A guy on Quora asks: "What's the best way to impress a girl?"... here's the (short) answer.

SirByron · 2015-12-17T18:57:14+00:00

Excellent holistic 360 answer. Very difficult question, well summed up. You may want to also mention the visual aspect - style, fashion, looks. They also matter today as the media is priming the mind non-stop for implicit visually judgments.

DeeJason · 2015-12-18T02:46:15+00:00

The best part of the answe is this

"Keep the date moving to keep it interesting.Sitting at a table eating dinner for 2 hours is a HARD date to keep interesting. Moving to multiple venues (ie, coffee, then food then drinks somewhere else) can really help keep things interesting."

Interversity · 2015-12-18T05:39:28+00:00

Fantastic answer. I think the most important part to note is this:

The first thing you need to know is that you don't impress a girl by doing something, but by being someone. The things you do are only relevant so much as they illustrate what kind of person you are. So don't take the attitude of doing something to impress a girl, instead be an impressive man and things will take care of themselves.

This is the core idea that creates lasting improvement. PUA tactics, seduction techniques, lines, routines, they can be helpful with the social aspect, but nothing can take the place of improving yourself in all respects, and very little real change can be accomplished without serious time spent focusing on who you are, who you want to be, and why.

Really great response. Thank you.

thekidbass · 2015-12-18T13:47:57+00:00

So.... Models.

test_tickles · 2015-12-18T13:59:25+00:00

if you have to impress a girl to like you, you will have to always impress her to keep her.. you are all young and full of energy, and are focused on a singe task of getting laid, but you will run out of energy one day, and the beast will get you.

jlstitt · 2015-12-18T00:49:06+00:00

Did not read. Quora tried to make me login or some shit.

mesmeriz · 2015-12-18T13:10:46+00:00

Does this work as well when it's the other way around? (Meaning girl impressing a guy?)

BenGunnSilver · 2015-12-17T19:39:44+00:00

I've seen guys in rags seduce well-dressed, hot women.

1.Height. 2. Looks.(handsome face, perfect teeth, perfect hair etc) 3. Muscles. 4.Big cock(to keep them around)

Fashion and style and all that shit doesn't work.

Title	A guy on Quora asks: "What's the best way to impress a girl?"... here's the (short) answer.
Author	Tenmagnet
Upvotes	280
Comments	57
Date	December 17, 2015 6:24 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3x8sds/a_guy_on_quora_asks_whats_the_best_way_to_impress/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/a-guy-on-quora-asks-whats-the-best-way-to-impress.1399285 https://theredarchive.com/post/1399285

Comments