00

i've been taking numbers like that for the past 4 years (18). I thought that was the most-BASIC line to ask for a number.

How did other people ask for numbers??

cryer · 2011-10-05T00:31:56+00:00

Ok, but the question is what happens next? Does he call you? Text you? How long until he does? What does he say when he calls? Or when he texts? And do you respond?

Also, this is interesting I guess but I honestly thought it was obvious. If you're having a good time conversing with a girl and it's going smoothly and both people are relaxed, then of course you'll ask her for her number. But I suppose the difference is it was in mid-conversation? I honestly think that would be weird. A sudden change of topic.

Also, I have less of a problem asking for a number after already being comfortable and having a good time with a girl. That's not so much an issue (though it can still not go well, sure) - the major issue is the approach and finding something to say (that lasts) and not look stupid.

iantheaardvark · 2011-10-05T00:34:55+00:00

The real question is: have you banged yet?

baianobranco · 2011-10-05T03:04:38+00:00

I've definitely done that, that way I get her name spelled right!

no_dating · 2011-10-05T16:24:35+00:00

This gets you the number just fine.

What I want to know is did you pick up his calls?

2011-10-04T22:49:34+00:00

groomsmen: want.

Polemicist82 · 2011-10-05T01:45:40+00:00

That's always good advice

Jrix · 2011-10-04T20:27:42+00:00

Admit it, you want to downvote so badly but you can't possibly think to harm this naive cute little soul.

2011-10-04T21:54:18+00:00

bink1time · 2011-10-05T03:23:45+00:00

So some guy asked for your number in a social circle setting. In the most standard way possible. And you decided that this was the most revolutionary thing and merited a post.

Why thank you godly woman. What would I ever do without you.

th1nker · 2011-10-06T03:44:20+00:00

Wow, why didn't I ever think about that. So you're pretty cool, can I have your number so we can talk more? (I'm perfectly casual by the way)

Title	A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)
Author	miss-mafiosa
Upvotes	61
Comments	94
Date	October 4, 2011 5:07 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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