Good pick up lines/Openers

Matter_Still · 2026-05-29T12:31:13+00:00

I’m going to tell you something that is rarely mentioned because it’s so obvious: what you say should be determined by the time and place. That is, the setting dictates the approach. What works on an airplane may not be the best way to go in a museum or at the beach.

Most of all, just think about what you are comfortable with.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-29T11:24:19+00:00

the best opener I've found is "do you know a good place to get coffee around here?"

Why? because the next thing you do after chatting is invite her to get that coffee with you.

Terrible_Assist_1345 · 2026-05-29T11:12:49+00:00

You don't have to be smooth. You have to be true. It's not about what you say but the delivery behind it.

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-05-29T13:37:59+00:00

“Hello”

epimpstyle · 2026-05-29T12:13:42+00:00

Excuse me... does this sidewalk actually lead anywhere, or am I just walking in a very straight circle?

SithLordJediMaster · 2026-05-29T14:29:54+00:00

"How you doin?" - Joey from Friends

plz_callme_swarley · 2026-05-29T15:47:15+00:00

comment on something she's wearing that's not sexual like her shoes or something.

or if it's some place that you go to regularly like the grocery store or the gym say "I think I've seen you around here before." even tho you havent

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-05-29T12:11:12+00:00

Here’s some lines that have worked for me in the past:

“Is that your real hair?”
“I want to get to know you on an emotional level”
“Stop, I’m not a piece of meat… I have feelings”
“I want to put a baby in you, you’d make a great single mother.”
“dance with my friend, he’s shy”
“wow.. just because I’m white?”
“Can I just have half an hour with her? That’s about how long I last”
“no don’t worry, it’s really small, she won’t even feel it.” Good follow up is to tell her to grab your pinky, and then say it’s like that
“you’re cute, too bad I’m gay.”
- we’d make terrible babies
- Hush, men are talking
- “why are you stomping?”
start a thumb war

These mainly work because I find them hilarious and it’s obvious I’m joking, and they’re ballsy enough that they display a ton of confidence.

Idk if any of these are amazing openers, but good for creating banter. Biggest thing to improve open rate in my experience is doing them over your shoulder to the girl behind you. Just takes so much pressure off the girl. To initiate conversations l’ll often laugh at something silly they do first, or compliment their hair or nails. Or ask an incredulous question: “wait do you work here???” These are normally night-game lines, probably not suitable for day game

Then to get to the hook point, any cold read. “It’s giving libra energy. No I just can’t with Libra’s.”

Trinidadthai · 2026-05-29T14:36:48+00:00

Unless there is a situational opener, for example your both looking at the same thing, something happened in your environment or whatever - direct is best for me.

Just tell them I think they’re cute, beautiful, I like something about them or whatever.

Green-Impression-410 · 2026-05-29T18:16:01+00:00

If you need a line to start a conversation, you have already lost. Just walk up and say hi like a human being instead of trying to hit them with a rehearsed script that makes everyone uncomfortable.

SilverFoxBurner · 2026-05-29T21:12:25+00:00

I had a hot mail lady deliver mail to my house. One day I yelled at her from across the lawn, “hey, nice socks wanna fuck?

She laughed and said no… but she gave me a smile everyday I saw her after that! 🫠

swallowedbymonsters · 2026-05-29T18:59:45+00:00

Just talk to them, no need for corny pick up lines

DirtyJohnny88 · 2026-05-30T05:18:42+00:00

Fellas fellas, these are all really good sugestion but I need straight up pick up lines. I need to know exactly what to say

abcsofattraction · 2026-05-30T19:09:11+00:00

Easiest, lowest rejection opener for night time venues is the simple Cheers opener. “Cheers, my names XYZ, what’s yours? You guys seem friendly blah blah blah.”

It also serves as a good diagnostic tool because saying Cheers at a bar is completely normal and socially understood interaction by everyone. If you can’t even get half of people to Cheers you back, then that means there’s something off with your subcommunication like BL, facial expressions, energy and tonality.

More on the Cheers opener here: https://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/kickstarter-opener-use-science-backed-therapy-to-overcome-approach-anxiety-and-talk-to-women

Acrobatic_Canary_950 · 2026-05-31T09:54:31+00:00

I am 24 M bored DM anyone if intrested

ethicalhooping · 2026-06-04T14:52:01+00:00

Just say hi and let the conversation flow. My hi usually goes into asking what she's up to, seeing if she's free to hang right now or tonight. Giving her my number if one of us doesn't have time to hang out immediately

Maleficent-Quaillie · 2026-05-29T13:51:13+00:00

Opener are for coke not friends

Icy-War218 · 2026-05-29T11:35:11+00:00

Just walk upto her and say excuse me (get her attention) I gotta be honest I saw you from over there and you have beautiful energy.

Excuse me I was about to leave but I saw you and you're pretty beautiful so I have to come up and say hi

Hey excuse I just saw you You look really nice I just wanted to say hello

Walking upto her take balls and you don't have to be perfect just try.

Title	Good pick up lines/Openers
Author	DirtyJohnny88
Upvotes	34
Comments	39
Date	May 29, 2026 11:09 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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