1) Not everyone will like you, and it isn't always about something you can control.

2) For the ones that do, confidence really is key. For example, when I got her number I kissed her on her cheek. She smiled, and asked why I did that, and I said, "Because I wanted to." She smiled, and said, "That was different."

3) Be different, but be you. Don't be afraid to be who you genuinely are - I happen to be a raunchy person - and if you're trying to meet the right one (note: I am trying to meet my next girlfriend) you have to be who you are.

4) Don't use canned lines, in fact, say something random. My opener? "Hey, so I hear there are vampire women running around tonight." It was the first thing out of my mouth, and I went with it while smiling.

5) Smile - you can say stupid shit and it appears joking, you can flirt and seem more flirty, you can smile to be friendly and convey interest.

6) Actually be interested in her. Girls know when you're pulling an act on every girl you see, so make her feel special as they want to feel this way (and want to know you can pull another girl). Check this out for more proof.

7) Get to know her, and have some standards, and don't just accept her because she has a vagina. Call her on shit, laugh AT her, laugh WITH her, ask questions, tell stories.

8) Be normal - seriously, don't act, don't think about all the rules of seduction. Just own it, and be who you are.

9) Practice - getting over approach anxiety, and seeing success, and having things come natural to you are a direct feedback of this and rule number one.

10) The power of touch - if a girl touches you, it makes you feel something, right? Well, so do men to girls - harness that sexuality and use it without being a fucking pervert.

11) The power of rapport - women are ingrained with the idea that men are malevolent creatures who can hurt them. Making them comfortable is, arguably, even more important than flirting with clear intention. Why? Because by talking to a girl you don't know they CLEAR AS DAY know why you're there. Just as you would never meet up with a salesman who seems like he's only trying to benefit himself, you want to be the person who makes them feel comfortable. A salesman who makes you feel comfortable and makes you feel like they're not trying to trick you will get the sale.

12) DON'T FUCKING OVERANALYZE. This is the WORST mistake you can make. It'll mess you up completely.