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RandianHero · 2014-04-10T19:53:44+00:00

That's how it's done. Now remember that moment and do it again and again until it's automatic.

TheSicilianDude · 2014-04-10T21:38:01+00:00

Yup, I pretty much had the same revelation. "Holy shit, that was ALL it took? Just having the balls to say something?"

You never know what you're capable of until you try it.

Anyway, shoot her a text within the next day or so and get something set up with this chick, then report back to us ;)

stfuendie · 2014-04-11T09:57:21+00:00

wait 2 years to call her, you'll look desperate otherwise.

Xkirbyx · 2014-04-10T22:59:10+00:00

You glorious mother fucker puff up your chest once more and be proud of yourself for having the sack to do what you did.

reduser80 · 2014-04-11T03:11:06+00:00

Odds are you should not keep your long hair.

coughcoughpow · 2014-04-11T09:59:43+00:00

Send this guy some condoms ASAP.

And a tarp to cover his gigantic balls.

HoboSomeRye · 2014-04-11T12:32:51+00:00

Guys care what a girl looks like.

Girls care what a guy makes her feel like.

That's all.

Thr0wnAwaay · 2014-04-11T02:29:33+00:00

A guy doesn't have to be gorgeous to wow me with confidence. Not swagger, not arrogance, but confidence. It's sexy to see a man who feels good in his own skin, and isn't afraid to let me know he likes me in mine. Keep the momentum going, little buddy!

BlueRaspberry · 2014-04-11T08:24:56+00:00

This is my new favorite seddit thread ever.

2014-04-11T02:16:57+00:00

Well done! Haircuts and working out will help I guarantee but nevertheless the confidence is awesome!

2014-04-10T22:33:07+00:00

You did it once now you have it in you to do it over and over again. Welcome to the world man

rmbarnes · 2014-04-11T11:54:53+00:00

I'm short, pale, scrawny and my long hair often looks like the ass end of an abused horse.

All of those things (apart from short) can, and should, be fixed by you.

GoP-Demon · 2014-04-11T14:08:22+00:00

just tell her to get a diet coke?

Tell us if the number is real...

canthisbechanged · 2014-04-10T20:43:18+00:00

You're on your way to becoming a PUA. Keep on the going and that inner game will come about.

lovestoalt · 2014-04-11T00:38:47+00:00

What kind of compliments did you say to her?

sloshslapper · 2014-04-11T12:17:11+00:00

Way to play with her mortality. Never thought of that before.

ex0th3rmic · 2014-04-11T14:47:57+00:00

"Sometimes all you need is 5 minutes of bravery. Literally, 5 minutes of 'fuck it, let's see what happens', and life will fall into place." Or there's a quote similar to that...

throwawaybitchs · 2014-04-12T02:48:11+00:00

Cut your hair, call her, and fuck her.

BaronTheBear · 2014-04-11T03:34:50+00:00

Number is the easy part, now let the games begin!

Allen_Yuan · 2014-04-11T05:44:39+00:00

Good job bud. Now go out and get em'.

(inbedontheirknees)

hinkraka · 2014-04-11T07:08:07+00:00

You go man! That's the way, aha aha, I like it, aha aha!

Revelation 101!

NAILGUNSODOMY · 2014-04-11T08:14:44+00:00

I had exactly the same thing recently, with that eureka moment. Feel so damn good.

One thing I'd probably say though, as amazing as this is, it sounds like you were panning off a load of compliments to her; I wouldn't give too many compliments personally, rather make her work for the other side of the interaction, as it will make her invest more, than you just saying all of these nice things to her.

It's like the Millionaire in the Club analogy RSD Julien says, where you have to act like you are both millionaires; you aren't one of these poor beggars coming up and just trying to get a quick slice of the money, rather you are on her same level.

TheCi · 2014-04-11T11:44:14+00:00

Ah, the "I-don't-give-a-fuck" mentallity; always works! It's basicly a win-win. You do it, the worst that could happen is she says no and leaves you behind; nothing lost. The best, well, we already know the answer.

Scotlandpal · 2014-04-11T13:59:32+00:00

You've established she's a beautiful woman in your mind to her. Time to walk through that door and find things in common ;-)

Bogidan · 2014-04-11T14:00:17+00:00

I am now terrified, and nauseous

I just love your reaction. It perfectly describes every conversation I ever have with a girl I like.

2014-04-11T14:09:35+00:00

Keep that confidence tone down the compliments. Pick-up is the prime example of practice makes perfect. You have to get lots of field experience to really start to understand what works and most importantly, what doesn't.

joshsway · 2014-04-11T15:16:43+00:00

good job, that's a great start! However, what is this about being pale, scrawny, and with ugly long hair? Fix that! Go to the gym, get tan, and cut your nasty hair :)

kodozoku · 2014-04-11T16:17:41+00:00

Keep faking confidence and one day you won't be faking it anymore.

2014-04-11T18:21:04+00:00

Welcome to the game.

A_Suffering_Panda · 2014-04-12T02:28:24+00:00

Relevant Doctor Who

AntixD · 2014-04-12T06:32:44+00:00

how old are you? and how long have you been practicing/reading seduction?

afCee · 2014-04-20T14:51:43+00:00

So, how did it go?

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-04-11T00:29:01+00:00

I am now terrified, and nauseous, sitting in my car with her phone number and a promise for a call in the not too distant future.

That's adrenaline that you're not used to yet. It's a huge thrill; I still feel it to this day after an approach!

2014-04-11T10:51:25+00:00

What did you say to her dude?

Sour_J · 2014-04-11T12:41:07+00:00

Did you get the digits?

wtfiskik · 2014-04-11T09:00:50+00:00

Yeah bud you got lucky, congrats

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